Well, us fundamentalist Jewish people (aka “Orthodox”) might dress funny, pray a lot, not roll on Shabbos, eat funny foods, not shake hands with the opposite sex, and dedicate our lives to serving our fellow man, but I don’t see many of us imposing our religion on other people, forcing conversion, chopping off heads, or killing people who leave our faith.
Fundamentalist Muslims, in contrast . . .
Modern day Judaism as you correctly point out don’t go out killing non-believers. The Kitos war was 1900 years ago. Islam is a fundamentally different beast. It is illogical to compare the two