The cultural struggle over homosexuality is being fought in two arenas with quite different results. The first is the arena of public opinion, and here, thanks to generally favorable media attention, gays and lesbians are experiencing great success. The recent protest against Colorado Springs-based Focus on the Family produced the usual lopsided media coverage. On one side were fetching photos and references to gays and lesbians; on the other was a series of hateful quotes uttered by the most ignorant "supporters" of Focus on the Family. This familiar formula isn't likely to change anytime soon, but there is another arena...