Here’s the simple fact. It doesn’t matter what kind of sexual desires or thoughts you might have welcome or unwelcome in the end you have a choice. I have no doubt its 100% a choice. The vast majority of lesbians I’ve known have daddy problems. Also I know many people who have claimed different sexual identities over time. The idea that one is born to be gay is dumb. Yes people may be born with some propensity to behaviors and physical attributes that makes them less likely to fit into the feminine masculine norm but it is a big leap to then deciding to pursue a sex sex relationship.If you are going to do that at least own it rather than concocting a biologically dumb idea of being born that way. I personally suspect that at least with men that it involves sexual imprinting which is a very powerful thing. It explains why there is such a prevalence of sexual abuse reported by gay men as occurring during their childhood and it also explains why sexual abuse per population is so much higher among gays. The transexual bs has really thrown a monkey wrench into the born this way bull crap.