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Modesty in the church

Posted on 11/13/2013 5:43:01 PM PST by Faith Presses On

The Bible clearly says that women should dress modestly. Why does much of the church in America not follow what the Bible says? (And I'm a woman myself, I should add). It's not so much new believers who dress immodestly who are a concern, but women in leadership.

"In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety; not with broided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array; But (which becometh women professing godliness) with good works." (1 Timothy 2:9-10)


TOPICS: General Discusssion; Moral Issues; Religion & Culture
KEYWORDS: beauty; fashion; modesty; women
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To: metmom
A good basic rule is to dress so that the first thing a man looks at is your face.


Mixed messages??

121 posted on 11/14/2013 5:13:41 AM PST by Elsie (Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
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To: DariusBane
You cited Paul saying that Men should not have long hair. What does that mean?

The subject was decency of dress, whereas 1Cor 11, whic deals with male headship, was invoked in regards to the hermeneutic that relegates texts to being cultural and not directly applicable today.

As for what long hair means, some say it meant covering the shoulders, but , what is obvious is that a man is not to have the hair length of the women, in keeping with the principle of signifying submission to male headship.

That is my point. Be very very careful about assuming that what God is telling YOU is the same as what he is telling others.

Your statement itself illustrates what i object to, that of effectively negating the literal transcendence of commands on modesty and male headship based on the premise of ambiguity, or that they lead to legalistic extremes, and or were cultural.

122 posted on 11/14/2013 5:17:45 AM PST by daniel1212 (Come to the Lord Jesus as a contrite damned+destitute sinner, trust Him to save you, then live 4 Him)
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To: JRandomFreeper
I have to agree with you about Salvation!!

As to the clothing/modesty issue, I look at it this way.....I'd rather have a person in church, receiving God's Word, in a pair of shorts than not in church at all!

I, for a short while, went to a church where everyone "dressed to the nines" and looked down on those who showed up that didn't "measure up". You guessed it.......I stopped going to church, yet AGAIN!.

I now attend a church where all are welcome - shorts, sandals, what have you. It is the most loving, accepting church I've ever been in. Every week the sermon is about Jesus/Salvation and people want to come back. We are taught that it's not our job to judge others' hearts and souls but to be like Jesus was with sinners like the Samaritan woman....welcome them, embrace them and show them Jesus' love and make them want to hunger for more of his word! Lead by example and not harsh or judgmental words and they will voluntarily change.

123 posted on 11/14/2013 5:34:23 AM PST by 2nd amendment mama ( www.2asisters.org | Self defense is a basic human right!)
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To: ravenwolf

I believe you are confounding the meaning of covering in verses 14 and 15 with that in the earlier verses.

In the earlier verses, the word translated in the AV as “covering” is from the Greek root “katakalupto”, which is an article of clothing that hangs down.

In verses 14 and 15, the word translated as “covering” in the AV is from the Greek root “peribolaiou”, which signifies a garment that is cast around, in this case, the shoulders.

And the earlier verses would not make sense if you replace the word “cover” with the word “hair”. It is a shame for a man to pray with hair on his head, and if a woman pray without hair, let her hair be cut.

And we have almost 2000 years of church history where the sense of these verses was clearly interpreted to mean some kind of head covering for the woman, be it a bonnet or kerchief.

About 150 years ago, women started wearing absurd hats as coverings in church, some looking like caricatures of mens’ hats, and others having what appeared to be birds’ nests and baskets of fruit.

Perhaps the preachers were relieved when women stopped wearing coverings at all, in the last 50 or so years.


124 posted on 11/14/2013 5:47:35 AM PST by Westbrook ()Children do not divide your love, they multiply it.)
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To: Westbrook

In verses 14 and 15, the word translated as “covering” in the AV is from the Greek root “peribolaiou”, which signifies a garment that is cast around, in this case, the shoulders.


I don,t know for sure where you got that from but it plainly says hair in 14, and hair and covering in 15 and very plainly that it is given for a covering.

14 Doth not even nature itself teach you, that, if a man have long hair, it is a shame unto him?

15 But if a woman have long hair, it is a glory to her: for her hair is given her for a covering.

Hair is not a covering unless it is long enough for a covering which is the reason for verses 5 and 6, if a woman does not have enough hair for a covering then she can wear something as a covering.

This would correspond exactly with verse 15.


125 posted on 11/14/2013 7:31:47 AM PST by ravenwolf
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To: metmom
If a man is going to think that way about me, it’s NOT going to be because I did anything to encourage it. It will remain HIS responsibility, not mine.

Any woman who dresses inappropriately bears some responsibility for the man’s reaction. She’s doing it to elicit a reaction so that makes her culpable.

A refreshing contrast to the modern view, which seems to think Christian liberty sanctions sensual dress, and cries legalism or pleads ambiguity when modesty is enjoined.

And it is getting so licentious in the world that even in news articles one must often look straight forward due to the ads on the side, though i can admit to inquisitive glaces otherwise. At least i can say that such makes the idea that they evolved to be inconceivable to me.

126 posted on 11/14/2013 7:34:28 AM PST by daniel1212 (Come to the Lord Jesus as a contrite damned+destitute sinner, trust Him to save you, then live 4 Him)
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To: redleghunter
I remember hearing stuff like “if she leans over anymore she is going to fall out of that blouse. So your point is valid.

You must be legalistic, as Scripture is too ambiguous to censure such! /sar

127 posted on 11/14/2013 7:36:46 AM PST by daniel1212 (Come to the Lord Jesus as a contrite damned+destitute sinner, trust Him to save you, then live 4 Him)
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To: John Leland 1789
Evangelical and Fundamentalist youth wear shirts declaring “Hottest is Modest” or the reverse although I can’t imagine Christians wearing something like that.

I never have seen that, which would especially be contrary to Fundamentalist (which used ot be synonymous with Evangelical) faith, but the Puritans would be horrified. Meanwhile, while the author only mentions deviations from historical Evangelicalism, faith, Catholics remain the most liberal in their overall views.

128 posted on 11/14/2013 7:44:53 AM PST by daniel1212 (Come to the Lord Jesus as a contrite damned+destitute sinner, trust Him to save you, then live 4 Him)
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To: ravenwolf

> I don,t know for sure where you got that from but it

Greek Interlinear New Testament

And there is more than 1900 years of church history to back it up, as well as the witness of the contemporary church in locations that have not yet embraced postmodernism.

> plainly says hair in 14, and hair and covering in 15 and
> very plainly that it is given for a covering.

Yes, but the word for “covering” is different than it is in the earlier verses. My understanding is that, for about 1900 years, verses 14 and 15 have been interpreted by the majority of the church to mean a man’s hair should be shoulder length or less, and a woman’s hair should be at least long enough to cover the shoulders, because the Greek word used for “covering” here indicates something that wraps around, like a stole.


129 posted on 11/14/2013 8:19:25 AM PST by Westbrook ()Children do not divide your love, they multiply it.)
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To: Westbrook

Greek Interlinear New Testament


Ok, well i don,t think it will make that much difference if we don,t see it the same, so just hang in there and have a good day.


130 posted on 11/14/2013 9:07:09 AM PST by ravenwolf
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To: daniel1212

I understand your concern: “Your statement itself illustrates what i object to, that of effectively negating the literal transcendence of commands on modesty and male headship based on the premise of ambiguity, or that they lead to legalistic extremes, and or were cultural.”

The reality is that these commands if these commands are to be implemented they must be interpreted. Like it or not, the interpreters are men attempting to apprehend God. Men almost always get it wrong.


131 posted on 11/14/2013 9:08:10 AM PST by DariusBane (Liberty and Risk. Flip sides of the same coin. So how much risk will YOU accept?)
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To: knarf

If you are going to willfully refuse to understand logic, English and sentence structure I just can’t continue because communication would be fruitless.


132 posted on 11/14/2013 9:10:25 AM PST by DariusBane (Liberty and Risk. Flip sides of the same coin. So how much risk will YOU accept?)
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To: ravenwolf

Look if you want your girls to wear skortz, hair in a bun and doilies while playing basketball, by means have at it. I won’t stop you.


133 posted on 11/14/2013 9:12:05 AM PST by DariusBane (Liberty and Risk. Flip sides of the same coin. So how much risk will YOU accept?)
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To: ravenwolf

“Who defines what is modest?
I don,t think you really want an honest answer on that one.”

So you deny that human implementation is involved? Do you deny that humans make judgement in order to implement what they perceive to be the will of God?

Do people write books attempting to expound arguments based upon interpretations of God’s Word in order to implement a point of view?

Was Luther not implementing a point of view and an argument when he nailed his treatise to the the church door? Does God’s will and intent sort strike us with a white blinding light of certainty at all times? Does it strike us so strongly that instantly the Christian world falls into lockstep with a way of doing?

So tell me. Who defines modest? I can. But you may not like how I do it. I may be too liberal, or too conservative for you. I may be too light handed, or too heavy handed.

You are pretending that Christians can mystically walk in certain knowledge on these issues. But they never have have they?


134 posted on 11/14/2013 9:19:40 AM PST by DariusBane (Liberty and Risk. Flip sides of the same coin. So how much risk will YOU accept?)
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To: DariusBane
I really don't mind debating a democrat, but I can't respond to convoluted thought processes ... good day, sir.


135 posted on 11/14/2013 9:20:32 AM PST by knarf (I say things that are true .. I have no proof .. but they're true.)
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To: knarf

I don’t know. I thought your post was fine.


136 posted on 11/14/2013 9:20:49 AM PST by DariusBane (Liberty and Risk. Flip sides of the same coin. So how much risk will YOU accept?)
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To: 2nd amendment mama

As to the clothing/modesty issue, I look at it this way.....I’d rather have a person in church, receiving God’s Word, in a pair of shorts than not in church at all!


I like to see a good looking woman in shorts but the problem is that i am thinking about her instead of listening to what the preaching is saying to try his best to help me save my soul from the hell that i deserve.


137 posted on 11/14/2013 9:23:06 AM PST by ravenwolf
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To: knarf

I will comfortably accept your post as instrument of surrender.

Good Day


138 posted on 11/14/2013 9:27:57 AM PST by DariusBane (Liberty and Risk. Flip sides of the same coin. So how much risk will YOU accept?)
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To: Faith Presses On

Because not everyone believes in the bible. If there was a god I’m sure he has more important things to do than worry about hemlines and blouses.


139 posted on 11/14/2013 9:29:50 AM PST by strider44
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To: DariusBane

Like it or not, the interpreters are men attempting to apprehend God. Men almost always get it wrong.


I am not sure what you seem to think needs interpreted, most of the scripture is in plain words.

And although i have no argument with some one who see modesty a little different than some one else, any normal man knows how a sensually dressed woman can affect the men.

Some women may not care but i have never saw a woman in Church that appeared so dumb that she would not know.


140 posted on 11/14/2013 9:42:26 AM PST by ravenwolf
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