[Keith in Iowa]

Re: Gauchat; why would a woman he's met only a few weeks prior buy something like a blue cashmere sweater??? What's up with that?

[NYC GOP Chick]

A chick who was trying to move things too far too fast.

[NeoCaveman]

Re: Gauchat; why would a woman he's met only a few weeks prior buy something like a blue cashmere sweater??? What's up with that?

Sounds needy and desperate to me.

[gidget7]

Re: Gauchat; why would a woman he's met only a few weeks prior buy something like a blue cashmere sweater??? What's up with that?


Good question! I personally always felt it truly is the thought that counts! Seriously, the woman who dumped the guy who gave her "only candy" is a gold digger. Only going out for a short time, and she "expected" something equivalent to a cashmere sweater??? Expect, is the key word.

The whole idea of a gift, is to give it out of live, not out of expectation. My only request has always been, please don't buy me candy LOL I would have to eat it then. And hey it's not Christmas, it Valentines day for heaven sake! Flowers are more than enough!

[July 4th]

Reminds me of that commercial were a guy goes over to a woman's house for a first date, and she's already knitted him clothing and proceeds to introduce him to her parents.

[Harmless Teddy Bear]

Re: Gauchat; why would a woman he's met only a few weeks prior buy something like a blue cashmere sweater??? What's up with that?

She was in a hurry. Gifts of clothing should not be exchanged until at least six months of dating.