Some of us have, for decades. Some of the arguments with libertarians have been intense, as they pushed and/or defended the gay agenda.
Here is where the 2012 nominee was, 20 years ago.
Mitt Romney 1994:
“One issue I want to clarify concerns President Clinton’s “don’t ask, don’t tell, don’t pursue” military policy. I believe that the Clinton compromise was a step in the right direction. I am also convinced that it is the first of a number of steps that will ultimately lead to gays and lesbians being able to serve openly and honestly in our nation’s military. That goal will only be reached when preventing discrimination against gays and lesbians is a mainstream concern, which is a goal we share.”
You still think we’d be exactly where we are today with Mitt Romney. I blame everyone who didn’t vote for Romney.