Probably should also read the book: “Divorce Poison” and “Stepmonster” which shows that a lot of children in this situation begin to notice that their parents turn to buying their love, befriending them as adult confidants and peers, compete to be the house with the fewest amount of rules.
Two materialistic Christmases, Birthdays, Easters, Halloweens, you name it. Not good for society all the way around. Leads to the entitlement snowflake mentality. Also divorce is initiated by women almost exclusively and the family courts view dad as simply a walking ATM.
The most dangerous place for a chil is in a home with mom’s boyfriend, and sometimes a second husband. STEY MARRIED FOR YOUR KIDS SAKE!!
My two late parents divorced years ago.
I have learned to forgive them both.
It is one year today since my 93-years-young mother has passed.
Ma, I love you!
It has been 20 years this year since my father has passed.