Please come in, have a seat. May I call you Debbie?So what's troubling you today?Yes. Yes, I understand. I hear this story from women all too frequently these days.While he was wooing you he seemed like such a good listener, as if he really cared. He knew all the right things to say. It was enough to make a girl swoon.I know: His vows seemed so sincere. He seemed like he'd be such a good partner.And it turned out that all he cared about was your "lady parts."..............Debbie, we really need to get one thing clear here which I think...