Posted on 03/10/2018 7:18:24 PM PST by SeekAndFind
NO it is NOT a Snowflake response, when a JACKARSE CANNOT STOP SENDING YOU FEMALE BASHING! God does not intend for me to be degraded, when I have tried to understand both points of view on this thread. Then I read the outlandish BS ‘papertyger’ said to other women, it’s disgusting! What’s matter, you feel obligated to fight his battles, or you are just as demonic?
The men on this thread have NO RESPECT for women, and they wonder WHY women would leave them, take their money for support...which is for the children NOT HER! If she ever gets any child support at all! Not to mention a large percentage do not engage with the children at all, because their poor little feelings are hurt that they have to pay out some money....that’s a clue to what a lousy husband they were in the first place! I know too many women, who have been married to those jerks, and struggled to raise their children!
There is another side to this coin, MISTER, it is the fact that 62% of custodial women DO NOT GET CHILD SUPPORT, and 10% have to try and find the loser, file again and again for the DEADBEAT DAD to even be compelled to pay! About 30% of the women do NOT want his support, because of all hassle that comes with it! That leaves the in out of court group fighting over it.
Seriously, you guys are out of touch with reality, and pitiful! See link below for the statistics on that, since you want facts.
http://www.deltabravo.net/cms/plugins/content/content.php?content.282
What is done in court is never what is happening in real life. The ex (on either side) is too busy trying to hurt the other spouse, that the sad children are pawns in their stupid game! Reading the comments on this thread has shown me WHY those poor children are miserable. Each parent trashing the other, what a sad life for the kids! IT IS THE CHILDREN WHO GET HURT THE MOST IN DIVORCE.
What man puts his children through such a tumultuous childhood, whining about ‘son, don’t get married, it isn’t worth it!” God said ‘sex without marriage is sin, so you send you son to hell, because you are angry with your ex!. CHILDISH AND EVIL!
You want to join in saying I am same as a liberal woman, and calling me a snowflake, fine! Well, ‘in Jesus name’ I turn all of you over to Almighty God, and may he have mercy on your demonic souls!
Hebrews 10:31 31 “It is a dreadful thing to fall into the hands of the living God.”
WHO DO YOU THINK WANTED ME TO IGNORE HIM, AND NOW YOU WANT TO BE THE BULLY TOO!
Goodbye!
Those Poor babies! lol
I posted a link to the usconservative , who called me a Snowflake...which shows 62% of females with custody do NOT get child support. 30% don’t want it, too much hassle, and 10% are ones with deadbeat dads. that leaves 22% who actually get what court ordered, sad!
Amen! Per my tagline, this immediately follows:
OLDER MEN are to be sober-minded, dignified, self-controlled, sound in faith, in love, and in steadfastness. OLDER WOMEN likewise are to be reverent in behavior, not slanderers or slaves to much wine. They are to teach what is good, and so train the YOUNG WOMEN to love their husbands and children, to be self-controlled, pure, working at home, kind, and submissive to their own husbands, that the word of God may not be reviled. Likewise, urge the YOUNGER MEN to be self-controlled. Show yourself in all respects to be a model of good works, and in your teaching show integrity, dignity, and sound speech that cannot be condemned, so that an opponent may be put to shame, having nothing evil to say about us. BONDSERVANTS are to be submissive to their own masters in everything; they are to be well-pleasing, not argumentative, not pilfering, but showing all good faith, so that in everything they may adorn the doctrine of God our Savior.—Titus 2
Man, I teared up reading that. That’s why I love God’s Word, it lifts us up to uprightness. How can anyone find fault with such instruction? Yeah, I can look at myself and say “Uh, no, that’s not me” and shrink. Why? God’s grace lifts us up day after day. “Baptizing” our minds in His Word renews them over time. This is what we all NEED.
No need.
You’re doing fine on your own ;-)
Doesn’t it get uncomfortable pulling such gems out of your poop chute all the time?
Not the case with all of the divorced dads I know. Then again, the divorced dads I know are all middle class and able to pay child support. How much of that figure is for women who don't get child support because the guy either does not have the income, or is more able to disappear than the average middle class guy is?
The actual figures from Census bureau report: Custodial Mothers and Fathers and Their Child Support: 2013 (Issued in 2016) :
About three-quarters (74.1 percent) of custodial parents who were due child support in 2013 received either full or partial payments and 45.6 percent received full payments
Custodial mothers were more likely to have never married (40.2 percent) than to have been divorced (30.8 percent), currently married (16.1 percent), separated (11.7 percent), or widowed (1.2 percent)
As is common with women, you only look until you find what you want.
It took me less than five minutes to dig out this little gem: ““About 70 percent of the debt is owed by men who earn $10,000 a year or less, or have no recorded wage earnings at all, according to the Federal Office of Child Support Enforcement.”
So you see, there’s a big difference between “not getting child support” and not being “granted” child support.
Wow, a bit over-sensitive aren't you? I'm a bully for pointing out your response as being typical of a snowflake?
You're really trying hard to be an example of the kind of woman a real man doesn't want to marry, aren't you?
Thank you for your thoughtful input.
Most of these guys are still the butthurt breakfast club because the cheerleaders wouldn’t date them in high school. Teacher the pretty girls don’t like me. Waaaa! :-)
But, but, but...she quotes Scripture!
She’s actually a shining example of why I maintain politics is the only difference between liberal and conservative women.
Refuse their demands, and you’ll learn where the word “histrionic” came from.
Not as uncomfortable as you spreading beta male pathetica like confetti on all the anti women threads. LOL!
Why do you continue to uses the same old cliches when it’s obvious they have zero impact? None of the men here even bother to argue with you about it, because every one of us knows you’re just spouting from your well of spite.
Well I’ll answer the question for you: you don’t have anything else.
Cool!
You’re really trying hard to be an example of the kind of woman a real man doesn’t want to marry, aren’t you?
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Real Man? LOL
I just hear a bunch of whining cry babies that keep complaining about how they keep getting run over by women, and are really bitter about it.
I don’t think you need to worry about getting trapped into marriage again. There is nothing more pathetic to conservative women than whining, wimpy, bitter men.
You guys would probably be a big hit with liberal woman, they love wimps.
We conservative gals do prefer real men.
Man up boys!
Those poor babies, bless their whining little hearts. lol
They are digging up reports from Census Bureau etc, to argue what I posted, however at the end of Census report....
There is post on what was awarded and received TABLE 1. Their report shows a 9% increase in Child Support increase in 9 years, from report I found, so they are bashing the choice of reports...it makes me wonder what HELL their wives went through living with them?
I now am ignoring the bashers, it is not worth discussing, their hearts and minds are closed! You are right, almost a CLUB. Crybabies you say? hmmm lol
Child Support Awarded and Received Table 1 summarizes several child support indicators from biennial survey data for selected years from 1993 through 2013. The table shows that the likelihood of having a child support award, being legally entitled to a child support payment, and actually receiving at least one child support payment decreased over the 21-year period from 1993 through 2013. In contrast, the percentage of custodial parents (owed child support) who received the full amount of the child support that they were owed increased by almost 24%, from 37% in 1993 to 46% in 2013.
Then you should try listening instead of talking.
I’ve been married for thirty years to the same childhood sweetheart.
Like the women we talk about, you only hear what you WANT to hear, and the one thing such women definitely DON’T want to hear is that they’re not worth what they ask of us.
ROFLMTO... and I was trying to be factual with statistics.
You are right, it should be MAN UP, it’s what real men do! Pay your support, take good care of the children when you have visitation, and stop whining! Crybabies wear the diapers, and real men have the women!
Oh, and I should have said ‘ I have been married to a real man for decades, which makes me wonder where they get their phony information!’
My husband is kind, generous, respectful, and all those positive things. One thing I know is “watch how a man treats him mother, and you will know how he will treat you”. My husband treated his mother like a queen...and I am blessed to be with him now. He has been ill past few years, and acted like a real man through all of it.
Wonder if any of these whiners know ‘what a real man is’?
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