You don’t get to talk to the free cow.
I think the men who buy only fans want more than just pictures or video. They want to talk to her like a pretend girlfriend.
Many years ago, I was in a strip club in the combat zone of Boston. My buddy went ga ga over a dancer. She was flirting with him and he was stuffing dollars in her like she was a piggy bank. I finally said, dude, she doesn’t really like you.