Controlling Yourself

Grace to You.org ^ | 1993 | John MacArthur, Grace Community Church

[metmom]

"Blessed are the gentle, for they shall inherit the earth" (Matt. 5:5).

Gentleness is power under control.

The Greek word translated "gentle" in Matthew 5:5 speaks of humility, meekness, and non-retaliation—traits that in our proud society are often equated with weakness or cowardice. But in reality they are virtues that identify kingdom citizens.

The same word was used by the Greeks to describe a gentle breeze, a soothing medicine, or a domesticated colt. Those are examples of power under control: a gentle breeze brings pleasure, but a hurricane brings destruction; a soothing medicine brings healing, but an overdose can kill; a domesticated colt is useful, but a wild horse is dangerous.

Christ Himself is the epitome of gentleness. Even when officially announcing His messiahship to Jerusalem, He humbly entered the city astride a donkey (Matt. 21:5). His behavior amid persecution was exemplary: "Christ . . . suffered for you, leaving you an example for you to follow in His steps, who committed no sin, nor was any deceit found in His mouth; and while being reviled, He did not revile in return; while suffering, He uttered no threats" (1 Pet. 2:21-23).

Despite His humility and restraint, Jesus wasn't weak or cowardly. He never defended Himself, but when His Father's house was being desecrated, He made a whip and beat those who were defiling it (John 2:13-16; Matt. 21:12-13). He never shirked from pronouncing judgment on unrepentant sinners, and never compromised His integrity or disobeyed His Father's will.

The hypocritical Jewish religious leaders expected that when Israel's Messiah came He would commend them for their wonderful spirituality. Instead, Jesus condemned them and called them children of the devil (John 8:44). In retaliation they had Him murdered. His power was always under control; theirs wasn't.

Our society has little use for gentleness. The macho, do-your-own-thing mentality characterizes most of our heroes. But you are called to a higher standard. When you pattern your life after Jesus, you will have a significant impact on society and will know true happiness.

Suggestions for Prayer

Thank God for the virtue of gentleness, which He is producing in you by the power of His Spirit. Follow Christ's example today so that gentleness will mark your character.

For Further Study

Read the following passages, noting the responsibilities and blessings that accompany self-restraint: Proverbs 16:32, Ephesians 4:1-2, Colossians 3:12, and Titus 3:1-2.

[metmom]

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[ohioman]

In this violent world, the only thing the meek inherit is a pine box. Give me the “onward Christian soldiers” part of the bible. :)

[aimhigh]

The Greek word in Matthew 5:5 is actually “meek”, not “gentle”. Meek and gentle are not the same. To be gentle means to reach out without doing harm or violence. To be meek means to receive what comes your way without a violent or adverse response.

[HLPhat]

 

Osu?

"Uphold the principles of propriety and courtesy.

Cultivate the sprit of effort.

Perfect a mind of patience.

Live the way of truth.

Do not lose self-control or act in a violent manner."

[vpintheak]

That’s the best not way I’ve read it myself. Gentle?

[metmom]

If you define meek the way the world does about Christians, yes, that’s true.

[inchworm]

Unless the gentle start having more kids, the Islamists will inherit the earth.

[freepertoo]

Moses was described as a meek man...would anyone ever accuse him of cowardice or weakness? Same with Christ. Meekness means quiet submission to God to see what He wants us to do, it does not mean weakness. It means quiet assurance that God will act.