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On Her Wedding Day, Saying the Things Left Unsaid
Politics Daily ^ | 7/24/10 | Andrew Cohen

Posted on 07/28/2010 7:28:24 AM PDT by fullchroma

The great love of my life marries today and I am not the groom. I had my chance, a few years ago, but did not realize until too late how fleeting my moment with her was meant to be. Whether it was my fault or hers, and, let's face it, it was probably mine, I will wonder always about the life I might have had with the most loving and loveable woman I have ever known. Sometimes, I finally now understand, love, even crazy love, is not enough. Sometimes, as the romance novelists know, timing is everything.

But today is not a day for remorse. It is not a day for lost causes. Today is a day for celebration. The woman I once promised to keep happy is happy. She tells me she is marrying a wonderful man, with a good heart, whom she believes I would have liked had we met in different circumstances. She lives where she wants to live. She has selected her life's path. All that is left for me to do is to wish her well and to hope that she has made the right choice; that she continues to find in him what she did not find in me. And I am sure he considers himself today the luckiest man on the face of the Earth.

The present I humbly send her today is this column; this public note, this irrevocable display of affection and support and gratitude; this worldly absolution from any guilt or sadness she felt between the time she said no to me and the time she said yes to him.

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TOPICS: Humor; Miscellaneous; Society; Weird Stuff
KEYWORDS: 2ndplaceis1stloser; desperateplea; dramaking; marriage; navelgazing; pettypityparty; selfabsorption; suckup; treacle; whatatool
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A reminder to all never to drink and post.
1 posted on 07/28/2010 7:28:29 AM PDT by fullchroma
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To: fullchroma
Sooooo, why he did he dump her and about that whole drink and post thing......I concur.....
2 posted on 07/28/2010 7:32:02 AM PDT by Kimmers (Illegal immigration is destroying America, look what it did to the White House)
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To: fullchroma

I couldn’t finish it. I need a drink.


3 posted on 07/28/2010 7:33:28 AM PDT by 1rudeboy
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To: fullchroma

and she took the dog and pickup truck, too


4 posted on 07/28/2010 7:33:40 AM PDT by silverleaf (Those who can make you believe absurdities can make you commit atrocities.)
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To: fullchroma

...and 1425 drunk readers voted they liked it.


5 posted on 07/28/2010 7:34:20 AM PDT by television is just wrong
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To: fullchroma
Funny comment at the link:

Yuck. Next time just get her something off the registry.
6 posted on 07/28/2010 7:35:58 AM PDT by stylecouncilor (What Would Jim Thompson Do?)
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To: fullchroma
All that is left for me to do is to wish her well and to hope that she has made the right choice; that she continues to find in him what she did not find in me.

I'd be banned if I said it.

BTW - "navalgazing" as a keyword - LOL

7 posted on 07/28/2010 7:39:33 AM PDT by MissTed (Never buy products from ACME.)
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To: fullchroma

Seems no matter how hard she tried, she couldn’t turn him into a real man.


8 posted on 07/28/2010 7:40:45 AM PDT by Blue Collar Christian (A "tea bagger"? Say it to my face. ><BCC>)
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To: fullchroma

First line of ancient but moving toast:
“To health, wealth, and love!”

Second line of that toast:
“And, may you have the time to enjoy them.”

The above toast has been around for a very long time. The article is very much in the spirit of that toast.

Give him credit for an interesting article, albeit arguably a bit on the personal side for general publication.

PS I don’t drink. Seems half a beer and I can feel the effects and I don’t like them. But I did like the article.


9 posted on 07/28/2010 7:41:25 AM PDT by GladesGuru (In a society predicated upon freedom, it is essential to examine principles,)
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To: stylecouncilor
Yuck. Next time just get her something off the registry.

That was my favorite. My sentiment, too.

10 posted on 07/28/2010 7:45:23 AM PDT by fullchroma
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To: fullchroma

Classy guy /s


11 posted on 07/28/2010 7:45:30 AM PDT by Huck (Q: How can you tell a party is in the minority? A: They're complaining about the deficit.)
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To: fullchroma

Buy a cat.


12 posted on 07/28/2010 7:47:00 AM PDT by Interesting Times (For the truth about "swift boating" see ToSetTheRecordStraight.com)
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To: fullchroma

Having gone through a painful divorce, two years alone now, I have stated, “Never again!”. I have neither dated nor desired to date. I am free to be dad to my kids (son to her, and a daughter to another some years earlier) and grandpap to my grandson. I hunt, fish camp and attend weekend long outdoor rock festivals and I am TOTALLY free!

Now, how to arrange financing for my 2010 HD Road king, hehehe


13 posted on 07/28/2010 7:48:16 AM PDT by PAMadMax (Islam is a disease....)
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To: fullchroma
What a self-serving column. He continues to profess his love in such a grandiose way that he's just screaming for her continuing attention and her recognition of what a great guy he is.

This isn't releasing her of a burden, as he claims. This is a lame attempt to saddle her with doubt about her decision by showing her that he loves her soooooo much he wishes her well even as he's left pitifully behind.

All good thoughts, if kept to himself. Publishing them like this...LAME.

14 posted on 07/28/2010 7:52:20 AM PDT by grady ("Peace is that brief glorious moment in history when everybody stands around reloading." - Unknown)
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To: fullchroma

Angie:”But everyone needs someone”

Hondo:”Yes ma’am” Hondo continued eating. “To bad, isn’t it?”

L’Amour - Hondo


15 posted on 07/28/2010 7:53:54 AM PDT by Kartographer (".. we mutually pledge to each other our lives, our fortunes, and our sacred honor.")
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To: silverleaf
and she took the dog and pickup truck, too

It's worse than that. His huntin' rifle and fishin' rod were in the back and she was towing the boat.

Garde la Foi, mes amis! Nous nous sommes les sauveurs de la République! Maintenant et Toujours!
(Keep the Faith, my friends! We are the saviors of the Republic! Now and Forever!)

LonePalm, le Républicain du verre cassé (The Broken Glass Republican)

16 posted on 07/28/2010 7:54:16 AM PDT by LonePalm (Commander and Chef)
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To: fullchroma
I want to thank her for-- it's now such a cliché that I'm almost embarrassed to write it -- making me want to be a better man.

But you did it anyways.

17 posted on 07/28/2010 7:55:32 AM PDT by ladyvet (WOLVERINES!!!!!)
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To: LonePalm

and the boat had a 6-pack left in the cooler!


18 posted on 07/28/2010 7:56:00 AM PDT by silverleaf (Those who can make you believe absurdities can make you commit atrocities.)
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To: stylecouncilor

LOL.


19 posted on 07/28/2010 7:56:32 AM PDT by KansasGirl
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To: grady
This is a lame attempt to saddle her with doubt about her decision by showing her that he loves her soooooo much he wishes her well even as he's left pitifully behind.

I know! If I were she, I'd consider getting a restraining order.

20 posted on 07/28/2010 7:57:48 AM PDT by fullchroma
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