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It is horrible to be branded like this but I don't have much sympathy. He was a playing with fire and got burned. /src on/This guy sounds like a real winner:/src off

None of my partners has ever voiced to me that they felt uncomfortable during sex. Until this list was published, I was on a cordial basis with each and would say hi whenever I saw them on campus.

/src on/That is being a real gentleman

In today's environment I might be the only one of the group I hanged with in college to have gotten through unscathed. I live like a monk more out of my incompetence.

1 posted on 02/26/2018 8:14:44 AM PST by C19fan
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Nevertheless, it leaves him with nothing to lose. Always beware of guys, who’ve been burned for being guys, who have nothing to lose by...


2 posted on 02/26/2018 8:20:16 AM PST by Migraine ((A smartass who is right can be downright funny. A smartass who is wrong is just a smartass.))
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Yea, none of my partners ever felt uncomfortable either.

Maybe I should say partner. As in one. As in married first.


3 posted on 02/26/2018 8:24:30 AM PST by cyclotic (Trump tweets are the only news source you can trust.)
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I thank God every day that I am not attending college in this day and age.


4 posted on 02/26/2018 8:31:06 AM PST by WayneS (An appeaser is one who feeds a crocodile, hoping it will eat him last. - Winston Churchill)
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I was sympathetic until I read "...I think the #MeToo movement is fantastic..." and stopped feeling sympathetic right there.

It is the extrajudicial process of tarring people by the "#MeToo" crap that is the same as the one that got him into the situation.

You can't have it both ways, believing in "#MeToo" and being against what this woman did, because they are one and the same.

An accuser should bring charges in a court of law. If you are not willing to do so, you should not be able to brand someone without their day in court.

5 posted on 02/26/2018 8:36:54 AM PST by rlmorel (Leftists: American Liberty is the egg that requires breaking to make their Utopian omelette)
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You shouldn’t have to be an angel not to be falsely branded as a rapist.


6 posted on 02/26/2018 8:39:54 AM PST by thoughtomator (Number of arrested coup conspirators to date: 0)
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Really? I drive Uber on occasion here in Tallahassee. The conversations that I hear in my car, between female coeds at FSU and FAMU, would make Hefner blush. These girls are as aggressive in their pursuit of sex as are the males, maybe even more so, because they have little to worry about in the way of being labeled as this man was. As a 19 year old, you go and have consensual sex with another student, get labeled as a predator and you “don’t have much sympathy”? Watch the documentary “The Hunting Ground” and see the feminist ideology in motion. They are literally classifying “regretful sex” as rape. There’s a war on Males out here...


7 posted on 02/26/2018 8:40:58 AM PST by TallahasseeConservative ( Isaiah 40:31)
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Note to the accused young man: Don’t suppose you’d consider keeping it in your pants ‘til you’re married?

Just a thought.

I give similar advice to young ladies, BTW.


8 posted on 02/26/2018 8:42:05 AM PST by mewzilla (Has the FBI been spying on members of Congress?)
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It’s possible someone could have been uncomfortable at some point, but did not voice that to me in the moment. If that is the case, I am truly sorry and I’ll be even more communicative going forward.

Wrong response buddy. Get off of that campus now. Stop having sex with whack-job liberal girls, even if you ask for consent every five seconds.

9 posted on 02/26/2018 8:43:21 AM PST by Opinionated Blowhard ("When the people find they can vote themselves money, that will herald the end of the republic.")
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IF his account is roughly accurate, then this shows that some woman put his name on this list out of pure unadulterated malice. Maybe she was unhappy that he viewed as a “fling” what she wanted to last, who knows? But anonymous public accusations are extremely problematic.


11 posted on 02/26/2018 8:44:36 AM PST by Enchante (FusionGPS "dirty dossier" scandal links Hillary, FBI, CIA, Dept of Justice... "Deep State" is real)
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Crystal clear libel case.

Dude (article author), sue everyone in sight and those behind the curtain. Be a legal avenging angel with a fiery sword.

Seriously.

This type of defamation and irresponsibility must be punished as harshly as possible.


17 posted on 02/26/2018 8:57:33 AM PST by freedumb2003 (obozo took 8 years to try to destroy us. Trump took 1 to rebuild us. MAGA!!)
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“None of my partners has ever voiced to me that they felt uncomfortable during sex. “

Some of my partners may have felt uncomfortable during sex but that was due to technical/artistic incompetence on my part, not lack of willingness or consent on their part.


26 posted on 02/26/2018 9:16:35 AM PST by KrisKrinkle (Blessed be those who know the depth and breadth of their ignorance. Cursed be those who don't.)
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Yet how should we respond when a person like Dunn, with whom I’ve never spoken in my life, adds my name to a blacklist based on rumors and hearsay? Dunn made no effort to verify these claims with me or anyone else.

By finding a lawyer and suing for slander, defamation of character, etc. This is a textbook case.

31 posted on 02/26/2018 9:27:43 AM PST by jiggyboy (Ten percent of poll respondents are either lying or insane)
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Beware of psycho chicks
Many of them are
Once you find a good one do your best to keep her


32 posted on 02/26/2018 9:34:40 AM PST by Truthoverpower (The guvmint you get is the Trump winning express !)
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Middlebury College


Well there’s your problem!


37 posted on 02/26/2018 9:53:25 AM PST by VTenigma (The Democrat party is the party of the mathematically challenged)
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I’m absolutely outraged at the attitude of Ms. Dunn, the founder of this list, in her response to those who want to defend themselves. She states she doesn’t want to engage with them because it would cause her some ‘labor’ and to quit trying to engage. But the absolute worst is that she thinks that is worth a “LOL”.

This woman causes havoc in people’s lives and then dismisses their responses because it would interrupt her busy life. And isn’t that funny? No, Ms. Dunn, that isn’t funny.


38 posted on 02/26/2018 9:53:28 AM PST by wildbill (Quis Custodiet ipsos custodes? Who watches the watchmen?)
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Looks like this guy is a liberal who's been mugged. Maybe he'll start to figure things out, but I doubt it.

Middlebury is ridiculously expensive. He, or more likely his parents, are paying big bucks for this fiasco.

41 posted on 02/26/2018 11:00:58 AM PST by colorado tanker
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Activist Elizabeth Dunn. Facebook took down the post in response to complaints but it was screen-shotted and spread around. Dunn might be expelled.
43 posted on 02/26/2018 1:15:31 PM PST by \/\/ayne (I regret that I have but one subscription cancellation notice to give to my local newspaper.)
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Other men named on this list told me they don’t want to speak out, even anonymously. They want to move on and forget that Elizabeth Dunn publicly branded them as purveyors of sexual violence without any evidence. It is a very fragile time emotionally for these students, and I respect their decisions to stay silent.

Your silence is part of the problem. Men have fought back and won before. Here is an example:

Jury orders blogger to pay $8.4 million to ex-Army colonel she accused of rape

It's past time for male victims of false accusations, and their fathers, to fight back against this.

44 posted on 02/26/2018 3:32:46 PM PST by TwelveOfTwenty (Prayers for our country and President Trump)
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