[A_perfect_lady]

I know nothing whatsoever about your struggles, all I can say is, I am very sorry to hear how hard it is. My only advice can be, don’t torture yourself on top of it trying to appease or reach a figment of someone else’s imagination. It only adds to your burden. It really is a waste of years.

[James C. Bennett]

I’ll take the harshness of the truth of reality over dogmatic fantasies, any day, hour, minute or second.

[boatbums]

I know nothing whatsoever about your struggles, all I can say is, I am very sorry to hear how hard it is. My only advice can be, don’t torture yourself on top of it trying to appease or reach a figment of someone else’s imagination. It only adds to your burden. It really is a waste of years.

Athiest answer: just off yourself and put yourself put of your misery.

Believer's answer: there is hope in the midst of all trouble and God will be found when you seek him with all your heart.