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Letter to Dr. Laura from a listener about Cindi Sheehan
Dr. Laura.com | Dr. Barbara Collier

Posted on 08/27/2005 7:19:36 AM PDT by redheadtoo

Open Letter to Cindy Sheehan

OK, you have gotten your "mad" out there. You've been noticed. You've attracted pity. You've had your say. Now, please, go home and stop embarrassing yourself and shaming your own son's memory.

Don't think, for a single moment, that you have the market cornered on grief and loss. There are countless mothers who have lost loved ones. My son fought in the war, but I never had the President of the United States greet me, but if he had, he wouldn't have remembered my son's name either.

I am a counselor, and I meet with people all the time, who come to me with emotional wounds. It is a natural thing to feel personally wronged when a loved one, particularly a child, is taken, from them... regardless of the cause. They have lost something precious, and they are angry. They want someone, anyone, to "pay." And you have decided that the one "to pay" you for the loss of your son, Casey, is going to be George Bush. And you are "not leaving Crawford until he's held accountable."

Congratulations! You have now, single-handedly, shamed your own son's memory. Your son VOLUNTARILY, enlisted in the military armed forces, so that people such as yourself could retain the right to speak their minds, make public fools of themselves, verbally attack the office of the President of the United States, and (essentially) try to hold him hostage. You are just a different type of terrorist yourself, and doing the very thing your son died for: resisting.

War, in case you have never cracked open a history book, is ugly. People die. Had there not been ranks and files of anguished mothers who also lost their sons during the Revolutionary War, you would not be living here in America, enjoying the rights and freedoms you obviously take for granted, and feel you deserve. Freedom is paid for with blood. Had your son died in the Twin Towers on 9-1-1, you would be chaining yourself to a fence in Crawford, Texas, demanding that George Bush go bomb the hell out of some terrorists.

Your anger is really towards your son, because he joined the cause of freedom, of his own free will, and you disagreed with his choice to do so. You had personal goals and dreams for him, and now they cannot happen. His life was cut short, and YOU are feeling ripped off and wronged.

George Bush is not intimidated by you. He is not frightened by you. And quite frankly, he doesn't have the time for you. There are some 300,000,000 people in this country, and he knows precious few of them by name. Get over it. You do NOT speak for the majority of us. You speak for yourself and have, already, embarrassed way too many of us. Pack up your soapbox, and your Jane Fonda want-to-be cause, and go home. Go sit at your son's graveside and apologize to him for shaming him, the cause HE stood for, and his memory you have belittled.

Dr. Barbara Collier


TOPICS: Culture/Society; Editorial; Foreign Affairs; Government; News/Current Events; War on Terror
KEYWORDS: barbaracollier; cindisheehad; cindysheehan; crawfordtexas; drluara; georgebush; protest; schlessinger; talkradio; treason; waronterror
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Cindi Sheehan's behavior has been shameful but I believe that those people, who are using this psychologically unbalanced woman for their own political ends, are equally as bad. Let's hope that Dr. Collier's letter will cause a few of them to be shamed by their explotation.
1 posted on 08/27/2005 7:19:42 AM PDT by redheadtoo
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To: redheadtoo

OK, you have gotten your "mad" out there.


Laughing, that is a funny one, will remember it. "gotten your "mad" out there"


2 posted on 08/27/2005 7:22:02 AM PDT by SunnySide (Ephes2:8 ByGraceYou'veBeenSavedThruFaithAGiftOfGodSoNoOneCanBoast)
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To: redheadtoo

"Let's hope that Dr. Collier's letter will cause a few of them to be shamed by their exploitation.
"

Please, your hoping is wasted on the shameless whose careers are built and fueled by exploitation.


3 posted on 08/27/2005 7:23:36 AM PDT by SunnySide (Ephes2:8 ByGraceYou'veBeenSavedThruFaithAGiftOfGodSoNoOneCanBoast)
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To: redheadtoo
We all grieve the loss of someone in our lives but that doesn't entitle us to exploit the memory of them for our own selfish gain. The former is perfectly understandable - the latter is reprehensible. By dishonoring her son's service on behalf of our country, Cindy Sheehan crossed a line. Let the dead rest. They should never be used as a political football.

(Denny Crane: "Sometimes you can only look for answers from God and failing that... and Fox News".)
4 posted on 08/27/2005 7:25:23 AM PDT by goldstategop (In Memory Of A Dearly Beloved Friend Who Lives On In My Heart Forever)
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To: redheadtoo
Let's hope that Dr. Collier's letter will cause a few of them to be shamed by their explotation.

Liberals do not know what shame is. Their lives are dicated by the "end justifies the means" motto.

8 years under William Jefferson Clinton taught us that.

5 posted on 08/27/2005 7:25:49 AM PDT by Erik Latranyi (9-11 is your Peace Dividend)
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To: redheadtoo
Great read.

I don't think this letter will persuade the organizations that exploit Cindy Sheehan to back off and put them to shame.

They couldn't care less since it fits into their agenda.
6 posted on 08/27/2005 7:27:25 AM PDT by Mrs.Nooseman
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To: redheadtoo
Let's hope that Dr. Collier's letter will cause a few of them to be shamed by their explotation.

You're assuming they have a sense of shame. If they do have one I've not seen it.
7 posted on 08/27/2005 7:30:06 AM PDT by Valin (The right to do something does not mean that doing it is right.)
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To: Erik Latranyi
That's true... I remember in 2002, a few days before the election, the Wellstone Memorial service was turned by the Democrats into a political rally. The sight of people laughing showed us volumes about their willingness to exploit the dead for political advantage. And here with Casey Sheehan, they're doing exactly the same thing all over again. These people never learn about the bright lines between what is proper and improper. Respect for the dead is not in their vocabulary or else Jihad Cindy wouldn't be turning off most of their country with her self-serving behavior.

(Denny Crane: "Sometimes you can only look for answers from God and failing that... and Fox News".)
8 posted on 08/27/2005 7:30:26 AM PDT by goldstategop (In Memory Of A Dearly Beloved Friend Who Lives On In My Heart Forever)
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To: redheadtoo

"Your anger is really towards your son, because he joined the cause of freedom, of his own free will, and you disagreed with his choice to do so. You had personal goals and dreams for him, and now they cannot happen. His life was cut short, and YOU are feeling ripped off and wronged. "

Exactly


9 posted on 08/27/2005 7:32:14 AM PDT by nuconvert (No More Axis of Evil by Christmas ! TLR) [there's a lot of bad people in the pistachio business])
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To: goldstategop

Bump


10 posted on 08/27/2005 7:33:04 AM PDT by NewCenturions
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To: Valin
The Left rejects right and wrong. They defended Clinton's adultery, his lies under oath, they saw nothing wrong with using one of life's more solemn events for cheap theatrics and they take the opportunity to equate our military with the worst of mankind's monsters. Gee, it must be the values thing. They don't get it at all.

(Denny Crane: "Sometimes you can only look for answers from God and failing that... and Fox News".)
11 posted on 08/27/2005 7:33:32 AM PDT by goldstategop (In Memory Of A Dearly Beloved Friend Who Lives On In My Heart Forever)
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To: SunnySide

ABSOLUTELY ON SPOT!!

p.s. love your tag-line

GODSPEED!


12 posted on 08/27/2005 7:38:12 AM PDT by alpha-8-25-02 ("SAVED BY GRACE AND GRACE ALONE")
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To: goldstategop

The Wellstone Memorial service was one of the funniest events in the past 50 years. It had almost nothing to do with a memorial and after you watched fifteen minutes of it...you simply had to laugh. It was a pure ralley. And I wondered...is this the way you really want to honor someone?


13 posted on 08/27/2005 7:40:42 AM PDT by pepsionice
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To: redheadtoo

http://www.freerepublic.com/focus/f-news/1469877/posts


14 posted on 08/27/2005 7:43:33 AM PDT by pabianice
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I recall the photo of Clinton and Mondale sharing a laugh after the service. It probably contributed to the latter's defeat in November. The Democrats don't what values are if it was shoved up their butts.

(Denny Crane: "Sometimes you can only look for answers from God and failing that... and Fox News".)
15 posted on 08/27/2005 7:45:19 AM PDT by goldstategop (In Memory Of A Dearly Beloved Friend Who Lives On In My Heart Forever)
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To: goldstategop

How DARE you question their values! Don't you understand just how wonderful & and caring the left is? I can't think of a greater group of true blue patriots than Code-Pink.


But then I think Hillary Clinton is the smartest woman in the world today.


16 posted on 08/27/2005 7:45:46 AM PDT by Valin (The right to do something does not mean that doing it is right.)
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To: Valin

I think you need to go lay down now. ;^)


17 posted on 08/27/2005 7:47:50 AM PDT by DesertDreamer (Never underestimate the ability of the Democrats to wet their finger and hold it to the wind. -RWR)
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To: goldstategop
Respect for the dead is not in their vocabulary

I shudder to think of what I would do if Sheehan had used without my permission the name of my child killed in the war on those fake crosses.  This the greatest evil perpetuated so far by Sheehan, IMO.

18 posted on 08/27/2005 7:48:45 AM PDT by quantim (Victory is not relative, it is absolute.)
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To: redheadtoo

"If I truly was a media whore do you think I would like
maybe get myself fixed up a little bit before I went on?"

Quote and pic of Cindy Sheehan - August 24, 2005

19 posted on 08/27/2005 7:49:59 AM PDT by Jeff Head (www.dragonsfuryseries.com)
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To: Valin
The Democrats think they're smarter than every one else. But they don't really get it because they stand for nothing. They have no positive ideas, no energy, no vision. Republicans would be in deeper trouble save for the fact the Democrats keep repeating the mistakes that doomed them before.

(Denny Crane: "Sometimes you can only look for answers from God and failing that... and Fox News".)
20 posted on 08/27/2005 7:50:25 AM PDT by goldstategop (In Memory Of A Dearly Beloved Friend Who Lives On In My Heart Forever)
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