“But...boys’ have been sneaking into girl’s room since the beginning of time. It’s not a new thing.”
Actually I used to sneak them into my room. Because I knew their dad would not do anything if we got caught.
My perspective on the issue would have been far different (never would have tried) if I knew her Dad was going to blow me away if caught..
imho, you are above average intelligence.
One of the stories my husband told me was about going to pick up the girl he was dating before me. The girl’s dad invited him to his study...that was filled with guns. The story made me lol. He never tried anything with her. (Or so he said, lol)