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Drafting Our Daughters: Why do American men no longer have a godly affection for their daughters?
http://covenantnews.com/trewhella030520.htm ^ | Matt Trewhella

Posted on 09/24/2003 8:21:32 AM PDT by xzins

 

In January of this year, 2003, a bill was introduced both in the U.S. Senate and the House of Representatives which would re-institute the military draft. This bill would not only allow the government to draft our sons however (as bad as that is itself), but it would also allow the government to draft our daughters into the military for two years.

Recently, I was listening to a Christian radio talk show discussing this bill. The question laid out to the Christian men was - what do you think about the government wanting to draft your daughters into the military for two years? I was appalled and amazed by the responses I heard. All of the callers except one thought it would be just fine for the government to take their daughters for two years. A few of the common responses given for such thinking were - “We live in different times now” and “The women wanted this equality, so it’s only fair” and “With all the government does for us, we should be willing to let them (our daughters) give two years of their life for them.”

As I listened to caller after caller, Christian man after Christian man, declare how willing they were to give up their daughters to the government for two years, I realized how far gone we are as a nation. When Christian men can speak this way about their daughters they have lost a godly affection for their daughters. When you hear this kind of perverse talk, American men have forgotten their God-given function as fathers.

What has made American men this way? Why do they no longer have a godly affection for their daughters? Why don’t they know how to function as fathers?

There are two main causes.

Number One: American men no longer have a godly affection for their daughters and have forgotten their roles as father because the way that Americans raise their children causes an unnatural separation between parent and child.

This is seen from an early age. Many men have their wives return to work after their maternal leave time expires after giving birth to their child. So the child is taken away from the parents and goes to daycare. When the child turns four or five, they are off to the government school. Again, the child is separated from the parents, and this continues to adulthood. Most men send their children away from them at church too. They don’t act as priests in their homes and instruct their children in the faith, rather they dump them off on the church with it’s host of kiddy programs to supposedly do the job.

This bill would allow the government to draft our daughters into the military for two years.

When the child gets older, most men allow their daughters to date. They send them away with a young man alone, rather than establishing some form of godly courtship, hence denying their role as protector. Finally, most men want their daughters out of the house once they turn eighteen. Most do so by sending their daughters away to the university.

This is how most American men raise their children and rule their homes. This is how most Christian men raise their children and rule their homes. My point is that this causes an unnatural separation between parent and child. Because of the separation which has been occurring since a young age and throughout the child’s life, it is easy for a man to say - “With all the government does for us, of course I’m willing to let them have my daughter for two years.” It’s easy because he’s already been separated from her all his life!

Number Two: American men no longer have a godly affection for their daughters and have forgotten their roles as father because the State has become father.

Men are to be providers, protectors, and priests to their homes. Most men no longer know or exercise these roles as father because the State has assumed the role of father. Herbert Schlossberg, in his book Idols for Destruction, best defines my assertion here. Schlossberg states:

Rulers have ever been tempted to play the role of father to their people. The father is the symbol not only of authority but also of provision. “Our Father who art in heaven...Give us this day our daily bread” (Mt.6:9,11). Looking to the State for sustenance is a cultic act [an act of worship]; we learn to expect food from parents, and when we regard the State as the source of physical provision we render to it the obeisance of idolatry. The crowds who had fed on the multiplied loaves and fishes were ready to receive Christ as their ruler, not because of who He was but because of the provision. John Howard Yoder has rightly interpreted that scene: “The distribution of the bread moved the crowd to acclaim Jesus as the new Moses, the provider, the Welfare King whom they had been waiting for.”

This statement by Schlossberg encapsulates what I mean when I say the State has become father. Men no longer know what it means to be men or fathers anymore because the State has become father. They’re still dependent little boys who’ve never grown up. All is taken care of for them. They’ve never learned what responsibility means because the State takes care of every desire, whim and need. Men have a duty as fathers to be providers, protectors, and priests to their homes,

The draft is the ultimate expression and evidence that the State has assumed the role of father.

and the State wants to take that out of men’s hands and assume the roles of father.

Schlossberg goes on to state:
The paternal State not only feeds its children, but nurtures, educates, comforts, and disciplines them, providing all they need for their security. Once we sink to that level, as C.S. Lewis says, there is no point in telling state officials to mind their own business. “Our lives are their business.” The paternalism of the State is that of a bad parent who wants his children dependent on him forever. That is an evil impulse. The good parent prepares his children for independence, trains them to make responsible decisions, knows that he harms them by not helping them to break loose. The paternal State thrives on dependency. When the dependents free themselves, it loses power. It is, therefore, parasitic on the very persons whom it turns into parasites. Thus, the State and its dependents march symbiotically to destruction.

The tyrant Diocletian, Emperor of Rome, in 301 A.D., declared the State to be “the watchful parents of the whole human race.” The State wanting to take our daughters away and draft them into the military is the ultimate expression and evidence that the State believes it is father, and has assumed the role of father.

When Christian men allow the State to get away with this, they have abrogated their God-given duty and roles as fathers.





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Interesting thoughts about statist paternalism.

While I believe there is a time of national emergency when a draft is necessary, I find his ideas of fatherly responsibility to their daughters to be thought provoking.

Jessica Lynch went through what I don't want for my daughter. She was a volunteer.

But, do I have a responsibility to oppose the state when it wants to FORCE my daughter into military service in a way that I would not oppose it when it comes for my son?

1 posted on 09/24/2003 8:21:33 AM PDT by xzins
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Ping.

2 posted on 09/24/2003 8:23:07 AM PDT by xzins (How shall they hear?)
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To: xzins
BTTT

read later...
3 posted on 09/24/2003 8:32:40 AM PDT by EdReform (Support Free Republic - Become a Monthly Donor)
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To: xzins
Government coercion is nasty, whether applied to male or female.

The author misses the point -- it's the draft that's bad, not that it might be applied to females. Otherwise, I might argue that my little girl (now 16) should be "protected" from paying income tax while my son should feel the full brunt.

High-tech warfare is now to the point where conscripts would mainly serve to get in the way. If we need qualified people, spread the burden around, run a deficit, and offer "huge" recruiting bonuses (e.g., no income tax for the rest of your life).

4 posted on 09/24/2003 8:34:00 AM PDT by AZLiberty
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To: xzins
The "state" accords enormous preferences to women across the board; from huge income transfer programs like Social Security (which lopsidedly goes to elderly white women) to medicaid, food stamps,etc which goes mostly to women to biased , predatory ,unconstitutional divorce law and college quota preferences like Title IX and so on .

So.. now we're suppose to say women should get out of national service conscription so they can get their college degrees or work or whatever, while men go to get killed? F&ck that. In for a dime, in for a dollar. Change the rest of it, and then you can change this.

5 posted on 09/24/2003 8:34:24 AM PDT by Nonstatist
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To: AZLiberty; Nonstatist
That's the point of the author.

We not only base our positions on some competition between the sexes, but we have no love for our own daughters. To support another man's daughter being eligible for the draft is to throw my beautiful daughters into places that they should not be.

Shouldn't our hearts be turned to a special protectiveness for our daughters, our wives, the mothers and future mothers of our children?

Have our hearts turned to stone?

6 posted on 09/24/2003 8:38:57 AM PDT by xzins (How shall they hear?)
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To: AZLiberty
. If we need qualified people, spread the burden around, run a deficit, and offer "huge" recruiting bonuses (e.g., no income tax for the rest of your life).

Or quit teaching them to hate their country, civilization, and way of life in school, so they might be more willing to volunteer to defend it all.

7 posted on 09/24/2003 8:40:03 AM PDT by zeromus
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To: Nonstatist
I'm against women in th military altogether. It is not about ability; I am sure that there are women who can fight as well as men (the SF author and ex-Marine Elizabeth Moon comes to mind). There simply are better things for them to be doing.

That said, since the feminists have screwed everything else up, draft 'em. If men have to register for the draft, so should women.
8 posted on 09/24/2003 8:41:24 AM PDT by Little Ray (When in trouble, when in doubt, run in circles, scream and shout!)
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To: xzins
Are we to love our daughters more than our sons? As the father of 2 sons, no daughters - I have to ask, our my sons less valuable than someone else's daughters? I don't think so.
9 posted on 09/24/2003 8:41:54 AM PDT by familyofman
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To: xzins
What bill is it? Who submitted it? Who are the co-sponsors? What is the status?
10 posted on 09/24/2003 8:43:28 AM PDT by Tribune7
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To: xzins
I will go back before my daughter goes forcefully....

I don't think we are ready as a society to face compulsory military service for our daughters... unless there are strict rules about what combat related duties they will be allowed to engage in... also, who here did not want to have a four figure enemy body count during the rescue of Jessica Lynch

11 posted on 09/24/2003 8:43:56 AM PDT by dwd1 (M. h. D. (Master of Hate and Discontent))
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To: familyofman
We are to love our daughters differently than we love our sons.

We should train our sons to be virile, dangerous Godly protecters.

We should train our daughters to be gentle, insightful Godly nurturers.
12 posted on 09/24/2003 8:45:35 AM PDT by xzins (How shall they hear?)
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To: xzins
So what's the deal, we are not suppose to have a God-given love for our sons. What crap! The draft would suck for ALL our children. I have four daughters and would fight against the draft until the bitter end, but would never accept that my family was exempt from the risk that others were asked to bear. The family across the street has four boys. Should they be asked to bear more just because of their father's inability to make female spermatozoa? In a true national emergency like WWII, all must be willing to sacrifice for this great nation.

Agree with the comments about no place for conscripts in todays Army, but in the face of a true fight for survival as a nation; they would not be enough. Even old farts like me would have to take up arms against enemies foreign and domestic.
13 posted on 09/24/2003 8:45:50 AM PDT by WilliamWallace1999
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To: xzins
is to throw my beautiful daughters into places that they should not be.

Your beautiful daughters (and mine) would be conscripted but not sent to the front line, under current or proposed law.

Should they get out of conscription if men are being drafted? Sorry, but I have eyes and I can see that almost 2/3 of college entrants are women, so its not like "they" need men to protect and feed them. This is the way of the world. Like it or leave it, its never going to be 1940 again.

14 posted on 09/24/2003 8:45:57 AM PDT by Nonstatist
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To: Nonstatist
Sing it brotha!

I agree with you whole-heartedly... As a group, today's Western Women are the most pampered folk ever to walk the planet.

15 posted on 09/24/2003 8:46:26 AM PDT by StatesEnemy
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To: xzins
I hope that most men realize the wonderous gift that is a daughter. Keep the women and children at home in times of war and conflict; in the alternative, lose the nation because its not worth fighting for.
16 posted on 09/24/2003 8:47:04 AM PDT by Thommas
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To: xzins
"Why do American men no longer have a godly affection for their daughters?"

Answer: Because American men no longer have a love for God.

17 posted on 09/24/2003 8:47:11 AM PDT by Happy2BMe (LIBERTY has arrived in Iraq - Now we can concentrate on HOLLYWEED!)
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To: xzins
The military draft is nothing more than slavery. It is evil.
18 posted on 09/24/2003 8:47:14 AM PDT by Protagoras (The only thing worse than drugs is the War on Drugs)
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To: Nonstatist
We raise soft males and hard females.

We are truly backwards.

Those who've had both daughters and sons know that the obvious sexual difference goes throughout their beings. Our daughters and our sons are of a different essence.
19 posted on 09/24/2003 8:50:54 AM PDT by xzins (How shall they hear?)
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To: Protagoras
The military draft is nothing more than slavery. It is evil.


How true. Additionally, the 13th amendment prohibits involuntary servatude; but who reads the constitution anymore?

20 posted on 09/24/2003 8:51:28 AM PDT by society-by-contract
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