[sparklite2]

I learned early on that if I needed to discuss something with my wife that might cause a shit-storm, the place to do it was over a restaurant table, where she was loathe to make a scene.

[Flaming Conservative]

I learned early on that if I needed to discuss something with my wife that might cause a shit-storm, the place to do it was over a restaurant table, where she was loathe to make a scene.
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I hope you’re joking, but if not, more than a little cowardly. Not to mention ruining a good meal. I don’t like to make a scene, either, but in your case, I’d make an exception.