Sorry NJ-ites but I worked in Livingston, NJ for almost a year. There is NOTHING there to keep anyone there.
Once you get away from the Jersey Shore (quite nice in parts, I admit), Jersey is Barstow without the great weather.
At least So Cal (lived there all my life until 6 years ago) has spectacular weather and the ocean, the forest and skiing all within 2 hours (after the 1.5 hours to get the first 10 miles out of the metro area).
I have no idea why NJ thinks they will keep people there.
...Jersey is Barstow without the great weather...
Uhhh, I was stationed at Barstow 70 - 72 and I would not exactly say that the weather on that part of the high desert is all that great.
Heat, sandstorms, snakes, scorpions, ancient seashores, rocks, sand, a girl behind every tree (no trees), scrub and did I mention heat?
It was tolerable, fairly close to mountains and trees, and I met my wife there so there are bright points.
Still, great weather is a stretch.
You are right in saying New Jersey taken all together is less inviting than Barstow but don’t forget that Barstow is in another democrap run state that is failing, California.
“Jersey is Barstow without the great weather.”
I am still trying to digest that. ???
The attraction is simple - a short commute from a nice house to a job on Wall Street that pays $500K.
Don’t have such a job? Then why are you hanging around?
BTW, NJ voters suck. I will be gone within a few years. Other states have a shore LOL.