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Toddler's off-color wall decor lands mother in jail
The Bakersfield Californian ^ | February 4, 2005 | unknown

Posted on 02/05/2005 3:49:43 AM PST by beaversmom

Landlord spots centerfold from Hustler magazine in boy's room, calls deputies

The Bakersfield Californian

Posted: Friday February 4th, 2005, 11:30 PM Last Updated: Friday February 4th, 2005, 11:42 PM

It's not every mother who would put up a Hustler centerfold picture in her 2-year-old son's room.

KW Associates, Realtors Just because he asked her to.

It might have just been a parenting issue for the mom, Marisa Nicole Sivesind of Bakersfield, who reportedly said she put up the graphic picture because she didn't want her son to call her vulgar names, Kern County sheriff's reports say. She allegedly told a deputy that it was her son who asked her to buy the porn magazine a week earlier when they were in a liquor store.

As the boy was thumbing through the magazine in a bedroom he shares with his 1-year-old sister, he picked out the centerfold of a nude woman purportedly named "Lexi Marie."

He asked his mom to put it up on the bedroom wall. That's where an apartment manager saw it and reported the incident to authorities.

Deputies arrested Sivesind on Jan. 21 in the 600 block of Morning Drive after a neighbor and a landlord reported the matter to the deputies.

Sivesind is charged with providing harmful matter to a minor.

The 22-year-old mother was also charged with a misdemeanor criminal threat, for allegedly threatening to kill a neighbor.

The alleged threat came as Sivesind sat in a patrol car and saw her neighbor taking the 2-year-old to a social worker, the reports say.

The threat was "I'm going to get you," but later, as she was being booked into jail, she reportedly said, "I might be going for six hours this time, but I'll go for 25-to-life for murder the next time."

The threats came after she allegedly called her neighbor the same bad names she didn't want her son to call her.

Sivesind pleaded not guilty to both charges Friday and was set for a pretrial hearing Feb. 25 in Kern County Superior Court.

She is free from jail after posting bond.


TOPICS: Culture/Society
KEYWORDS: cpswatch; parenting; porn
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To: frogjerk

This country COULD benefit from a few more people minding their own business,and not calling the police or ACLU every time they see something they don't like.


41 posted on 02/05/2005 6:07:43 AM PST by hoosierham
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To: The Wizard

If you're not joking, you are as whacked out as this woman is. The children are not in "the horrors of no parent". The will be given to a foster family. Most foster parents are good, decent people.


42 posted on 02/05/2005 6:17:14 AM PST by EricT. (Join the Soylent Green Party...We recycle dead environmentalists.)
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To: The Wizard

I'm with you on this. Can such a young child really have any idea what the picture was about? If a parent wants her child to get used to the idea of naked human bodies at a young age, so be it, that's their right. Not everyone should be forced to have the same unreasonable taboos with regards to human skin.


43 posted on 02/05/2005 6:22:52 AM PST by thoughtomator (The Democrat party is a bribery racket)
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To: hoosierham
This country COULD benefit from a few more people minding their own business,and not calling the police or ACLU every time they see something they don't like.

Agreed
Bunch of busybodies. I had a picture of an angel in my daughters room............!
Someday they will want to know that such a Right wing fanatic has an angel in the kids room and take her to jail! So much for Liberty...
44 posted on 02/05/2005 6:27:01 AM PST by LynnHam
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To: thoughtomator
I'm with you on this. ... If a parent wants her child to get used to the idea of naked human bodies at a young age, so be it, that's their right. Not everyone should be forced to have the same unreasonable taboos with regards to human skin.

If that were the sum total of this story I'd agree with you. Although Hustler usually shows a little more than just a naked body.

Can such a young child really have any idea what the picture was about? ...

Good question and that's where this story takes a big u-turn from reality. From the simple issues of parental rights, privacy and nudity. Do two year olds talk? I guess some do but how many form cogent coherent sentences like "Mom, if you put this picture on my wall I won't call you dirty names anymore." That's a mighty big psychological concept for a 2 yr old. How many 2 yr olds "thumb" through magazines? Paw through and mangle maybe, but thumb? Then this woman has the presence of mind to threaten to murder the neighbor in front of police officers.

Oh yeah, she's just a mom doing her best who feels her rights were trampled on. You betcha! The implications of those statements make putting up a Hustler centerfold seem mundane.

45 posted on 02/05/2005 6:50:47 AM PST by TigersEye (Intellectuals only exist if you think they do.)
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To: bobwoodard
Also, the landlord could have been in the apartment fixing something. It seems some people are so eager to find fault with the landlord and not the mother. Just like the actress that was killed. Some said it was her fault for talking back. No, it might have accelerated the situation but the shooter was in the wrong.
46 posted on 02/05/2005 6:50:55 AM PST by surelyclintonsbaddream
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To: surelyclintonsbaddream

"It might have just been a parenting issue for the mom, Marisa Nicole Sivesind of Bakersfield, who reportedly said she put up the graphic picture because she didn't want her son to call her vulgar names..."

Huh?!


47 posted on 02/05/2005 6:58:09 AM PST by Common Sense 101
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To: TigersEye

People still have rights even if they are not sinless themselves, and I would be pretty livid as well if I saw someone trying to take my child. It's valid to question whether a nude pin-up on the wall is sufficient cause to take a person's children away from them.


48 posted on 02/05/2005 7:00:47 AM PST by thoughtomator (The Democrat party is a bribery racket)
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To: Uncle Meat

49 posted on 02/05/2005 7:01:57 AM PST by Graybeard58 (Remember and pray for Spec.4 Matt Maupin - MIA/POW- Iraq since 04/09/04)
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To: TigersEye
"Mom, if you put this picture on my wall I won't call you dirty names anymore." I wonder where he learned these dirty names. Maybe "on the street" among his peers?


50 posted on 02/05/2005 7:06:45 AM PST by Graybeard58 (Remember and pray for Spec.4 Matt Maupin - MIA/POW- Iraq since 04/09/04)
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To: beaversmom

The parenting part certainly could be better, but put her in jail for this (at tax payers' expense, I may add)?


51 posted on 02/05/2005 7:20:34 AM PST by Fishing-guy
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To: thoughtomator
People still have rights even if they are not sinless themselves,...

True. What's your point?

... and I would be pretty livid as well if I saw someone trying to take my child.

Who wouldn't? How many will go out of their way to make explicit death threats with LEOs for witnesses? Would you?

It's valid to question whether a nude pin-up on the wall is sufficient cause to take a person's children away from them.

It is also valid to point out that there is far more cause than the pin-up here to suspect that this woman is imbalanced. Highly imbalanced. Do you think there might have been other clues that this article doesn't report?

52 posted on 02/05/2005 7:21:03 AM PST by TigersEye (Intellectuals only exist if you think they do.)
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To: kizzdogg
What 2 year old asks for a Hustler centerfold?

(raising hand meekly)

53 posted on 02/05/2005 7:21:47 AM PST by Lazamataz (Proudly Posting Without Reading the Article Since 1999!)
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To: Graybeard58
Maybe "on the street" among his peers?

A two year old?

54 posted on 02/05/2005 7:22:14 AM PST by TigersEye (Intellectuals only exist if you think they do.)
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To: sweetliberty

Come to California...


55 posted on 02/05/2005 7:23:58 AM PST by null and void (God must love stupid people - He made so many of them... (Not enough to win an election!) -restornu)
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To: thoughtomator

WHAT is wrong about this, is landlords and the state coming into their home, and arresting the mother, this is bad, nobody should have the right to tell people what they can or cant hang on their walls, what is the next step, maybe the neighbor will be peeking into someones home and find some religous icon they dont like,this stinks of commie crap .


56 posted on 02/05/2005 7:27:18 AM PST by douglas1 (MY)
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To: BB2
There are laws concerning landlord access to your apartment, need, notice, etc., if he wasn't in there for a particular reason, he could be charged as well. How did this happen? That's what I'd like to know.

As a landlord, I was wondering the same thing.

57 posted on 02/05/2005 7:28:29 AM PST by muggs
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To: beaversmom

the democrat plantation in action!


58 posted on 02/05/2005 7:30:25 AM PST by ken21 (most news today is either stupid or evil.)
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To: TigersEye
Maybe "on the street" among his peers?

A two year old?

That was my point.

59 posted on 02/05/2005 7:33:08 AM PST by Graybeard58 (Remember and pray for Spec.4 Matt Maupin - MIA/POW- Iraq since 04/09/04)
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To: Allegra

Morning Allegra, pleased to see you around. Ignore the other guy ...... he's not even a member of the Curmudgeons Union and I intend to report him to the local! ;-0


60 posted on 02/05/2005 7:39:27 AM PST by HoustonCurmudgeon (Redneck from a red city, in a red county, in a red state.)
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