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Ask Dave: My Neighbor Put Up a Trump Sign. How Should I Respond? Should I Respond At All?
Esquire ^ | Dave Holmes Mon, September 28, 2020

Posted on 09/29/2020 6:05:13 AM PDT by 11th_VA

Dear Dave,

My neighbor across the street just put a giant Trump/Pence flag in their front yard. A week later―the day after the Breonna Taylor grand jury came back—he added a Blue Lives Matter flag to the pole. These people are very kind, perhaps the kindest and most generous people on our suburban block. And yet ... they're Trump supporters? They reject the idea of Black Lives Matter?

I don't know what to do about it. It's like a big middle finger, whether they know it or not. I'd like to put up a Biden sign, or a "Hate Has No Home Here" sign, to at least show the other neighbors, the people who drive by, and the delivery people that we don't share our neighbor's politics. But is that just an escalation? A middle finger to his middle finger? By putting up my own sign, and then seeking affirmation for that sign from strangers on social media, am I adding to the division in this country because it might fray my relationship with my neighbor? Should I instead knock on their door and begin a dialogue?

Am I coward? Am I overthinking this? Please, help!

xoxo Liberal Neighbor

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1 posted on 09/29/2020 6:05:13 AM PDT by 11th_VA
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To: 11th_VA

The guy’s a snowflake.


2 posted on 09/29/2020 6:06:27 AM PDT by ought-six (Multiculturalism is national suicide, and political correctness is the cyanide capsule.)
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To: 11th_VA

What a fag.


3 posted on 09/29/2020 6:06:27 AM PDT by EEGator
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To: 11th_VA

This person votes........................probably more than once.................


4 posted on 09/29/2020 6:06:41 AM PDT by Red Badger (Sine Q-Anon.....................very............)
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To: 11th_VA
These people are very kind, perhaps the kindest and most generous people on our suburban block. And yet ... they're Trump supporters?

Sounds completely consistent to me. .

5 posted on 09/29/2020 6:07:35 AM PDT by backwoods-engineer (But what do I know? I'm just a backwoods engineer.)
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To: 11th_VA

A target too big


6 posted on 09/29/2020 6:07:47 AM PDT by hadaclueonce ( This time I am Deplorable)
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To: 11th_VA
By putting up my own sign, and then seeking affirmation for that sign from strangers on social media ...

You'd be an infantile nitwit.

Correct response to neighbors' political messaging:

1. Shrug
2. Move along.

7 posted on 09/29/2020 6:08:24 AM PDT by Tax-chick ("What we can see of God's canvas is laughably small." ~Bp. Barron)
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To: backwoods-engineer

This guy should look in the mirror. But is probably afraid to.


8 posted on 09/29/2020 6:08:36 AM PDT by rbg81 (Truth is stranger than fiction)
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To: 11th_VA

“Am I coward?”

At a minimum. You are also too weird to believe.

Live your life and don’t remain an asshole.


9 posted on 09/29/2020 6:08:46 AM PDT by LeonardFMason
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To: 11th_VA

Am I coward? Am I overthinking this? Please, help!

_________________________________________________

Yes. Yes.

End your life now. Someone as triggered as you should pull one.


10 posted on 09/29/2020 6:09:40 AM PDT by Responsibility2nd (Click my screen name for an analysis on how HIllary wins next November.)
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To: 11th_VA

Should I instead knock on their door and begin a dialogue?

This person likely has Stage 4 TDS.


11 posted on 09/29/2020 6:09:52 AM PDT by Flick Lives (My work's illegal, but at least it's honest. - Capt. Malcolm Reynolds)
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To: 11th_VA

Why does the author live among normals? The leftists are p!ssed because while many of us can’t protect our properties 24/7 (we have to work & sleep) so we can’t put up the signs/flags, obviously tens of millions of us voted for Trump.


12 posted on 09/29/2020 6:09:57 AM PDT by kearnyirish2 (Affirmative action is economic warfare against white males (and therefore white families).)
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To: 11th_VA

this is gotta be fabricated propaganda

what kind of sissy has to write to esquire magazine for advice on how to live?

we are a society of candy-a**es


13 posted on 09/29/2020 6:09:58 AM PDT by QualityMan ( Mr. President, we have your back.)
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To: 11th_VA

The answer is vomit inducing.


14 posted on 09/29/2020 6:10:24 AM PDT by TFG (I'm mad as hell and I'm not going to take it anymore.)
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To: 11th_VA
"Should I instead... kill myself?"

Yes.

15 posted on 09/29/2020 6:10:28 AM PDT by LibWhacker
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To: QualityMan

I think you’re right, check out the reply he receives.


16 posted on 09/29/2020 6:13:41 AM PDT by NativeSon
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To: 11th_VA

End the terminal anxiety NOW

OFF yourselves

It’s the only solution to revolution


17 posted on 09/29/2020 6:14:59 AM PDT by A_Former_Democrat (See George Fetanyl's mile-long Rap Sheet . . . TAG PedoJoe with "DEFUND the POLICE")
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To: 11th_VA

Yes, knock on your neighbor’s door, bring along a plate of cookies or if you know them well enough a bottle of wine or a six pack of beer, and ask to have a dialog about their yard sign.

Sit down with an open mind, without all of the preconceived notions about Trump that you have, and honestly ask them why they support Trump, and what they think of needless police violence and BLM.

You may be very surprised at their answers, and come away if not a Trump supporter, at least a bit better informed as to what you were led to believe about Trump, and what the actual facts are.

And remember, we are all Americans, and we are allowed to hold different political views, which should not interfere with our ability to remain neighbors and friends.


18 posted on 09/29/2020 6:15:11 AM PDT by Yo-Yo ( is the /sarc tag really necessary?)
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To: ought-six

“”The guy’s a snowflake.””

I was going to say the guy is a putz, but your snowflake comment wins!!!


19 posted on 09/29/2020 6:15:41 AM PDT by VastRWCon (Fake News)
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To: 11th_VA

I have a neighbor who has both a Biden sign and a BLM sign in her front yard.

I do nothing about it. I respect her private property and her First Amendment rights.

I suspect that was not Dave’s advice though.


20 posted on 09/29/2020 6:15:42 AM PDT by Buckeye McFrog (Patrick Henry would have been an anti-vaxxer.)
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