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Drafting Our Daughters: Why do American men no longer have a godly affection for their daughters?
http://covenantnews.com/trewhella030520.htm ^ | Matt Trewhella

Posted on 09/24/2003 8:21:32 AM PDT by xzins

 

In January of this year, 2003, a bill was introduced both in the U.S. Senate and the House of Representatives which would re-institute the military draft. This bill would not only allow the government to draft our sons however (as bad as that is itself), but it would also allow the government to draft our daughters into the military for two years.

Recently, I was listening to a Christian radio talk show discussing this bill. The question laid out to the Christian men was - what do you think about the government wanting to draft your daughters into the military for two years? I was appalled and amazed by the responses I heard. All of the callers except one thought it would be just fine for the government to take their daughters for two years. A few of the common responses given for such thinking were - “We live in different times now” and “The women wanted this equality, so it’s only fair” and “With all the government does for us, we should be willing to let them (our daughters) give two years of their life for them.”

As I listened to caller after caller, Christian man after Christian man, declare how willing they were to give up their daughters to the government for two years, I realized how far gone we are as a nation. When Christian men can speak this way about their daughters they have lost a godly affection for their daughters. When you hear this kind of perverse talk, American men have forgotten their God-given function as fathers.

What has made American men this way? Why do they no longer have a godly affection for their daughters? Why don’t they know how to function as fathers?

There are two main causes.

Number One: American men no longer have a godly affection for their daughters and have forgotten their roles as father because the way that Americans raise their children causes an unnatural separation between parent and child.

This is seen from an early age. Many men have their wives return to work after their maternal leave time expires after giving birth to their child. So the child is taken away from the parents and goes to daycare. When the child turns four or five, they are off to the government school. Again, the child is separated from the parents, and this continues to adulthood. Most men send their children away from them at church too. They don’t act as priests in their homes and instruct their children in the faith, rather they dump them off on the church with it’s host of kiddy programs to supposedly do the job.

This bill would allow the government to draft our daughters into the military for two years.

When the child gets older, most men allow their daughters to date. They send them away with a young man alone, rather than establishing some form of godly courtship, hence denying their role as protector. Finally, most men want their daughters out of the house once they turn eighteen. Most do so by sending their daughters away to the university.

This is how most American men raise their children and rule their homes. This is how most Christian men raise their children and rule their homes. My point is that this causes an unnatural separation between parent and child. Because of the separation which has been occurring since a young age and throughout the child’s life, it is easy for a man to say - “With all the government does for us, of course I’m willing to let them have my daughter for two years.” It’s easy because he’s already been separated from her all his life!

Number Two: American men no longer have a godly affection for their daughters and have forgotten their roles as father because the State has become father.

Men are to be providers, protectors, and priests to their homes. Most men no longer know or exercise these roles as father because the State has assumed the role of father. Herbert Schlossberg, in his book Idols for Destruction, best defines my assertion here. Schlossberg states:

Rulers have ever been tempted to play the role of father to their people. The father is the symbol not only of authority but also of provision. “Our Father who art in heaven...Give us this day our daily bread” (Mt.6:9,11). Looking to the State for sustenance is a cultic act [an act of worship]; we learn to expect food from parents, and when we regard the State as the source of physical provision we render to it the obeisance of idolatry. The crowds who had fed on the multiplied loaves and fishes were ready to receive Christ as their ruler, not because of who He was but because of the provision. John Howard Yoder has rightly interpreted that scene: “The distribution of the bread moved the crowd to acclaim Jesus as the new Moses, the provider, the Welfare King whom they had been waiting for.”

This statement by Schlossberg encapsulates what I mean when I say the State has become father. Men no longer know what it means to be men or fathers anymore because the State has become father. They’re still dependent little boys who’ve never grown up. All is taken care of for them. They’ve never learned what responsibility means because the State takes care of every desire, whim and need. Men have a duty as fathers to be providers, protectors, and priests to their homes,

The draft is the ultimate expression and evidence that the State has assumed the role of father.

and the State wants to take that out of men’s hands and assume the roles of father.

Schlossberg goes on to state:
The paternal State not only feeds its children, but nurtures, educates, comforts, and disciplines them, providing all they need for their security. Once we sink to that level, as C.S. Lewis says, there is no point in telling state officials to mind their own business. “Our lives are their business.” The paternalism of the State is that of a bad parent who wants his children dependent on him forever. That is an evil impulse. The good parent prepares his children for independence, trains them to make responsible decisions, knows that he harms them by not helping them to break loose. The paternal State thrives on dependency. When the dependents free themselves, it loses power. It is, therefore, parasitic on the very persons whom it turns into parasites. Thus, the State and its dependents march symbiotically to destruction.

The tyrant Diocletian, Emperor of Rome, in 301 A.D., declared the State to be “the watchful parents of the whole human race.” The State wanting to take our daughters away and draft them into the military is the ultimate expression and evidence that the State believes it is father, and has assumed the role of father.

When Christian men allow the State to get away with this, they have abrogated their God-given duty and roles as fathers.





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To: xzins
You're fighting the wrong battle.

If we repeal the 19th amendment (women's right to vote), everything else will return to 'normal'.


BUMP

41 posted on 09/24/2003 9:19:20 AM PDT by tm22721 (May the UN rest in peace)
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To: xzins
Does the bill address who's to keep the home fires burning if both parents are drafted? Who will raise the children? Who will care for ailing grandparents? Who will maintain the family's business affairs? Who will care for the mundane duties of keeping the house safe and in order, the bills paid, the cars running, the pets fed, etc?
42 posted on 09/24/2003 9:19:37 AM PDT by mtbopfuyn
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To: pram; George W. Bush
The love to drug little boys. I'll bet it was a little boy who wanted to play Superman.

No one wanted to play with him and deal with his male energy and inate aggressive tendencies. He had no father doing it. The daycare workers don't want to spend that kind of bonding time with a kid.

The diagnose as crazy a little boy who wants to play Superman?!! The ones who are crazy are those who want to drug that kind of developing virility.

They simply don't know what to do with masculinity in our current culture.
43 posted on 09/24/2003 9:20:17 AM PDT by xzins (How shall they hear?)
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To: Nonstatist; xzins
The "state" accords enormous preferences to women across the board; from huge income transfer programs like Social Security (which lopsidedly goes to elderly white women) to medicaid, food stamps,etc which goes mostly to women to biased , predatory ,unconstitutional divorce law and college quota preferences like Title IX and so on .

>> Shouldn't our hearts be turned to a special protectiveness for our daughters, our wives, the mothers and future mothers of our children?

Have our hearts turned to stone?<<<

Two different viewpoints.

The first viewpoint isn't taking into consideration the fact that men and woman have different physical capabilities and strengths, different psychologies and emotional natures, and different roles according to nature. Women are actually supposed to be protected by men, this is natural law as well as stated in Christian and Judaic scripture as well as the Vedas. When families and society have broken down, then the gov't steps in to take care of the abandoned and other women who aren't making it very well. It is a testimony to the difficulty women face in "making" it in a man's world. Of course, the gov't does a rotten job, makes the situation worse, and "feminism" is doing everything it can to destroy the natural family, and the natural qualities of women, so women from a young age have their minds and hearts twisted and hardened against men. One solution I see is to get kids homeschooled and away from being influenced by mass media, which is own and controlled by homosexuals and feminists.

44 posted on 09/24/2003 9:20:19 AM PDT by First Amendment
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To: familyofman
Females are more valuable to the human race for reproduction. But not more valuable as family members.
45 posted on 09/24/2003 9:20:41 AM PDT by ffusco (Maecilius Fuscus,Governor of Longovicium , Manchester, England. 238-244 AD)
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To: xzins
The point you miss is women have full citizenship under our form of government, and have rejected paternalism from the male portion of society. Men have no say, neither assent nor dissent, about it. As they are fully functional members of the body politic, and not answerable to anyone but themselves, exempting them from military service is nothing but an establishment of "prefered" citzens. One may not like it, but it is consistent with established principles of equality under our form of governance.

If women are not to be exempted from contributing their voices toward the governance of our society, they must bear responsibility for maintaining that society consistent with other citzens.

Besides, that bill (proposed by Charlie Rangel et al.) is a dead issue...proposed for the sole purpose of fomenting dissent against President Bush's plan to carry out military action against terrorist states. It never stood a chance.

You can rest assured the pampered status of American women is secure for the time being.

46 posted on 09/24/2003 9:20:42 AM PDT by Woahhs
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To: em2vn
You are thinking the same thoughts I have. Two years in the military would not be such a bad thing. Take any 18yr old and two years military would shape them into self-sufficent, problem solving, team member participants with respect for their country and government. Duty, Honor, Country. Maybe undo some of the liberal crap they have learned in school at the knee of NEA indoctrination. Yes, we love our sons and daughters, but liberty and freedom comes with a price. Everyone should be willing to pay that price. These are different times than 40yrs ago. Just my thoughts.

Red

47 posted on 09/24/2003 9:22:25 AM PDT by Conservative4Ever (Wm. Wallace did not cry 'diversity' while being disemboweled.)
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To: Conservative4Ever
These are different times...

is just another way of saying the old standards no longer apply, whether for good or ill. One can lament the fact that transportation is no longer by horse, but it makes no sense to insist people should still keep a bail of hay in the garage.

48 posted on 09/24/2003 9:35:25 AM PDT by Woahhs
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To: xzins
My godfather once said that the greatest sin in our country is not abortion, but the way we now treat our women.

Abortion is only a symptom.

I think he's right...

49 posted on 09/24/2003 9:38:45 AM PDT by Possenti
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To: xzins
They simply don't know what to do with masculinity in our current culture.

100% agreement. Or femininity. (That word doesn't look right...) So-called "feminism" is mis-named. Feminists are AGAINST real womanhood and womanly qualities. They hate the natural differences between men and women because of envy of men ("Why should THEY be stronger? Why should THEY have more power?") and also because of envy of God Who created the world the way He did. And, (facts have to be faced!) because a lot of men had abused their natural position of abandoned women, used and abused them. So both sides need to get back to their rightful spheres, and this can only be done by accepting God as the Supreme authority. Otherwise it can't happen. I can see from most of the posts on this thread that even people who call themselves Christian (and I am not questioning anyone's sincerity of belief in general) believe social-Darwinist nonsense about the roles of men and women.

Men and women are very different, and have different strengths and weaknesses that complement each other. To force either to imitate the other is madness, and we see it everywhere.

And I speak not as a sectarian, my main holy scriptures are the Vedas, with the Bible next. The role differences between men and women are innate and cannot be changed. By imposing external change, trying to force men and women to be what they are not, society is breaking apart. What that really means is that many many people's hearts are being broken and families are being broken.

50 posted on 09/24/2003 9:40:40 AM PDT by First Amendment
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To: Nonstatist; xzins; Conservative4Ever; George W. Bush
Funny how those who insist on drafting women are the same people (you being a probable exception) who build the abortion clinics, give RU-486 to minors without their parents' knowledge, teach sodomy in public schools and push Title IX, to the detriment of our sons and daughters.

If conservatives are to be effective, we need to be consistent.

"Women in combat" demeans women by forcing them to behave like men; and demeans the men who allow it.

Is the world a better place in these past four decades? Or are we living through a real Matrix, inconceivable a generation ago, that desires the occultic obliteration of sexual distinctions?

"Women in combat" is the homosexual dream-come-true.

I'm against any forced conscription. But the military is a profession that requires a masculine aggression, and should stay that way.

Unless we really want more Hillary Clintons and Janet Renos.

51 posted on 09/24/2003 9:44:31 AM PDT by Dr. Eckleburg (There are very few shades of gray.)
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To: Apa6
I agree.

Our ancient ancestors realized this long, long ago. Those who didn't figure it out have no descendants to speak of today.

Call me a sexist, but men and women are created for specific roles. Basically, men are designed to take life, women are designed to give and sustain life. If we try to mess with this formula, our folly will be studied (and hopefully learned from) in future history books.

52 posted on 09/24/2003 9:47:09 AM PDT by Possenti
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To: Woahhs
I don't miss the point, but I understand what you're saying.

So, it's despite what society is currently saying that I maintain that our daughters are uniquely designed by God to be the bearers of our children and the nurturers of our next generation. For the vast majority that I've ever watched, I've seen that innate tendency toward nesting and child-bearing become the organizing feature of their lives.

53 posted on 09/24/2003 9:49:51 AM PDT by xzins (How shall they hear?)
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To: mtbopfuyn
Uggh.

Tempest in a Teapot. Nobody is seriously looking to reinstate a draft. The bill was introduced by a cabal of antiwar congressmen as basically a rhetorical argument against the war. It went nowhere.

The military wants absolutely NO part of draftees.

There will never be another draft in the US. Countries all over the world are ditching their drafts to emulate the American volunteer army.
54 posted on 09/24/2003 9:50:25 AM PDT by John H K
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To: xzins; All
Let me start with this simple truth:

THERE IS NO DRAFT.

That being said, I am deeply disappointed by FRiends on this thread. Mainly in their belief in Chuck Rangel, who is mistakenly feeding the sheep the idea that there is conscription in America right now - maybe on the campuses to join the DNC, but that's for another thread.

Then of course, let us not forget that THERE IS NO DRAFT.

Welcome to the 21st Century, where we are fighting such a thing as assymetrical warfare. There is no more "in the rear with the gear". There are no more REMF's to gripe about in the trenches. We are fighting this one in a series of armed perimeters, where there will be "Gooks on the wire" everywhere you look.

Now did I use enough Vietnam slanguage for everyone who believes that quagmire thing, and forgets that THERE IS NO DRAFT.

55 posted on 09/24/2003 9:50:39 AM PDT by Old Sarge (Serving You... on Operation Noble Eagle!)
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To: Dr. Eckleburg
Funny how those who insist on drafting women are the same people (you being a probable exception) who build the abortion clinics, give RU-486 to minors without their parents' knowledge, teach sodomy in public schools and push Title IX, to the detriment of our sons and daughters.

Nonsense and gratuitous projection on your part. Women want to supplant men. Laying the blame on men for that is ridiculous so long as women control their own lives.

56 posted on 09/24/2003 9:53:24 AM PDT by Woahhs
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To: xzins
INTREP
57 posted on 09/24/2003 9:53:39 AM PDT by LiteKeeper
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To: Possenti
Your godfather is a very wise man.
58 posted on 09/24/2003 9:53:55 AM PDT by xzins (How shall they hear?)
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To: xzins; All
Check out this article:
http://www.freerepublic.com/focus/f-news/988513/posts
It has much relevance.
59 posted on 09/24/2003 9:55:29 AM PDT by First Amendment
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To: Old Sarge
I agree that there is no draft.

What this discussion is about is the "how do we treat our females" issue.

(But I really enjoyed your Vietnam Slanguage! :>)
60 posted on 09/24/2003 9:56:05 AM PDT by xzins (How shall they hear?)
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