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My mother, a lurker, passed away (vanity)
1-18-08 | Pan_Yans Wife

Posted on 01/17/2008 9:37:03 PM PST by Pan_Yans Wife

Hello,

I've been mulling over writing this thread for months, but feel that the time is right.

My mother passed away in October, after a long battle with lung cancer. She was a lovely woman, a good mother and a wonderful friend to all. My life changed forever on the night that she died. She died surrounded by her loved ones. And only God can understand how much I miss her.

First, I would like to say that my mother was an avid lurker. She kept up on the political news with the assistance of Freerepublic. She was addicted to FOXNEWS, and if she watched a segment about a significant news story, she would look on FR to see if there was more information.

She lived alone, and was quite addicted to the computer. She must have checked the Drudgereport and Freerepublic ten times a day. She kept up on all of the breaking news and enjoyed the commentary on FR. She felt it was a comfortable setting with very friendly posters. FR was a big part of her daily life, even though she never became a member. I like to think that she was in the company of many other fine lurkers who are hesitant about joining.

She was passionate about the Terri Schiavo story and the Natalee Holloway story. She read those threads every single morning, checking for updates.

Her heart was literally broken the day that Terri Schiavo died... she died on my mother's birthday. And my mother commented that she would never celebrate another birthday in her life without first remembering Terri and her struggle to live.

Terri's fight in the courts sobered my mother greatly. And she subsequently got a living will and settled her "final wishes" keeping Terri in mind. She wanted to make sure that her family would not have to go through the struggles and heartache that Terri's family did. My mother was conscientious about making sure every item regarding end-of-life issues was attended to and that my mother's life would be protected should she face the same difficulties that Terri and her family did.

With Natalee Holloway, she enjoyed the speculation on the threads and appreciated the posters were trying to solve a mystery. She kept abreast of all new speculation and would comment to me frequently, saying that Beth Holloway Twitty was a strong woman. Natalee's disappearance was heartbreaking to my mother, because she related to Beth Holloway Twitty as a mother.

To all of the Freepers who kept up on the Schiavo and Holloway stories, I want you to know that my mother found them very valuable and she was always impressed with the commentary and discussions.

My mother may not have joined FR, but she thought it was a very valuable resource. I thank you all for contributing to the site that really did enrich my mother's life.

Thank you.


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KEYWORDS: nataleeholloway; terrischiavo; vanity
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To: Pan_Yans Wife

~Prayers~


21 posted on 01/18/2008 8:29:14 PM PST by pandoraou812 (Don't taunt the animal's at the zoo or they may bite YOU!)
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To: Pan_Yans Wife; nickcarraway; sandyeggo; Lady In Blue; NYer; ELS; Pyro7480; livius; Catholicguy; ...
 
Pinging the Catholic Prayer list!!!
 
Please post all prayers to Pan_Yans Wife;
 
Please send me a FReepmail
to be added or taken off the Catholic Prayer List.

22 posted on 01/18/2008 10:44:36 PM PST by Salvation (†With God all things are possible.†)
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To: Pan_Yans Wife

Thank you for sharing your mother’s story. I can only imagine how hard it is for you to lose your mother; I dread the day when my mom will pass away. Prayers for you and your mother.


23 posted on 01/18/2008 10:50:04 PM PST by Pinkbell
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To: colorcountry; FastCoyote; MHGinTN; Pan_Yans Wife; svcw; Elsie; aMorePerfectUnion; Colofornian; ...

ping


24 posted on 01/18/2008 11:09:00 PM PST by greyfoxx39 (Mitt willingly gives up his personal freedoms to his church..why would he protect YOURS!)
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To: Pan_Yans Wife

What a wonderful story! Thank you for telling us about your mother. She sounds like a warm and caring person.


25 posted on 01/18/2008 11:25:23 PM PST by syriacus (HUCKIAVELLIAN : (adj.) hypocritical; slick; glib; charming and, yet, sneakily nasty.)
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To: Pan_Yans Wife

I’m very sorry. Prayer bump


26 posted on 01/18/2008 11:53:49 PM PST by Tribune7 (Dems want to rob from the poor to give to the rich)
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To: Salvation

prayers, so sorry.


27 posted on 01/19/2008 2:37:38 AM PST by television is just wrong (deport all illegal aliens NOW. Put all AMERICANS TO WORK FIRST. END Welfare)
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To: Pan_Yans Wife

A wonderful Lurker. God Bless your Mom for taking such an interest in Life and Free Republic. You should be very proud!


28 posted on 01/19/2008 2:43:51 AM PST by napscoordinator
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To: Pan_Yans Wife; Salvation
Your mother will be remembered in our prayers today as will you.

Pinged from Terri Dailies

8mm


29 posted on 01/19/2008 4:11:07 AM PST by 8mmMauser (Jezu ufam tobie...Jesus I trust in Thee)
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To: Pan_Yans Wife

My condolences


30 posted on 01/19/2008 4:51:42 AM PST by NewCenturions ('S mòr mo mhulad, 's mòr.)
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To: Pan_Yans Wife

Thank you for your kind words about FR; we will pray for you and for your mother’s soul.


31 posted on 01/19/2008 4:53:47 AM PST by Nora
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To: Pan_Yans Wife

Prayers for your family.


32 posted on 01/19/2008 5:43:38 AM PST by mtbopfuyn (I think the border is kind of an artificial barrier - San Antonio councilwoman Patti Radle)
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To: Pan_Yans Wife

What a beautiful tribute to a lovely mother, and a wonderful website.

Your mother leaves behind an enduring legacy in you, my FRiend!

Prayers are offered on your behalf. May God’s peace be with you.


33 posted on 01/19/2008 6:20:26 AM PST by colorcountry (To anger a conservative, lie to him. To anger a liberal, tell him the truth.)
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To: Pan_Yans Wife

No matter when, the loss of a parent is always difficult.
What a wonderful mom she seemed to be and your friend...you where truly blessed.
Remember her fondly.


34 posted on 01/19/2008 6:32:26 AM PST by svcw (There is no plan B.)
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To: Pan_Yans Wife
No pain in Gods garden
No tears in heaven
35 posted on 01/19/2008 6:35:27 AM PST by kronos77 (-www.savekosovo.org- and -www.kosovo.net- Save Kosovo from Islam!)
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To: Pan_Yans Wife
Thank you so much for this lovely post.

May flights of angels sing her to her rest and may your sorrow be made a conduit of graces into your life.

36 posted on 01/19/2008 6:46:31 AM PST by Mad Dawg (Oh Mary, conceived without sin, pray for us who have recourse to thee.)
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To: Pan_Yans Wife

My condoleances to you and your family


37 posted on 01/19/2008 8:21:01 AM PST by knighthawk (We will always remember We will always be proud We will always be prepared so we may always be free)
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To: Pan_Yans Wife

I’m sorry for your loss PYW. May you be comforted by
God and turn to Him with your grief.

blessings,
ampu


38 posted on 01/19/2008 8:42:37 AM PST by aMorePerfectUnion
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To: Pan_Yans Wife

Thank you for sharing with us. Bless you


39 posted on 01/19/2008 8:43:26 AM PST by MHGinTN (Believing they cannot be deceived, they cannot be convinced when they are deceived.)
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To: Pan_Yans Wife

God bless you and yours.


40 posted on 01/19/2008 9:35:35 AM PST by JRochelle (John Thune in 2012.)
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