BREAKING: BRENDA VAN DAM DANCED WITH WESTERFIELD: (Modern Day Westside Story?)7-9-02 Trial Watch

KFMB ^ | July 9, 2002 | KFMB

[fussybutt]

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[bvw]

Wish I could -- just ended. All maudlin for the Van Dams, ended on how courageous they are in seeking justice for their daughter. Not particularly fair -- but the subtheme, unstated, has to be that the case against Westerfield is fumbling so all of the media libertines are out to do what they can to salvage it.

Rotten stuff -- especially since the jury ain't sequestered. They are going to try very hard to sway that jury -- just watch the next two weeks.

[the Deejay]

Speaking of PORN, why do I keep getting these porn/semi-porn popups on this site, along with many other annoying popups? I don't recall them on this site from months past.

[UCANSEE2]

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[hoosiermama]

I don't get them here!

[NatureGirl]

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[BunnySlippers]

I have had some experience with swingers. Fortunately I did not swing, but I was pretty libertine for some time. Live and learn. I definitely highly reccommend against allowing young people to "sow some wild oats."

Okay. The following is just my opinion now.

But as remember the early, early, early reports was that the Van Dam marriage was failing. And Damon suggested wife swapping (which I think they did twice) This is such a male thing and REALLY not a female thing at all. I think Brenda did it to "save the marriage" (we know that this is not the solution). But I think she hated Barb since Barb REALLY was a threat.

I suspect that Brenda could kill Damon at this point for forcing the stupid swinging issue. And I predict that this couple will separate immediately after this trial is over.

[the Deejay]

Is Amore still posting these days? She sent me an email some weeks ago & said she couldn't be bothered with the "flame wars" anymore. Therefore, she wasn't going to be posting.

I was disappointed because I'm the one that referred her to this web site after 9/11.

[Freedom2specul8]

I'm going to go back and find what spec and I were discussing about it..brb

[Valpal1]

This is my opinion only of course, but I think there several relevant factors.

1)A STEPFATHER is far more dangerous than a father. The dirty little secret of the male-bashing feminazi's is that they like to lump stepdads and mommy's stud o'the week in with real fathers to nastify their statistics re: domestic violence/child molesting/physical abuse. The difference between married two parent families of origin vs stepfamilies vs shack ups is large.

2)Regardless of the lies and dissembling on the part of the VD's, they must have in some way gained credibility in the way they finally "spilled the beans". It's pretty obvious that the way Feldman chomped at the bit to get at their sexual history, that they provided an extensive list of names, places and times. Feldy, of course, got that list, but can't go there.

3)There were a 5 and a 9 yr. old witness in the home that evening and morning. They were interviewed seperately and on videotape. It is very likely that their interviews effected LE attitudes regarding Damon's veracity and potential likeliness as a suspect. Do not discount those witnesses, even though we may not be made privy to their statements.

4)Without the ability to go over LE notes and reports of the respective cases, it is impossible to know exactly why they went so differently, why they unfolded in the precise manner they did. We have no idea what the neighbors may have said about the observed behavior of the stepdad in Jahi's case, or what was said by the neighbors, teachers and coworkers of the Van Dam's. But those background interviews can play a heavy role in LE perspectives.

5)Given that SDPD has excellent affirmative action, while promoting based on merit, allegations of possible racism is just the usual tiresome liberal media race baiting.

[the-gooroo]

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[Freedom2specul8]

I was going to make a comment about a comment you responded to, but instead I will reply FREEPMAIL. :)

[the Deejay]

Thanks, I've tried about 5 of them and they're only good for "X" amount of days.

[Freedom2specul8]

fussybutt? LOL Everyone is so creative..

[BARLF]

I'm late to the show again tonight but wanted to say ,"Good Thinking".

Lookie here Jaded!

Good to see you back on here,missed you and your thoughtful imput on these threads.

[hoosiermama]

Concur about the DIVORCE!

I have been wondering if Damon isn't/wasn't having an affair at the time????...Was not actually at home with the children???.Did not really have a business trip????

[UCANSEE2]

But as remember the early, early, early reports was that the Van Dam marriage was failing. And Damon suggested wife swapping (which I think they did twice) This is such a male thing and REALLY not a female thing at all. I think Brenda did it to "save the marriage" (we know that this is not the solution). But I think she hated Barb since Barb REALLY was a threat.

I suspect that Brenda could kill Damon at this point for forcing the stupid swinging issue. And I predict that this couple will separate immediately after this trial is over.

Hmmmmmm..... In MY OPINION, you are probably right. The question now would be, did this 'unhappiness', wife-swapping, jealously, conflict going on, between Barb, Damon, Brenda , HAVE SOMETHING TO DO WITH DANEILLE's DEATH ?

[the Deejay]

LOL!! Affair? Damon? Didn't he have "affairs" with Brenda's knowledge?? (As did she?)

[BunnySlippers]

Is Amore still posting these days? She sent me an email some weeks ago & said she couldn't be bothered with the "flame wars" anymore. Therefore, she wasn't going to be posting.

Amore was really an asset to this discussion especially since she has professional experience which lent itself to this discussion.

It is sad that people who hold an opinion that does not mesh with the majority are villified.

[UCANSEE2]

Is Amore still posting these days?

Yes and NO.

Yes, I believe, on FR in general. No, not on the DW/VD threads.