Posted on 03/18/2023 5:31:14 AM PDT by Tolerance Sucks Rocks
I took a flight from Los Angeles to Minneapolis and was picked up at the airport by a black driver. His name is Davis. He looked mid-20s, but it turned out he was 39. He was charming, soft-spoken, friendly, and became talkative once he realized I wanted to talk.
During the drive to my hotel, he told me he liked sports. I asked whether he knew the Los Angeles Lakers were originally based in Minneapolis. He was surprised.
“Really?” “You didn’t know that—and you’re a sports guy? Why do you think they’re called the ‘Lakers’? There are no lakes in LA.”
Davis laughed. “Always thought the name was weird, but didn’t know they got the name from my city.”
He is not married, has no children, and is close to his mom and his two sisters.
“You didn’t mention your father,” I said. He paused.
“Well, he was never in my life. Died when I was 18. Leukemia.”
“Was that hard on you and your family?”
“Yes, but I tried to stay busy, got into sports, played football.”
I asked how long he’d been working as a driver.
“About two years.”
“What did you do before?”
“Well, I caught a case back in 2010.”
He said, “‘Caught a case’? You mean time in prison?”
“Yes.”
I expected him to say a few months, but he told me he served nearly three years.
“That’s a long time,” I said.
“Would’ve been longer if I hadn’t gotten out early for good behavior.”
We talked about his crime. He said his mom rarely worked, that his family was desperately poor, and they moved frequently and suddenly to avoid paying rent.
“I went to three or four high schools. As soon as I sort of got settled, we’d move again.”
At the last place, his mom had a tiny bedroom. The sisters slept in another small bedroom, and he slept on the couch.
“I got sick of sleeping on that couch. Whenever I met a lady, I was embarrassed to show her where I lived. I got sick of living like that.”
He got a BB gun and used it to rob a movie theater for about $2,200.
“Got caught. Found out you do the same amount of time for a BB gun as you do with a real gun.”
“What possessed you to do that?”
“Greed and ego. Got caught up in greed and ego. And in a way, it was a good thing. I needed to get myself together and start taking responsibility.”
I told him that some would say what happened was somewhat understandable, even predictable.
“I mean, you lacked a father figure.”
“No,” he said. “That’s just an excuse. I made dumb decisions. I had choices. I just made bad ones.”
“What was it like behind bars?” I asked. Was he attacked, molested?
“No. But I could’ve been. I was in a minimum security prison, and it was run by gangs. My first day, the toughest gang leader asked me ‘Where I was from,’ meaning what gang I belonged to. I told him I was a ‘neutron,’ meaning I didn’t belong to any gang. He said, ‘In here, you better pick a side.’ He asked me my name. I told him my last name, and he said, ‘I know that name. What is your father’s first name?’ I told him. His whole attitude changed. He said, ‘I knew your father.’”
Turns out they used to run together in the gang.
“‘Your father was a cool dude,’ he said. And from that point on, I was protected. Nothing ever happened to me.”
“How ironic,” I said. “Your dad was not in your life, but your dad’s reputation protected you from getting assaulted when you were in prison.”
“Yeah, funny how things work out.”
He now works as a youth counselor and motivational speaker. He encourages fatherless children to forgive their fathers, to nevertheless make good decisions, and to refuse to think like a victim.
We reached my hotel, exchanged information, and promised to stay in touch. I told him I would write about him, and that his story will inspire others.
Davis smiled. “I knew this was going to be a good day.”
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I thought that read From Green Eggs to Prison.
Good story. There ARE some out there.
That’s an inspiring story. Thank you!
Agreed. Good post.
Well if he couldn’t be governor writing stuff like this is actually a lot better than what the current one is doing.
A poor black guy drove a rich black guy from the airport. The poor black guy, a convicted felon who terrorized some innocent person by sticking a gun their face and stole money, has apparently managed to not commit, or at least not get caught committing, any crimes recently. On the ride, nobody got shot. Very inspiring story.
Larry Elder being called rich is probably relative to that of the driver, but I get your point.
Great story!
The guy obviously cleaned up his act and all you can do is focus on a stupid decision he made when just barely an adult.
Nice
“”Good story. There ARE some out there.””
Love Larry - listened to his radio show in L. A. for years - radio on my desk at work! Moved from CA and am just happy to see him on TV occasionally or read an article. Great guy!
His road to “success” and advice to grumbling from South Central (I know, I know) - “get up early and stay late.”
“”Great story!””
Yes it was and how are you?????
“The guy obviously cleaned up his act and all you can do is focus on a stupid decision he made when just barely an adult.
Nice”
Thanks. This guy was 26 years old when he stuck a gun in someone’s face and stole money. When is someone an adult to you? You ever had a gun stuck in your face by a psycho demanding your money? Ever had a relative killed by someone like that? If you think I have no sympathy for people who do that, you would be correct. In my world this mf would be in jail forever as a lesson to the next mf who thought about doing it, and we would not be having the problems we’re having now. My tolerance for crime is significantly lower than our current society’s tolerance. Personally, if someone sticks a gun in my face and demands my money I couldn’t care less what their childhood was like.
Question #1: How do I answer a relatively open ended rhetorical question?
Question #2: Yes
Question #3: Yes
The guy is working supposedly clean, and all you can do is dredge up the past.
Have the day you deserve.
“and all you can do is dredge up the past.”
Based on my local news if someone were to dredge up the past of 99% of the murderers around here they would be in prison instead of killing people. Buy you’re probably right, this felon is perfectly fine because Larry Elder had a 5 minute conversation with him and the felon said he is rehabilitated and is now a “youth counselor and motivational speaker”, which I guess is step above aspiring rapper.
I am doing fine. How are you?
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