[mewzilla]

Or just be a considerate couple and tell guests that their presence at the service is the only gift desired.

[LottieDah]

My daughter got married in October and many of her friends attended the lavish wedding reception (she and the groom paid for) came empty handed. They did not even give the newlyweds a congratulatory greeting card.

[Sgt_Schultze]

In the alternative, so many destination weddings . . . it tells me the invitation is a formality but they don’t expect to see you. Please send gifts to...