I’ve heard the same situation prevails in Japan. If women have no desire to have children, then, where does that leave a society?
We all know people who are experiencing such things. I will share a few of people I know. One young woman friend of the family has said she has no desire to ever get married. She’s had a couple of boyfriends here and there, but no desire to marry. She goes to China and Macch Picchu (sp?) and some other adventures regularly.
Another friend of the family, married daughter, has said she has no desire to have children. She’s into her career and also, they like to take vacations and are involved with charity work and other things, which according to them, they can’t fit children into their lives.
Yet another friend of the family, said she has gone to college and is working on a master’s, and that children are incompatible with a career, so no kids for her.
All of these people are in their 20s and early 30s, peak fertility years. All could change their minds later, but then, trying to get pregnant is more difficult the older the woman is.
It seems like an “irreconcilable difference”, in that people in their 20s, going to college, building careers etc, during those years, are precisely the years where females have high fertility if they ever want to have children.
“It seems like an “irreconcilable difference”, in that people in their 20s, going to college, building careers etc, during those years, are precisely the years where females have high fertility if they ever want to have children.”
Yep, said it perfectly. The next step is getting people, even on our side, to under this. So far our answer is that women just decided to go ‘on strike’ when it came to making babies, even though after WW2, every singe country fully repopulated in one generation...and those conditions were FAR WORSE than anything today, particularly in Europe and Asia.
It's almost like it was popularized on purpose or something.
Feminism sold western women a massive lie, that they can have it all. Women waste their childbearing years at university, usually studying some liberal nonsense, and then another 10 years in the office, trying to “make it worth their while”. Then in their late 30s, suddenly start demanding guys “man up” and marry them, before the clock runs out.
Women should marry and have children first and THEN go to university and pursue a career, after the children are in school.