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Sex and the single black woman
The Economist ^ | Apr 8th 2010 | The Economist

Posted on 04/13/2010 11:51:43 AM PDT by unclebankster

How the mass incarceration of black men hurts black women

IMAGINE that the world consists of 20 men and 20 women, all of them heterosexual and in search of a mate. Since the numbers are even, everyone can find a partner. But what happens if you take away one man? You might not think this would make much difference. You would be wrong, argues Tim Harford, a British economist, in a book called “The Logic of Life”. With 20 women pursuing 19 men, one woman faces the prospect of spinsterhood. So she ups her game. Perhaps she dresses more seductively. Perhaps she makes an extra effort to be obliging. Somehow or other, she “steals” a man from one of her fellow women. That newly single woman then ups her game, too, to steal a man from someone else. A chain reaction ensues. Before long, every woman has to try harder, and every man can relax a little.

Real life is more complicated, of course, but this simple model illustrates an important truth. In the marriage market, numbers matter. And among African-Americans, the disparity is much worse than in Mr Harford’s imaginary example. Between the ages of 20 and 29, one black man in nine is behind bars. For black women of the same age, the figure is about one in 150. For obvious reasons, convicts are excluded from the dating pool. And many women also steer clear of ex-cons, which makes a big difference when one young black man in three can expect to be locked up at some point.

Removing so many men from the marriage market has profound consequences. As incarceration rates exploded between 1970 and 2007, the proportion of US-born black women aged 30-44 who were married plunged from 62% to 33%. Why this happened is complex and furiously debated. The era of mass imprisonment began as traditional mores were already crumbling, following the sexual revolution of the 1960s and the invention of the contraceptive pill. It also coincided with greater opportunities for women in the workplace. These factors must surely have had something to do with the decline of marriage.

But jail is a big part of the problem, argue Kerwin Kofi Charles, now at the University of Chicago, and Ming Ching Luoh of National Taiwan University. They divided America up into geographical and racial “marriage markets”, to take account of the fact that most people marry someone of the same race who lives relatively close to them. Then, after crunching the census numbers, they found that a one percentage point increase in the male incarceration rate was associated with a 2.4-point reduction in the proportion of women who ever marry. Could it be, however, that mass incarceration is a symptom of increasing social dysfunction, and that it was this social dysfunction that caused marriage to wither? Probably not. For similar crimes, America imposes much harsher penalties than other rich countries. Mr Charles and Mr Luoh controlled for crime rates, as a proxy for social dysfunction, and found that it made no difference to their results. They concluded that “higher male imprisonment has lowered the likelihood that women marry…and caused a shift in the gains from marriage away from women and towards men.” Learning and earning

Similar problems afflict working-class whites, but they are more concentrated among blacks. Some 70% of black babies are born out of wedlock. The collapse of the traditional family has made black Americans far poorer and lonelier than they would otherwise have been. The least-educated black women suffer the most. In 2007 only 11% of US-born black women aged 30-44 without a high school diploma had a working spouse, according to the Pew Research Centre. Their college-educated sisters fare better, but are still affected by the sex imbalance. Because most seek husbands of the same race—96% of married black women are married to black men—they are ultimately fishing in the same pool.

Black women tend to stay in school longer than black men. Looking only at the non-incarcerated population, black women are 40% more likely to go to college. They are also more likely than white women to seek work. One reason why so many black women strive so hard is because they do not expect to split the household bills with a male provider. And the educational disparity creates its own tensions. If you are a college-educated black woman with a good job and you wish to marry a black man who is your socioeconomic equal, the odds are not good.

“I thought I was a catch,” sighs an attractive black female doctor at a hospital in Washington, DC. Black men with good jobs know they are “a hot commodity”, she observes. When there are six women chasing one man, “It’s like, what are you going to do extra, to get his attention?” Some women offer sex on the first date, she says, which makes life harder for those who prefer to combine romance with commitment. She complains about a recent boyfriend, an electrician whom she had been dating for about six months, whose phone started ringing late at night. It turned out to be his other girlfriend. Pressed, he said he didn’t realise the relationship was meant to be exclusive.

The skewed sex ratio “puts black women in an awful spot,” says Audrey Chapman, a relationship counsellor and the author of several books with titles such as “Getting Good Loving”. Her advice to single black women is pragmatic: love yourself, communicate better and so on. She says that many black men and women, having been brought up by single mothers, are unsure what role a man should play in the home. The women expect to be in charge; the men sometimes resent this. Nisa Muhammad of the Wedded Bliss Foundation, a pro-marriage group, urges her college-educated sisters to consider marrying honourable blue-collar workers, such as the postman. But the simplest way to help the black family would be to lock up fewer black men for non-violent offences.


TOPICS: Business/Economy
KEYWORDS: blackcrime; blackmen; blackwomen; china; chinesemen; crime; dating; interracial; man; men; race; racist; relationships; relationsihps
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To: hinckley buzzard
If you stop incarcerating even nonviolent criminals you will have the streets crawling with nonviolent criminals.

Idle hands are the Devil's workshop.

121 posted on 04/14/2010 4:23:16 AM PDT by Elsie (Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
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To: Jim Noble
Wonder if that’s the plan?

Nah...

If we wanted fodder we could very easily outlaw abortion, but take the children that would HAVE BEEN KILLED into the loving arms of Uncle Sam and creat fighting machines out of them.

122 posted on 04/14/2010 4:25:05 AM PDT by Elsie (Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
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To: relictele

Oh Honey!

They tell all the TIME!


123 posted on 04/14/2010 4:26:46 AM PDT by Elsie (Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
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To: ClearBlueSky

Where’s that Long Legged Mack Daddy when you NEED him?


124 posted on 04/14/2010 4:27:41 AM PDT by Elsie (Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
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To: rockhardo
Stop tolerating SUBSIDIZING promiscuity and criminal behavior among your men, stop having children out of wedlock, and stop blaming the problem on racism.
125 posted on 04/14/2010 4:28:42 AM PDT by Elsie (Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
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To: rockhardo
And how does it help families to tolerate criminal behavior of any sort?

SIN is a reproach to ANY Nation.

126 posted on 04/14/2010 4:30:10 AM PDT by Elsie (Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
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To: Charles Henrickson

No; I did NOT read ahead and steal your reply!

GMTA


127 posted on 04/14/2010 4:31:24 AM PDT by Elsie (Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
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To: Elsie
If we wanted fodder

I was talking about China.

128 posted on 04/14/2010 4:32:53 AM PDT by Jim Noble (Let tyrants shake their iron rod, and slavery clank her galling chains)
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To: OldMissileer
I can dream, can't I?

"I have a dream..."

Martin is spinning in his grave!

129 posted on 04/14/2010 4:33:04 AM PDT by Elsie (Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
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To: Ellendra
"Men will behave as badly as the women around them will tolerate."

So true!

My pastor even states that "men are dogs".

130 posted on 04/14/2010 4:34:07 AM PDT by Elsie (Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
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To: TASMANIANRED
Ultimately it comes down once again to the government caused the problem and the government sustains the problem.

When are WE going to FINALLY be fed up with it and actually DO something about it instead of inspecting our navals on FR all day long?

131 posted on 04/14/2010 4:36:45 AM PDT by Elsie (Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
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To: Minn

AMEN!

No more CLAIMS,

Give us FACTS!


132 posted on 04/14/2010 4:37:34 AM PDT by Elsie (Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
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To: wardaddy
most black men and white women down here involves neither marriage or non obesity or fathering beyond conception

Down WHERE?

133 posted on 04/14/2010 4:41:08 AM PDT by Elsie (Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
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To: Jim Noble

Oh...


134 posted on 04/14/2010 4:42:22 AM PDT by Elsie (Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
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To: Elsie
Stop tolerating SUBSIDIZING promiscuity and criminal behavior among your men, stop having children out of wedlock, and stop blaming the problem on racism.

I think you hit the nail on the head.

IIRC, if a woman was going to receive WIC and the rest of the alphabet soup of 'aid', she couldn't be married and living with her able-bodied husband.

135 posted on 04/14/2010 4:49:50 AM PDT by Smokin' Joe (How often God must weep at humans' folly. Stand fast. God knows what He is doing.)
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To: Elsie

Really interesting. Hadn’t heard of that phenomena. Got to love those central planners. What happens when the supposed smartest run things. I think I prefer freedom. Here you don’t have the government killing your over quota dogs or children yet, although we’re on our way.


136 posted on 04/14/2010 6:09:09 AM PDT by throwback
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To: Elsie

Nashville area

i’d wager 1/3 of poor fat white trash women here have mixed babies and marriage and fatherhood is 100% absent


137 posted on 04/14/2010 8:50:50 AM PDT by wardaddy (Will adobe ever fix shockwave to work consistently?)
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To: Titus Quinctius Cincinnatus

no doubt...the relaxation of this taboo has created a motherload of sexual opportunity (and careless pregnancy) for ugly fat white or hard faced older white gals who used to go unnoticed

maybe ugly white girls just don’t seem as ugly to some

another race thing I notice is White men prefer Asian women when they go outside their own

I like white Southern women and Colombian gals....and maybe a few other high Spanish white women...taste and culture wise

not to say some mulatto women are not gorgeous...they are indeed..


138 posted on 04/14/2010 8:54:43 AM PDT by wardaddy (Will adobe ever fix shockwave to work consistently?)
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To: wastoute

had it been an “adverse effect” im sure the author would have mentioned it, and apparently it doesn’t since the majority of single black men prefer, date and marry black women.


139 posted on 04/18/2010 4:44:17 AM PDT by blacklady
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To: Cyman

“It appears to me that the biggest obstacle that black women face is...........white women.”

It appears to me that you are completely ignorant. I personally don’t know any black man who desires a white woman. If anything black women are more intimidated by mulatto women and exotic Hispanic women After all they are mainly the type of women black men are most attracted to outside of black women.

“Especially blue eyed blondes. Take a casual perusal of black male celebrities. The black women as a wife or significant other is almost non-existent.”

Yes a very many famous black men have white or non-black partners, still MOST certainly have black wives and significant others. That is a fact, i work in the entertainment industry and see it firsthand.


140 posted on 04/18/2010 6:51:48 AM PDT by blacklady
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