Exactly. The first nvn attack was real. They were going after what they thought were Marops SVN Nasty class Pt boats. The second attack was nervous sonar men.
LBJ didn't screw up, he (and others) acted in bad faith.
From the US Naval Institute:
The Truth About Tonkin: Questions about the Gulf of Tonkin incidents have persisted for more than 40 years. But once-classified documents and tapes released in the past several years, combined with previously uncovered facts, make clear that high government officials distorted facts and deceived the American public about events that led to full U.S. involvement in the Vietnam War.
So yeah, in this age where seamless videos can be produced that have people saying things they never said, yyyyyeeeeeahhhhh it is a good idea to have skepticism. Especially when the government asserts something.