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Defrocked priest performs baptism
Newsday ^ | October 17, 2005

Posted on 10/18/2005 7:39:24 AM PDT by NYer

PHILADELPHIA - A former Philadelphia-area priest accused of abusing more than a dozen girls and taking an 11-year-old he had raped for an abortion performed a baptism this summer weeks after he was defrocked.

Nicholas V. Cudemo performed the baptism at Christ the King Church in Haddonfield, N.J., on July 10, Camden diocese officials confirmed.

A recent Philadelphia grand jury report found that Cudemo had sexual relationships with girls from Catholic schools where he taught from the 1960s to the 1980s, molesting one girl in the confessional and invoking God to seduce the youngsters. The report focused on abusive priests in the Philadelphia archdiocese.

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TOPICS: Catholic; Current Events; General Discusssion; Moral Issues
KEYWORDS: baptism; camden; dioceseofcamden; newjersey; nj; priest

1 posted on 10/18/2005 7:39:25 AM PDT by NYer
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To: american colleen; Lady In Blue; Salvation; narses; SMEDLEYBUTLER; redhead; Notwithstanding; ...

Obviously with no pangs of consicence .. sheesh.


2 posted on 10/18/2005 7:40:33 AM PDT by NYer (ôSocialism is the religion people get when they lose their religion")
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To: NYer

The vatican should have its own prison for these criminals who are out of the reach of civil law.


3 posted on 10/18/2005 7:44:47 AM PDT by Rodney King (No, we can't all just get along.)
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To: Rodney King

Out of reach of civil law? He should be in jail and should have been for years.


4 posted on 10/18/2005 7:52:34 AM PDT by Jaded (Hell sometimes has fluorescent lighting and a trumpet.)
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To: Jaded
He should be in jail and should have been for years.

Statute of limitations has run out.

5 posted on 10/18/2005 8:00:27 AM PDT by Rodney King (No, we can't all just get along.)
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To: Jaded
He should be in jail and should have been for years.

You can thank legislators, for putting a short statute of limitations on criminal prosecutions.

6 posted on 10/18/2005 8:01:27 AM PDT by siunevada
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To: NYer
He performed the baptism at the family's request???!!!???

What IS that family thinking?

7 posted on 10/18/2005 8:04:24 AM PDT by AnAmericanMother (. . . Ministrix of ye Chace (recess appointment), TTGC Ladies' Auxiliary . . .)
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To: NYer

If there had been an emergency, anyone -- even a non-Catholic -- could have performed the baptism.


8 posted on 10/18/2005 8:25:05 AM PDT by eastsider
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To: NYer
...molesting one girl in the confessional...

I wonder how much this happened when we had the confessionals of years ago. You know, the ones which had a door to your little box-like room which just had a kneeler. The priest had his own door. There was no way for him to get near you to molest you.

Maybe we should have those confessionals again???

9 posted on 10/18/2005 8:50:05 AM PDT by It's me
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To: eastsider

My husband babptised our babies before we left the hospital after their births. He was taking no chances. Great peace of mind.


10 posted on 10/18/2005 8:51:42 AM PDT by It's me
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To: eastsider

My husband baptised our babies before we left the hospital after their births. He was taking no chances. Great peace of mind.


11 posted on 10/18/2005 8:51:55 AM PDT by It's me
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To: It's me

What did you do about baptismal certificates, if I may ask?


12 posted on 10/18/2005 8:59:23 AM PDT by eastsider
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To: eastsider

Well, um, we had them baptised in the church.

I know, I know, I know, you're not supposed to do that but, we took no chances.


13 posted on 10/18/2005 9:10:57 AM PDT by It's me
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To: Jaded
Out of reach of civil law? He should be in jail and should have been for years.

Had he raped and then taken my daughter for an abortion he'd be dead.

14 posted on 10/18/2005 9:13:38 AM PDT by pgkdan
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To: It's me

I apologize for not asking that question in private. I usually try to avoid putting people on the spot, but that one just can of slipped out.

In any event, I urge you to take it up in confession if you have not already done so ... to avoid taking any chances ...

God bless, and have a great day!


15 posted on 10/18/2005 9:37:22 AM PDT by eastsider
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To: eastsider

Oh gosh, everyone knows.

This is no secret. We dealt with this years ago.

Thanks for your concern, just the same.


16 posted on 10/18/2005 10:08:47 AM PDT by It's me
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To: NYer

Such men should be given an opportunity for repentance and then they should be executed.


17 posted on 10/18/2005 10:57:56 AM PDT by Maeve
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To: NYer
Obviously with no pangs of consicence .. sheesh.

And willing to dupe the baby's parents, too! Yikes.

A former Philadelphia-area priest accused of abusing more than a dozen girls and taking an 11-year-old he had raped for an abortion performed a baptism this summer weeks after he was defrocked.

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He said Cudemo performed the summer baptism at a family's request. Only later did the parish realize his status, Wallace said. The baptism remains valid, he said.

It seems amazing that the parents were completely unaware of his past, of his defrocking. But that's no excuse for him. He failed to disclose given his patterns of behavior.

18 posted on 10/18/2005 11:25:26 AM PDT by fortunecookie
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To: NYer
And the Lavender Mafia keeps protecting these perps!
19 posted on 10/18/2005 3:27:39 PM PDT by Angelas
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To: NYer

time to excommunicate


20 posted on 10/18/2005 4:39:51 PM PDT by Coleus ("Woe unto him that call evil good and good evil"-- Isaiah 5:20-21)
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To: It's me

Why do you think they HAD those confessionals in the first place? Hanky panky, even in the Confessional, is as old as Eve.


21 posted on 10/18/2005 4:55:14 PM PDT by Appalled but Not Surprised
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22 posted on 11/10/2005 10:03:44 PM PST by Coleus (Roe v. Wade and Endangered Species Act both passed in 1973, Murder Babies/save trees, birds, algae)
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To: 2ndMostConservativeBrdMember; afraidfortherepublic; Alas; al_c; american colleen; annalex; ...


23 posted on 11/10/2005 10:05:23 PM PST by Coleus (Roe v. Wade and Endangered Species Act both passed in 1973, Murder Babies/save trees, birds, algae)
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A report by the Philadelphia district attorney said Mr. Cudemo had sexual relationships with girls that he taught at Catholic schools from the 1960s to the 1980s. In one case, prosecutors say, he arranged an abortion for an 11-year-old who became pregnant.

24 posted on 11/10/2005 10:10:20 PM PST by Coleus (Roe v. Wade and Endangered Species Act both passed in 1973, Murder Babies/save trees, birds, algae)
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To: NYer

The position of the Catholic Church is that anyone can perform a baptism. You don't need to be in Holy Orders. For disciplinary reasons, baptism is supposed to be done in a church by a priest, so that proper records can be kept.

The proper exception would be an emergency in which the person might not otherwise receive baptism before risk of death. But even if there is no emergency, the baptism would still be valid if properly performed. The two things necessary for this sacrament are water, and the words, "I baptize you [name] in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit."

If there is any doubt that a proper baptism was performed, a provisional baptism should be performed afterward.


25 posted on 11/11/2005 7:20:54 AM PST by Cicero (Marcus Tullius)
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To: It's me

Confessional boxes did not come into use until the sixteenth century in Rome, under the direction of St. Charles Borromeo, and in most countries not until the middle of the seventeenth century. They were largely a response to the Reformation, and to Protestant accusations that Catholic priests were misbehaving with female penitents, what you might call the propaganda wars of the time.

The original directions for designing a confessional specified that it should have a screen with holes in it that you could talk through, but that the holes should be small enough to prevent anyone from poking a little finger through them.


26 posted on 11/11/2005 7:26:26 AM PST by Cicero (Marcus Tullius)
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To: AbeKrieger
Nicholas V. Cudemo performed the baptism at Christ the King Church in Haddonfield, N.J.,

Consider yourself lucky he isn't a co-religionist, as this would probably be your church.

27 posted on 11/11/2005 8:55:37 AM PST by Clemenza (In League with the Freemasons, The Bilderbergers, and the Learned Elders of Zion)
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To: It's me

That's why they designed confessional boxes in the first place! One of the counterreformation reforms that the spirit-of-V2_ guys did away with.


28 posted on 11/11/2005 9:08:21 AM PST by RobbyS ( CHIRHO)
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To: RobbyS

But, which way is better?
Or "safer" for that matter?


29 posted on 11/11/2005 10:55:13 AM PST by It's me
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To: It's me

You need to look at confessional boxes. Not much room for manuever. The "face-to-face" on the other hand is a room with the door shut.


30 posted on 11/11/2005 10:59:43 AM PST by RobbyS ( CHIRHO)
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To: NYer

The link does not work. Is this for real???

If so, this is one of the most disgusting stories I have ever heard.


31 posted on 11/11/2005 1:46:05 PM PST by afraidfortherepublic
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To: RobbyS
That was exactly my point.

We need to go back to the confessional boxes where the priest has his own door to his own seat and the penitant has his own door to his own kneeler and nothing else!!

NO room for anything but a confession.

32 posted on 11/12/2005 9:35:30 AM PST by It's me
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To: Clemenza
Consider yourself lucky he isn't a co-religionist, as this would probably be your church.

I'm alright, I wasn't in the market for any baptisms anyway.

33 posted on 11/12/2005 7:26:36 PM PST by AbeKrieger (Islam is the virus that causes al-Qaeda.)
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To: NYer

Now they'll have to get someone to perform an exorcism on that poor little baby!


34 posted on 11/12/2005 7:27:58 PM PST by Palladin (America! America! God shed His grace on Thee.)
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To: It's me

I should think the old-style confessional is safer...there's not too much wiggle room in there, whereas the chatting rooms---OOPS!---I mean the new reconciliation rooms---have lots of space.

As for me, well...if there ain't no box, I don't go. Have to drive miles and miles and miles away to find a decent confessional these days.

Regards,


35 posted on 11/12/2005 9:25:00 PM PST by VermiciousKnid
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To: Rodney King

There used to be monastic jails (or "penitentiaries") for priests and religious, who were sent there to live very harsh lives and repent. I knew a European priest who had been sent to one in his home country in the early 60's after he had been seen walking unaccompanied on the street with a woman and there had been rumors - accurate, alas - about his dealings with women parishioners. He said it was a horrible experience and he had never wanted to go back there, and he actually did clean up his behavior. (Well, until they closed the penitentiaries after VatII and went to the therapeutic model...)


36 posted on 11/13/2005 3:04:07 AM PST by livius
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