Loud, rude, chip on shoulder that makes it impossible to be respectful lest it seem subservient, no-tipping, and sometimes violent.
Not all or even most, but often enough that it causes the effect. Also, it’s fairly rare that a server is black, so it’s always a cross-race effect.
It’s rare they’re servers because the idea of serving or waiting on any group of people goes against their slavery mentality.
I’ve had several very good experiences lately with blacks. Notable enough that I mentioned them to friends. When discussing my observations one friend said he’d noticed the same thing. He suggested that, because of all the anti-white racism we’re seeing in the media, it appears that decent blacks are trying harder to come across as decent to counter the impression the media is giving on black/white relations. He posited that these people were concerned about the bad image the media was giving them with a race that, after all, out numbers them and provides most of the jobs and money movement.
“Loud, rude, chip on shoulder that makes it impossible to be respectful lest it seem subservient, no-tipping, and sometimes violent.”
4 years back the wife and I ate at an upscale restaurant. Across the room was table of 5-6 black women. The screamed and cackled and were super loud.
Everyone and I mean every other person in the restaurant were looking at each other with disgusted looks. Everyone was thinking the same thing and everyone knew it.
The management refused to say anything to them.