Vatican Guidelines on Cremation, Though Helpful, Require Follow-up

Archdiocese of Washington ^ | 11-07-16 | Msgr. Charles Pope

[Salvation]

Recent Vatican Guidelines on Cremation, Though Helpful, Require Follow-up

Msgr. Charles Pope • November 7, 2016 •

I was happy to hear that the Vatican recently reminded the world’s Catholics of some important matters concerning cremation. As cremation has become more common in recent decades, many significant problems have emerged.

1. Cremated remains not being buried or placed in a mausoleum,
2. Cremated remains being scattered,
3. Cremated remains being divvied up among relatives,
4. And strangest of all, cremated remains being fashioned into or incorporated within jewelry.

Cremated remains should be treated with the same respect and reverence as bodily remains. For indeed cremated remains are in fact what does remain of the body. While many people refer to them merely as “ashes,” they are remains of a human body and should be treated as such.

Notably, the new instructions reiterate the consistent norms of the Church in the following ways:

1. Cremated remains, must be laid to rest in a sacred place, that is, in a cemetery or, in certain cases, in a church or an area, which has been set aside for this purpose, and so dedicated by the competent ecclesial authority.
2. With rare exceptions requiring the permission of the bishop, the conservation of the ashes of the departed in a domestic residence is not permitted.
3. It is not permitted to scatter the ashes of the faithful departed in the air, on land, at sea, or in some other way, nor may they be preserved in mementos, pieces of jewelry or other objects.

Grateful though I am for these reminders, I know that the Church too often begins to permit once-forbidden things (things forbidden for many good reasons) without providing a real pastoral plan that both sets limits and educates God’s people. And while our norms are published in various liturgical books, most people don’t read liturgical books let alone the norms that are tucked away in the introduction and instructions. All they hear is that something that used to be forbidden is now allowed. This can lead to abuses cropping up that get overlooked by weary or obsequious clergy and norms being are unevenly enforced from parish to parish. A pastoral plan needs to be diocesan and nationwide.

As a pastor, I think that some of the following things will be helpful going forward:

1. Bishops should ensure that clergy are properly instructed in the norms and then insist that those norms are enforced and the faithful are educated.
2. Dioceses should consider enacting a policy requiring parishes to ensure that proper interment of cremated remains is arranged before the celebration of the funeral Mass.
3. Catholic cemeteries should consider “amnesty” offers, wherein inexpensive communal burial sites are made available for the interment of cremated remains for families that might have trouble affording a private niche or gravesite. Many families have kept cremated remains on mantles or in closets for years. Even if they know they should provide a decent burial for these remains, some resist due to the cost. We can work with them to end this problem. My own parish owns several burial sites at a local Catholic cemetery and I am pursuing an arrangement to offer at least one of them for this very purpose. In the Archdiocese of Washington, our cemeteries offer space for cremated remains. We have also begun offer burial space for miscarried infants.

The bottom line is that these norms need a national and diocesan focus as well as enforcement. Leaving it all up to the individual parishes leads to uneven practices that confuse the faithful and cause factions to develop. A pastoral plan is necessary both at the level of the local bishop and the Bishop’s Conference. Otherwise, I am convinced that abuses (intentional or not) will continue.

I have published a flyer on this subject (for use in my own parish) that you might find helpful (Considering Cremation?).

[Salvation]

Very pertinent information here.

Many people have been misled.

[Salvation]

Monsignor Pope Ping!

[Salvation]

Our local Catholic cemetery is offering the option of adding the urn of the cremated to existing grave sites. I assume with some kind of a marker.

[A CA Guy]

After death?

[Sacajaweau]

Sorry...My families choice....not the church’s.

[WayneS]

So, I’m guessing that having my cremated remains incorporated in to shotgun loads for my family and friends to use while shooting skeet would be considered a ‘no-no’?

[LIConFem]

Presumably.

[LIConFem]

Same with our Catholic cemetery. The name of the deceased to be engraved onto the existing head stone.

[mark3681]

I see the body as nothing more than a vessel that carries “you” around on this earth until He calls “you” home.
That vessel was given to you by Him to carry “you” around. It should be taken care of while it carries “you” around. Once He has called “you” home it is nothing more than an empty vessel. What is the difference between letting it rot in a box in the ground and cremating it and putting the ashes in/on the ground?

[DannyTN]

[RBStealth]

http://peopleof.oureverydaylife.com/importance-proper-burial-bible-3318.html

[A CA Guy]

For sure not exhumably!!!

[mumblypeg]

Will the Catholic Church also stop hacking up the carcasses of saints and distributing the “relics” all over the world?
As a convert (1995) I’ve never quite managed to wrap my head around that practice.

So how is it any different to distribute grandpa’s ashes among family members, or seal a spoonful in a piece of jewelry? The Church does essentially the same thing with saintly relics.
Seems to me, people are choosing cremation precisely to avoid the expense of maintaining a gravesite. Also, due to modern mobility, many families want the option of taking grandpa’s ashes along.
And it seems to me, the Church is simply reluctant to lose the revenue stream that comes from cemetery maintenance.

I do “get” that we should do things respectfully.

[Digger]

I see the body as nothing more than a vessel that carries “you” around on this earth until He calls “you” home. That vessel was given to you by Him to carry “you” around. It should be taken care of while it carries “you” around. Once He has called “you” home it is nothing more than an empty vessel. What is the difference between letting it rot in a box in the ground and cremating it and putting the ashes in/on the ground?

100% agree.

[JesusIsLord]

And it seems to me, the Church is simply reluctant to lose the revenue stream that comes from cemetery maintenance.

DING....DING....DING....DING....DING....DING!!!!! You figured it out, so you win the prize!!!

[cloudmountain]

Very pertinent information here.
Many people have been misled.

All true.
Thanks for posting.

[Salvation]

Oops, your mistake. Cremated remains still need to be buried.

Did you read the article?

[ThanhPhero]

My ashes are to go to a family in VIệt Nam and thence either to a convent that I have been of some assistance to or to a monastery where I spent a short time. It is up to Ông Thông. I have my own preference but I won't have much to say about it at the time.

[JesusIsLord]

Oops, your mistake. Cremated remains still need to be buried.

At the local RC cemetery, it's required that cremains be in a RC approved container and the cost of opening and closing a grave for cremains is virtually the same as for a coffin, which is ridiculous. Also, there are headstone foundation and headstone requirements. Naturally, the RC cemetery makes money for all these "required" things.

In fairness to the RC church, it's not required that Roman Catholics be buried in a RC cemetery. However, it is required that any burial meet RC "requirements".