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Female teacher says sex with boy, 10, was consensual
www.sundaystartimes.co.nz ^ | 15 DECEMBER 2002 | SARAH CATHERALL

Posted on 12/15/2002 1:55:48 PM PST by aculeus

A female teacher who had a sexual relationship with a 10-year-old pupil is trying to escape conviction, arguing the boy consented.

Faryn Ripine Matthews, 34, resigned from a Tauranga primary school four days after she walked into Palmerston North police station and made a statement that led to her arrest on three sexual violation charges.

She faces trial in Rotorua in February.

Police say the offending happened between December 2001 and September this year. She is now living with relatives in Palmerston North.

Her lawyer, Fergus Steedman, of Palmerston North, confirmed yesterday Matthews developed an emotional attachment to the boy, of whom she had been fond "for some time". A sexual relationship began, he said.

The teacher - whom he said would never work with children again and while on bail is barred from contact with under 16-year-olds - realised that what she had done was "utterly wrong" and was guilty of a breach of trust.

But while it was an offence for an adult male to have sex with an underage female, Steedman said it was not an offence for a woman to have sex with a boy under 16.

"Because of this statutory anomaly, the police had no alternative other than to charge my client with sexual violation. The relevant section of the Crimes Act provides people in my client's position with a defence which, if accepted at trial, operates as a complete bar to conviction.

"Regardless of the eventual outcome of the trial, my client acknowledges that she is guilty of a huge lapse of judgement. She regrets her actions deeply. Her remorse is enormous. That is why she went to the police," said Steedman.

Detective Brett Calkin, the officer in charge, confirmed there were limited protections for boys having sex with women, compared with those for girls and young boys having sex with men.

While Steedman would argue the boy consented to sex, Calkin said police would say that if any consent was given by a 10-year-old, it was not valid.

He said the boy's parents knew he had extensive social contact with the teacher, but were unaware of their sexual relationship.

Once Matthews made her statement, police took immediate steps to protect the boy, arresting her and alerting Child Youth and Family to ensure the boy was safe.

The boy's family was particularly upset that Matthews was now denying the charges.

Matthews had taught at the school from January 1999 until July 2002 when she took extended study leave, and officially resigned on October 9. The school says the offending did not take place there or during school hours.

On Thursday, the school sent a newsletter to parents, reassuring them their children were safe and advising them of the sex charges. Matthews is still a registered teacher and her teaching certificate is due to expire next November.


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1 posted on 12/15/2002 1:55:48 PM PST by aculeus
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To: aculeus
LOL! The title says it all!
2 posted on 12/15/2002 2:06:04 PM PST by Cold Heat
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To: aculeus
She shoulda hollered rape. Has about as much validity.

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3 posted on 12/15/2002 2:09:35 PM PST by JCG
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To: aculeus
Dr. Levin and her adult-child sex endorsing friend, Dr. Joycelyn Elders would probably agree with this teacher.
4 posted on 12/15/2002 2:16:01 PM PST by anniegetyourgun
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To: aculeus
"If he ain't got pubes, you're down the tubes."
5 posted on 12/15/2002 2:17:23 PM PST by Nick Danger
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To: aculeus
New Zealand: What a country!
6 posted on 12/15/2002 2:38:19 PM PST by Balata
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To: aculeus
Female teacher says sex with boy, 10, was consensual

I'll give this miserable teacher credit for one thing.

We had a female teacher (not bad looking either) of late 20s-early 30-ish
carry on with a young teen male student. She even took him to Las Vegas where she was
arrested and the boy returned to his parents in California.

I thought the cruelest thing that the lady teacher did was first to say
"There was no sexual affair between me and my student".

I thought...now there is a way to finally nail shut the coffin on that boy's self-esteem.

Later, the teacher did admit there was sexual activity...and lots of it.
(I couldn't help wondering if the DA cut a deal and said "for criminies' sake,
you can't give the boy the reputation of some eunuch!".)

I don't mean to make light of these sort of situation...they are sad events.
7 posted on 12/15/2002 2:43:11 PM PST by VOA
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To: aculeus
Ah, yes... New Zealand, where they have confiscated all private firearms "to protect the children..."

Mega-barf alert.

8 posted on 12/15/2002 2:52:44 PM PST by pabianice
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To: aculeus
Teacher: 'Billy, do you want to find out what sex is?'

Billy: 'Oh, my gosh, Miss. Mathews, please tell me!'

Teacher: 'I'm going to better than that Billy. I'm going to show you, but first you have to agree .... Do you agree?'

Billy: 'Golly, gee, Miss. Mathews, what do I do next?'

9 posted on 12/15/2002 2:53:32 PM PST by ex-Texan
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To: aculeus
And her teaching specialty is sex ed.
10 posted on 12/15/2002 2:59:51 PM PST by Slyfox
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To: VOA
This is NO different from what members of the clergy have argued "our boy lovers consented." What a joke!

When I was ten, I was more interested in GI Joe than sex with Mrs. Schor (YUKKK!!!!).

11 posted on 12/15/2002 3:00:05 PM PST by Clemenza
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To: Clemenza
When I was ten, I was more interested in GI Joe than sex with Mrs. Schor (YUKKK!!!!).

Generally that was the case.
Of course, (speaking for myself), we grew up in a world that hadn't yet been
infected with MTV and videogames like "Grand Theft Auto III".

But...even if we were more innocent, I do remember finding something alluring about
some of my female teachers...but at the time, it was mostly that they'd sometimes
bring cookies for the class!!! LOL!

Heaven help the young males of today. Especially the ones that don't have intact
nuclear families with at least some sort of moral compass.
Many of those boys will need the intervention of a higher power to figure out
how to channel their energies and learn to be gentlemen...not just male.
12 posted on 12/15/2002 3:13:52 PM PST by VOA
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To: aculeus
A female teacher who had a sexual relationship with a 10-year-old pupil is trying to escape conviction, arguing the boy consented.

So if I have sex with a 10 year old girl it would be OK if she Consented?
13 posted on 12/15/2002 3:17:12 PM PST by 20yearvet
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To: aculeus
If it were a guy he would probably be facing a life that is either behind bars, or totally stigmatized, or both!

However since it is a female teacher with a male kid that amkes everything ok! The lady willobviously face some chastizement ....but then everything will blow over. However were it a male teacher with a female (or male) student the reaction would be far worse.

14 posted on 12/15/2002 3:18:37 PM PST by spetznaz
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To: shaggy eel
What's with the female kiwis?
15 posted on 12/15/2002 3:20:52 PM PST by Willie Green
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To: Balata
New Zealand: What a country!

,,, it would never happen in the US, would it?

16 posted on 12/15/2002 3:22:46 PM PST by shaggy eel
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To: Willie Green
What's with the female kiwis?

,,, I've asked that question most of my life.

17 posted on 12/15/2002 3:28:29 PM PST by shaggy eel
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To: aculeus
Consensual (willing) sex between female teacher and male student?

If the kid is 17, consent and willingness is totally believable.

If the kid is 14, consent and willingness is believable.

If the kid is 10, consent and willingness is hardly believable.
18 posted on 12/15/2002 3:44:01 PM PST by citizenK
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To: Nick Danger
"If he ain't got pubes, you're down the tubes."

Guess now we know the FR name used by Johnny Cochran, huh?

19 posted on 12/15/2002 4:53:57 PM PST by Madstrider
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20 posted on 12/15/2002 5:07:35 PM PST by Momaw Nadon
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