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Why do men stay away?
Christian Century ^ | October 20, 2011 | Thomas G. Long

Posted on 10/23/2011 6:23:05 PM PDT by hiho hiho

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"Pastel worship, passive and sentimental images of the Christian life, handholding around the communion table and hymns that coo about lover-boy Jesus who "walks with me and talks with me" have replaced stronger, more masculine themes"
1 posted on 10/23/2011 6:23:09 PM PDT by hiho hiho
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To: hiho hiho
Really? The feminine erosion of the church? As David Foster Wallace said in a different context, this is an idea "so stupid it practically drools."

I notice the author doesn't try to refute the idea with facts or reasoning but with a typical leftist's response of "ur stoopid".

2 posted on 10/23/2011 6:30:29 PM PDT by jtal (Runnin' a World in Need with White Folks' Greed - since 1492)
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To: hiho hiho
In the American Catholic Church it started with Folk Masses.

Even when I was a kid I said ughh and complained...a lot...as an altar boy when I was assigned to serve at them.

3 posted on 10/23/2011 6:32:15 PM PDT by buccaneer81 (ECOMCON)
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Same here. They changed from the Latin Mass when I was 7, and then we got the sign of peace and guitar mass and it touchy feely Jesus showed up and bored us all to death.


4 posted on 10/23/2011 6:35:56 PM PDT by magritte
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What is it with men and church? We men are famously outnumbered, to be sure. According to a recent survey, we make up only 39 percent of the worshipers in a typical congregation.

What a bunch of dribble---according to a recent survey is where one should stop reading...

5 posted on 10/23/2011 6:39:23 PM PDT by fight_truth_decay
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To: hiho hiho
...perhaps a clue can be found in a Christian group that attracts men and women in roughly equal numbers: Eastern Orthodoxy. A cynic might say that men are attracted to Orthodoxy because it is conservative, with an all-male clergy...

The feminizing of Christianity is part of the problem - the other part is the 'liberalization' of Christianity... Some churches feel like they're extensions of the democrat party...

6 posted on 10/23/2011 6:39:42 PM PDT by GOPJ (OWS - a scam to shift blame for unemployment and misery away from Obama..)
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To: hiho hiho

There is also sitting around listen to a pastor beggar the point. Forty minutes is plenty of time to deliver an effective sermon.

Singing “He walks with me” just ain’t the same as “Onward Christian Soldiers” or “The Olde Rugged Cross”.

Then listening to a preacher pretty much deliver a eulogy and say the deceased is going to hell because he didn’t attend that church.


7 posted on 10/23/2011 6:39:49 PM PDT by Hawk1976 (It is better to die in battle than it is to live as a slave.)
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To: hiho hiho
What is it with men and church? We men are famously outnumbered, to be sure. According to a recent survey, we make up only 39 percent of the worshipers in a typical congregation.

What a bunch of dribble---according to a recent survey is where one should stop reading...

8 posted on 10/23/2011 6:40:08 PM PDT by fight_truth_decay
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To: hiho hiho

Secularism, Agnosticism. Priest’s and Bishops have had an effect as well.
There were more practicing people 100 years ago in the USof A and Europe than today.

The Church grew almost 7000 % in Africa and the South Pacific in the same period of time.


9 posted on 10/23/2011 6:42:17 PM PDT by reefdiver ("Let His day's be few And another takes His office")
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To: hiho hiho

Personally, the church the author describes is an unbiblical new age church and will never prosper under the hand of almighty God. The church as it should be is laid out in the Epistles of Paul, the apostle to the Gentiles and a female clergy is anathema and is antichrist.
I stick to the independent bible believing churchs and away from the dying and dead mainline cults and denominations.


10 posted on 10/23/2011 6:42:24 PM PDT by kindred ( Third party conservatism is on the rise, God bless the conservative tea party.)
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To: magritte
Yes, I attended a Catholic High School and the first year in March they have an annual week long retreat at the school where you don't talk during the school day and attend Jesuit lectures between meditative periods and reading.

I found that interesting, but then in the 2nd year Vatican II took hold and it became guitars and poems and folk singing and I thought I was in a Saturday night Episcopal coffee shop.

11 posted on 10/23/2011 6:43:03 PM PDT by AU72
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To: hiho hiho

I’ve never missed a single weekend mass since I was baptized. I’m just programmed to show up for mass but to be honest, when I was younger all i did was scan the congregation for hot chicks until my Mom told me to knock it off.


12 posted on 10/23/2011 6:44:20 PM PDT by max americana
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Then they took away the altar rail, then civilians dispensed communion...it was a huge mistake to be ‘trendy.’


13 posted on 10/23/2011 6:45:04 PM PDT by buccaneer81 (ECOMCON)
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To: magritte

I stopped going to mass when we had two priests in a row who were molesting little boys.

That doesn’t make me hate God. I just don’t like the church.


14 posted on 10/23/2011 6:45:35 PM PDT by Vermont Lt (I just don't like anything about the President. And I don't think he's a nice guy.)
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To: Hawk1976
Forty minutes is plenty of time to deliver an effective sermon.

I'm glad I grew up Catholic. 40 minutes could cover our pastor's entire Mass. I was home less than an hour after I left the house for Mass in the first place.

15 posted on 10/23/2011 6:48:16 PM PDT by buccaneer81 (ECOMCON)
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Forty minutes is plenty of time to deliver an effective sermon.

I'm glad I grew up Catholic. 40 minutes could cover our pastor's entire Mass. I was home less than an hour after I left the house for Mass in the first place.

16 posted on 10/23/2011 6:48:35 PM PDT by buccaneer81 (ECOMCON)
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A lot of why men stay away is that the church is compromised. We teach accomodation, instead of protection.

If the church would quit compromising with the world and would work to protect doctrine, men would return.

We need to have church warriors if we want men to be in the church.


17 posted on 10/23/2011 6:49:20 PM PDT by Jonty30
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Why do men stay away?

'cuz.

18 posted on 10/23/2011 6:49:39 PM PDT by the invisib1e hand (...then they came for the guitars, and we kicked their sorry faggot asses into the dust)
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To: buccaneer81

I’ll tell you, as a child, the altar rail, the priest, the songs, the text, is seemed so ... serious.

Then my friend’s mom was giving me communion. She liked porcelain cats. Unserious.


19 posted on 10/23/2011 6:50:18 PM PDT by magritte
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To: Vermont Lt

As a youth, it was quite the opposite. My priest liked the ladies and eventually became too “popular”. He was replaced by another priest that sure had “that look” though.


20 posted on 10/23/2011 6:51:51 PM PDT by magritte
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