Ever since I attended college, I have been convinced that either studies confirm what common sense suggests or that they are mistaken. I realized this when I was presented with study after study showing that boys and girls were not inherently different from one another, and they acted differently only because of sexist upbringings.
So? You are saying that “common sense” tells you that hitting people is the way to build a relationship, build trust, and teach love?
I presume that you apply this “common sense” with people your own size, right?