Posted on 04/18/2005 12:30:17 PM PDT by PercivalWalks
Do Women Really Want a Male Birth Control Pill?
By Glenn Sacks
Women have long lamented the unequal burden they shoulder in the area of contraception. Today researchers are reportedly close to perfecting a male contraceptive that is free of side effects, easy to take, and reversible. But do women really want a male birth control pill?
Power is the reward which comes with responsibility. For example, during the Cold War Americans complained about the money and manpower spent protecting a reputedly ungrateful world from communism. Yet these sacrifices also helped give the United States great geopolitical power, with its attendant perks and privileges.
Similarly, while women legitimately complain that biology has condemned them to bear the burden of contraception, this burden also gives women control over one of the most important parts of any human being’s life--reproduction. The male birth control pill will shift much of that control from women to men. Is the following conversation far away?
Woman #1: “My [husband, boyfriend, significant other] is selfish. He's on the pill and won’t get off. I’ve asked him to stop taking it but he always says he’s not ready. He just won’t grow up. I don’t know what to do.”
Woman #2: “That’s what the pill has given men—a right to be perpetual adolescents. It’s given them veto power over women who want to have children.”
Despite the stigma that will develop against men who take the pill, the pill will be a success. While most women are responsible and want to have children with a willing, committed partner, studies show that lack of reproductive control can be a major problem for men today. For example, the National Scruples and Lies Survey 2004 polled 5,000 women in the United Kingdom for That’s Life! magazine. According to that survey, 42% of women claim they would lie about contraception in order to get pregnant, regardless of the wishes of their partners. Jo Checkley, the editor of That’s Life!, is correct when she says “to deliberately get pregnant when your partner doesn’t want a baby is playing Russian roulette with other people’s lives."
According to research conducted by Joyce Abma of the National Center for Health Statistics and Linda Piccinino of Cornell University, over a million American births each year result from pregnancies which men did not intend.
The male pill will fill a genuine economic need. Child support levels are rising, generally comprising 15-25% of take-home pay for one child, in addition to add-ons for child care, health care, and other costs. There is also a trend towards extending child support obligations beyond the age of 18, and child support enforcement is increasingly wide-ranging and effective.
Moreover, most men realize that it’s difficult to remain a part of their children’s lives once the relationship with the children’s mother has broken down, particularly if the children were born outside of marriage. The pill will help ensure that men only have children in the context that’s best for men--a stable marriage.
The advent of the female birth control pill greatly aided women’s struggle for autonomy and fulfillment. The male birth control pill will also create great changes, but these changes will not be to some women’s liking. Be careful what you ask for—you might get it.
This column was first published in Newsday (4/11/05).
Glenn Sacks is a men's and fathers' issues columnist and a nationally-syndicated radio talk show host. His columns have appeared in dozens of America's largest newspapers.
Glenn can be reached via his website at www.GlennSacks.com or via email at Glenn@GlennSacks.com.
Man, this pill is great.
Women can't have it both ways. I wouldn't presume to tell my wife what to do with her reproductive system, we would discuss our options and come to a mutual conclusion. There's no reason why I shouldn't be included in that process.
Most women won't trust a man to wash his own laundry, and they are going to trust him to take a pill every day?
How's that for an immature disgusting bitch trying to entrap a male? Unnngh! I thought having a child should be a joint decision between 2 consenting adults. How silly of me to be one to decide for myself if I am ready or not.
Lets see, i think this is great. I take enough pills everyday as it is, if my husband could take a pill I'd be all over it! However, I would help him remember as I'd ask him almost every day to remember, LOL!
Women will still have the same level of control they had before. They can still take the pill.
However, men will have an extra option to spare pregnancy with this.
I wonder what this will do to the presumption of paternity in a marriage? Will the law REQUIRE a woman to become pregnant by her husband? What if she unilaterally decides to go to a sperm clinic without telling the husband? Under the law in many states (see CF) he would STILL be the legal father.
Of course this MIGHT allow men to get in a faster response for that absurdly short paternity fraud period in CF and have more men NOT signing those acknowledgments of paternity.
I think the point is that women would find men will not STOP taking birth control. I bet this will have some very rapid divorces or parternity fraud types of cases.
hmmmmm, what's good for the goos is good for the gander.
wait a minute...let's rephrase.
What's good for the gander is good for the goose.
Here's a news flash, world...men already HAVE that power. It's called the "keep it in your pants" option, and is quite reliable.
So when are they going to develop a pill to let children avoid having parents? :)
Oh, I guess they already have one, it's called Prozac. Although the cause and effect are in debate, clearly there are examples how it ended up with that result.
15 years of marriage and 4 daughters later, I don't have a clue what women want.
With the rate of complaints I hear from married men about the lack of sex after children, such a pill could prove quite popular.
I surely hope, though, that men aren't having children now simply because they didn't want to wear a condom on those occasions.
One consequence will be that married men who might otherwise not stray, will feel much less restraint in regards to having affairs.
Hear, hear.
"15 years of marriage and 4 daughters later, I don't have a clue what women want."
Apparently, in your case, little girls! Congrats!
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