Free Republic
Browse · Search
Religion
Topics · Post Article

Skip to comments.

What were weddings like in Jesus’ day?
Archdiocese of Washington ^ | 8/13/2014 | Msgr. Charles Pope

Posted on 08/14/2014 2:34:59 AM PDT by markomalley

click here to read article


Navigation: use the links below to view more comments.
first 1-2021-28 next last

1 posted on 08/14/2014 2:34:59 AM PDT by markomalley
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | View Replies]

To: AllAmericanGirl44; Biggirl; Carpe Cerevisi; ConorMacNessa; Faith65; GreyFriar; Heart-Rest; ...

Msgr Pope ping


2 posted on 08/14/2014 2:35:16 AM PDT by markomalley (Nothing emboldens the wicked so greatly as the lack of courage on the part of the good -- Leo XIII)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 1 | View Replies]

To: markomalley
By the time of Jesus, polygamy among the Jews had disappeared if not altogether vanished.

Sure, I get that.

3 posted on 08/14/2014 2:49:01 AM PDT by Tax-chick (No power in the 'verse can stop me.)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 2 | View Replies]

To: markomalley

Fascinating, thanks for posting.


4 posted on 08/14/2014 3:01:33 AM PDT by agere_contra (Hamas has dug miles of tunnels - but no bomb-shelters.)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 1 | View Replies]

To: markomalley
What were weddings like in Jesus’ day?

No chicken dance? No hokie pokie? That's not a wedding.

5 posted on 08/14/2014 3:07:44 AM PDT by Vaquero (Don't pick a fight with an old guy. If he is too old to fight, he'll just kill you.)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 1 | View Replies]

To: Vaquero
No chicken dance? No hokie pokie?

Given how much wine they drank, they probably had an equivalent.

6 posted on 08/14/2014 3:13:53 AM PDT by Tax-chick (No power in the 'verse can stop me.)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 5 | View Replies]

To: markomalley

From that, to today’s “Bridezilla.” Ugh.


7 posted on 08/14/2014 3:42:39 AM PDT by fieldmarshaldj (Resist We Much)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 1 | View Replies]

To: Tax-chick

My teetotalling fellow Christians still choke at mention of Jesus’ first miracle at the Cana wedding feast.

Especially where the chief steward chides the bridegroom for saving the best wine as he points out that the guests are already too squiffy to appreciate its quality.


8 posted on 08/14/2014 4:02:09 AM PDT by elcid1970 ("In the modern world, Muslims are living fossils.")
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 6 | View Replies]

To: elcid1970

Yes, it’s hard to square that final fact with any sort of non-alcoholic beverage. The text does say (in the RSV) “when men have drunk freely,” so perhaps the women weren’t getting smashed. They probably had to be functional to continue taking care of household tasks and children.


9 posted on 08/14/2014 4:04:59 AM PDT by Tax-chick (No power in the 'verse can stop me.)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 8 | View Replies]

To: Tax-chick

Interesting gender roles.....when Jesus fed the five thousand with loaves & fishes, He first said to His disciples, “Have the men recline”, for it was a grassy & comfortable space.

Was that so that the women would be the ones fetching & distributing the baskets of food?


10 posted on 08/14/2014 4:26:35 AM PDT by elcid1970 ("In the modern world, Muslims are living fossils.")
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 9 | View Replies]

To: elcid1970

That certainly fits with the text, unless the apostles themselves served everyone.

Maybe (although it doesn’t say) the people were called up in groups, like at a buffet dinner: “The first two tables on the left, you go first ...” and so on. That would be consistent with one of the descriptions of their sitting “in companies on the grass, by twenties and fifties.”


11 posted on 08/14/2014 4:30:23 AM PDT by Tax-chick (No power in the 'verse can stop me.)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 10 | View Replies]

To: zot; Interesting Times; SeraphimApprentice

Wedding ping


12 posted on 08/14/2014 4:37:26 AM PDT by GreyFriar (Spearhead - 3rd Armored Division 75-78 & 83-87)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 1 | View Replies]

To: markomalley

In Jesus day, men had “wives” and women were like cattle. It took the Catholic Church and the sacrament of marriage to elevate women to the level of wife.


13 posted on 08/14/2014 5:48:33 AM PDT by Phlap (REDNECK@LIBARTS.EDU)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 1 | View Replies]

To: markomalley

Knowing a number of people from India, their weddings seem quite similar to what was described in the Bible (arranged by families, dowries, long betrothals, massive party lasting for days).


14 posted on 08/14/2014 5:51:21 AM PDT by Buckeye McFrog
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 1 | View Replies]

To: markomalley

** The Hebrew, ah and the Aramaic aha could be used to refer to those who were brothers and sisters, half brothers, cousins and even other near relations. Extended family networks were both insisted upon, and essential for survival. To have these ties and be dependent upon them, was every Jewish person’s duty, and an absolute necessity for survival.**

And so we get references to Jesus’ family in many passages. Glad to see this real reference.


15 posted on 08/14/2014 7:09:28 AM PDT by Salvation ("With God all things are possible." Matthew 19:26)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 1 | View Replies]

To: elcid1970

The first miracle of Christ a Cana shows the importance of a couple of things to me.

First, the importance of weddings and marriage and family.

Second, the importance of intercession — remember it was Christ’s mother who said to him, “They have no wine.” After his reply, she then utters her last words in the Bible: “Do whatever he tells you.”


16 posted on 08/14/2014 7:13:07 AM PDT by Salvation ("With God all things are possible." Matthew 19:26)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 8 | View Replies]

To: GreyFriar

Thanks for the ping to this interesting article.


17 posted on 08/14/2014 9:57:54 AM PDT by zot
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 12 | View Replies]

To: markomalley; Tax-chick; GregB; Berlin_Freeper; SumProVita; narses; bboop; SevenofNine; ...

Ping!


18 posted on 08/14/2014 1:55:01 PM PDT by NYer ("You are a puff of smoke that appears briefly and then disappears." James 4:14)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 1 | View Replies]

To: elcid1970

**Was that so that the women would be the ones fetching & distributing the baskets of food?**

No, the apostles played this part in the scenario....remember they were learning to be leader/servants like Christ.


19 posted on 08/14/2014 4:39:14 PM PDT by Salvation ("With God all things are possible." Matthew 19:26)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 10 | View Replies]

To: Salvation

Mary’s first intercession to our Lord Jesus Christ!

My teetotalling coworkers would have preferred for Him to reply, “Mother, there is already too much drunkenness at this feast, and I will not contribute to the guests’ further inebriation!”

(How did Mary His mother know of Jesus’ miraculous powers?)


20 posted on 08/14/2014 4:50:59 PM PDT by elcid1970 ("In the modern world, Muslims are living fossils.")
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 16 | View Replies]


Navigation: use the links below to view more comments.
first 1-2021-28 next last

Disclaimer: Opinions posted on Free Republic are those of the individual posters and do not necessarily represent the opinion of Free Republic or its management. All materials posted herein are protected by copyright law and the exemption for fair use of copyrighted works.

Free Republic
Browse · Search
Religion
Topics · Post Article

FreeRepublic, LLC, PO BOX 9771, FRESNO, CA 93794
FreeRepublic.com is powered by software copyright 2000-2008 John Robinson