Posted on 10/09/2002 1:23:13 AM PDT by ALS
MY HORROR FIND AFTER ORDEAL OF ABORTION Oct 8 2002
Woman left to discover jar containing her baby
Lisa Adams Exclusive
A WOMAN who had an abortion was stunned to find the foetus left in a jar after a hospital blunder.
Nicola McManus made the horrific discovery when she was left in a room to answer a phone call from her husband.
The jar was labelled with her name.
She said: "I fell apart. I couldn't believe anyone could be careless enough just to leave it lying there. That image will live with me forever."
Mum-of-three Nicola, 27, received a a full apology from the hospital but plans to sue North Glasgow NHS Trust, claiming the handling of the abortion left her psychologically scarred.
She took the RU486 abortion pill, which requires no surgery and is supposed to make terminations easier.
However, she said it no quick fix and she was offered no counselling by Glasgow's Stobhill Hospital.
She said: "They explained the procedure and got me to sign some forms. But no one actually sat down and asked me if this was what I really wanted to do.
"I was struggling to get my head around it. They made me feel just like a number."
Nicola, from Lennoxtown, near Glasgow, was nine weeks pregnant when she had the abortion in August.
She and husband Frank, 26, who is epileptic, decided a fourth child would be too much to cope with.
Nicola's eldest son, Nathan, six, has behavioural problems and demands a large chunk of her time, as do Aiden, four, and baby Bethany.
The abortion pill works by causing a miscarriage. Nicola lay for hours in the ward waiting for it to take effect, then felt intense pain.
She said: "I wanted Frank to hold my hand but was told he could only stay during visiting hours. I was in a lot of pain and felt so alone."
Then, said Nicola: "They gave me a bed pan to take to the loo and something to cover it up. Eventually, I felt it happen. I was really upset. I've never felt so low."
She was relieved when Frank phoned to find out how she was.
Nurses showed her in to a side room to take the call and that's when she saw the jar containing the foetus.
She said: "I was mid-conversation and saw it. I told Frank and he tried to comfort me but I wasn't listening any more. I was crying.
"I was clearly upset when I returned to the ward and the nurses asked what was wrong. How could they not know?"
Nicola filed an official complaint and received an apologetic letter from the trust which said the room was not normally used by patients.
General manager Mary McGinley wrote: "Unfortunately, the products of conception from your termination were in a labelled jar ready to be sent to pathology and awaiting collection.
"The ward sister apologises for the obvious distress this has caused you."
Until now, the abortion pill has only been given in hospitals but family planning clinics and GPs were recently given the go ahead to use them.
Women may even be allowed to take the drug alone at home.
But Nicola fears a lack of medical support could leave some women traumatised.
She said: "Women need more counselling before abortions, not less.
"I will never get over what happened to me."
As well it should, murderer.
I hope so!
This is the most monstrous aspect of this story. Use birth control or get your tubes tied if you can't cope with more children, idiots. They should take the other children from them and then they won't have to cope with anything.
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Welcome to reality. What do women think happens to the so-called fetus after abortion? They just mysteriously disappear into a cloud of beautiful rhethoric?
Pathologists. Are they medical researchers? The remains of the morning after pill were labelled. I didn't know that researchers could use such early stage bodies. Seeing her name on the jar was creepy. I would suspect the remains needed a careful DNA background of the mother. FReegards....
What a shame the baby had to die for you to realize your a killer maybe you wont be careless next time and keep your legs together i hope the image haunts you all the days of your life and then some
ABORTION IS MURDER
She and husband Frank, 26, who is epileptic, decided a fourth child would be too much to cope with.
A full size photo of the fetus should be sent home to this fella as well signed "this was your child now just a memmory " to bad he dont experiance the same trauma as she will!
I'd agree except that what if the father wanted to keep the baby and the "mother" was unilaterally exercising her "right to choose"?
"How dare they confront me with the reality of my own crime!"
That is exactly why he should be invited to attend. Let mothers consider this rather... ehem... uncomfortable situation.
< /sarcasm>
What's with all this "poor me" stuff? Her baby won't "get over it" either.
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