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Does the Bible really teach that premarital sex is wrong?
Answering Protestants ^ | 4 June 2014 | Matthew Olson

Posted on 06/04/2014 10:18:03 AM PDT by matthewrobertolson

Does the Bible really teach that premarital sex is wrong? (Of course it does! But with Sola Scriptura, that might be unclear!)

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Does the Bible really teach that premarital sex is wrong? Well, as a Catholic, I know that it does. So, I suppose the real question should be: can a Protestant reasonably think that premarital sex is okay? I think that they can. And here's why.

When the Bible condemns "fornication", the Greek word porneia is used. It is an all-encompassing word for sexual immorality, and this can make things unclear to a Protestant. Take Hebrews 13:4, for example: it uses the Greek word moichos to condemn adultery. That's very clear language. But, then, it uses porneia for fornication. So, the verse can, potentially, be seen as unclear on the latter.

Now, probably the most convincing passage against premarital sex is in 1 Corinthians 6. In this passage, "sexual perversion" is clearly banned. But again, that could be unclear, as "sexual perversion" can even occur within marriage. The thing here against becoming one with prostitutes offers what is probably the best argument. But even that, I think, could be seen as unclear. Paul could easily be seen as referring to literal prostitutes only. Obviously, should an otherwise-devout Christian have sexual relations with a current prostitute, that could cause grave scandal.

And, as far as I know, in every case of premarital sex in the Bible, there is no clear divine punishment for the sexual act. The only obvious penalty is in the realm of financial compensation. Even the Song of Solomon does not explicitly refer only to acts within marriage. In fact, in it, the lovers are separate. They don't seem to live together, and there's evidence that could be understood to mean that they weren't even married (see 8:8, for example). And, judging from Scripture alone, as long as lovers intend to get married someday, their acts together aren't always necessarily bad (see Exodus 22:16, for example).

To someone raised in the Catholic Tradition on this issue -- including many Protestants who have borrowed the Church's ancient teaching on this -- these verses are clear. But to a Sola Scriptura Protestant, who demands formal sufficiency of Scripture, this wiggle-room can shake their world.

Catholics can say, "Well, the Bible is only materially sufficient" -- meaning that, well, while the Bible implicitly or explicitly references every doctrine and dogma, you must still have the Church to interpret it, because the Church is the "pillar and support of the truth" (1 Timothy 3:15). But Protestants don't have that luxury. Formal sufficiency demands clarity, and when clarity is not there (as is frequently the case), questions like this arise.

So, in conclusion, to a Catholic, this is clear. But to a Protestant, not so much.


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To: DManA; All

he posts this crap here just to sow discord and offend for the sake of offending. nobody here is fighting about this topic, yet he desires there to be fighting, so he goes ahead and starts it all on his own.


41 posted on 06/04/2014 11:05:56 AM PDT by Secret Agent Man (Gone Galt; Not averse to Going Bronson.)
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To: PaForBush; All

he’s using this simpy as a strawman argument to attack protestants and stir up ill feeligs between catholics and protestants.


42 posted on 06/04/2014 11:07:23 AM PDT by Secret Agent Man (Gone Galt; Not averse to Going Bronson.)
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To: matthewrobertolson

Jesus’ own words:

“Look, I am coming soon! My reward is with me, and I will give to each person according to what they have done. I am the Alpha and the Omega, the First and the Last, the Beginning and the End.

“Blessed are those who wash their robes, that they may have the right to the tree of life and may go through the gates into the city. Outside are the dogs [i.e., homosexuals, see Deuteronomy 23:17-18], those who practice magic arts, the fornicators, the murderers, the idolaters and everyone who loves and practices falsehood.”

Revelation 22:14-15


43 posted on 06/04/2014 11:07:39 AM PDT by kaehurowing (FIGHT BULLYING, UNINSTALL FIREFOX)
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To: Salvation
I know. I agree. I'm Catholic. This post is more about Sola Scriptura than it is about premarital sex. :)
44 posted on 06/04/2014 11:11:49 AM PDT by matthewrobertolson
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To: matthewrobertolson
Does the Bible really teach that premarital sex is wrong? Well, as a Catholic, I know that it does. So, I suppose the real question should be: can a Protestant reasonably think that premarital sex is okay? I think that they can. And here's why.

LOL you just go right ahead and think that. Whatever fits your agenda!

45 posted on 06/04/2014 11:11:53 AM PDT by Alex Murphy ("the defacto Leader of the FR Calvinist Protestant Brigades")
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To: GeronL; matthewrobertolson
The Bible says its wrong, so protestants say it’s wrong. Pretty simple. It takes a hateful “Catholic” to write something like that.

Minor correction: It takes a hateful “Catholic” who hasn't read the Bible for themself to write something like that.

46 posted on 06/04/2014 11:18:47 AM PDT by Alex Murphy ("the defacto Leader of the FR Calvinist Protestant Brigades")
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To: matthewrobertolson

“can a Protestant reasonably think that premarital sex is okay?”

So there are no Catholics fornicating?


47 posted on 06/04/2014 11:24:14 AM PDT by Resolute Conservative
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To: UriÂ’el-2012

“Where is masturbation discussed in YHvH’s WORD ?”

I never said it was. The Protestant book given to me said masturbation was generally fine because the Bible did not denounce it. In other words, the Protestant author suffered from the stupidity of the false Protestant doctrine of sola scriptura. Thus, he believed the Bible allowed masturbation.


48 posted on 06/04/2014 11:24:53 AM PDT by vladimir998
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To: vladimir998

look up the sin of Onan


49 posted on 06/04/2014 11:25:27 AM PDT by Mr. K (If you like your constitution, you can keep it...Period. PALIN/CRUZ 2016)
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To: matthewrobertolson
and this can make things unclear to a Protestant.

Hey hey hey, now. Make your point, but be nice! We are supposed to be working towards some sort of Christian unity here.


50 posted on 06/04/2014 11:26:19 AM PDT by Buckeye McFrog
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To: Secret Agent Man

I know and it’s a real shame that Free Republic enables it.


51 posted on 06/04/2014 11:27:18 AM PDT by DManA
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To: jonno

“It seems to me that the main point of this article is to pit Believers against one another - this is despicable.”

The search for truth is never despicable – even if some people are too weak to bear with it.

“Why go down this road?”

Of telling the truth? Why would that be a problem?

“ My wife has a lady friend who was just ordained as a Catholic Priest. So according to logic of this writer, I can now lump all Catholics into the same bowl as my wife’s friend? Of course not.”

Actually, no, that is not the logic of the article.

“I have a huge amount of respect, love and admiration for my Catholic brothers & sisters (on the whole) for standing firm against the culture of death and holding high the banner of Christ.”

Which is all about the truth.

“Articles like this are not helpful. Stop preaching hatred and dissension.”

The article is helpful. It peaches no hatred and in itself cannot be accused of causing dissension.


52 posted on 06/04/2014 11:40:07 AM PDT by vladimir998
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To: Terabitten

“it demonstrates that the author does not understand what Sola Scripture even means”

Yeah, I was going to say the same thing. I’ve seen that before, where some folks come up with some crafty attack on Protestants based on the premise that Sola Scriptura means what they think it means, rather than what it actually means.


53 posted on 06/04/2014 11:51:22 AM PDT by Boogieman
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To: matthewrobertolson
The issue is actually far more complicated than this and people commenting on it are viewing sex and marriage through the cultural lens (place and time) of what they know these terms to mean. One assumes that ‘premarital’ means before marriage… but as we know, every culture experiences marriage in a different way. Does there have to be a wedding ceremony to have a marriage? I don’t think so. What do the endless Bible passages of so and so ‘taking a wife’ mean… as in Genesis 11:29 “And Abram and Nahor took them wives…” It seems to me that when the Bible talks about marriage, they are not talking about some formal trip to a place of worship or city hall or the signing of a document that formalizes a relationship, they are talking about a couple who are having sex for the first time…..because it was understood that the act of sex is what formalized and constituted the marriage itself. Without sex, there is no marriage….. the two are intrinsically linked and in fact, the link is unbreakable Matthew 19:6 “Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.” Taking this view, there is no such thing as ‘premarital sex’ since once a couple have sex, they are in a sense married…. and if you have a bunch of people who have had sex with a lot of other people, what you have are people who are married to a lot of other people and in the process, have perverted marriage itself since they have no intent to complete the rest of their marital obligations. Hence Paul’s instruction in 1 Corinthians 6:18 “Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body.”

By the way, a similar concept is held for divorce…. Note Focus on the Family’s response to this question about divorce. http://family.custhelp.com/app/answers/detail/a_id/26520

54 posted on 06/04/2014 11:51:48 AM PDT by hecticskeptic
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To: skeeter
When I hear this subject I often think about King David and his other wives and concubines.

2 Samuel 12:8 I gave your master’s house to you, and your master’s wives into your arms. I gave you all Israel and Judah. And if all this had been too little, I would have given you even more.

55 posted on 06/04/2014 11:52:25 AM PDT by dragonblustar ( Psalm 103, Psalm 37:7, Ephesians 6:12)
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To: vladimir998
The search for truth is never despicable

Perhaps I missed it. In your opinion, for what truth is the author of this article searching?

56 posted on 06/04/2014 11:52:28 AM PDT by jonno (Having an opinion is not the same as having the answer...)
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To: DManA

Amen. I attended many denominations while growing up and every one taught that sex was for marriage. Why does anyone post something he/she knows so little about?


57 posted on 06/04/2014 11:55:56 AM PDT by MamaB
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To: Mr. K

The sin of Onan has ZERO to do with masturbation.


58 posted on 06/04/2014 11:56:03 AM PDT by LivingNet
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To: matthewrobertolson
Does the Bible really teach that premarital sex is wrong? (Of course it does! But with Sola Scriptura, that might be unclear!)

What a bunch of garbage.

But another Catholic, anti-Prod, hater, couldn't resist taking a cheap shot at Protestants and sola Scritpura.

59 posted on 06/04/2014 11:57:33 AM PDT by metmom (...fixing our eyes on Jesus, the Author and Perfecter of our faith....)
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To: UriÂ’el-2012; vladimir998
Where is masturbation discussed in YHvH's WORD ?

It's not. Some will raise the story of Onan but even a casual reading of it makes it clear that it has nothing to do with masturbation. There is an inferred reference to condemning masturbation in Mark 7:20 "And he said, That which cometh out of the man, that defileth the man. 21 For from within, out of the heart of men, proceed evil thoughts, adulteries, fornications, murders," Masturbation is basically about a thought process that involves having sex with someone outside of a marital relationship so it wold seem that this verse is applicable. Perhaps an even stronger inference to masturbation is contained in Matthew 5:28 "But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart." By definition, masturbation would appear to be condemned as sinful... not because of the act itself but because it involves one going through the act of adultery or formication in their mind. According to this verse, the bar is set just as high for what a person is thinking as for what they are doing. This concept by the way is also discussed in the Old Testament.... Proverbs 23:7 "For as he thinketh in his heart, so is he."

60 posted on 06/04/2014 12:07:25 PM PDT by hecticskeptic
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