Posted on 04/21/2012 12:42:50 AM PDT by mamelukesabre
I am a middle aged single guy with no ex wives and no kids. I've never been married and never knocked up no one. For the last 12 years I've been trying hard to find that perfect someone. You may remember me having threads on this very same topic. I recently had a couple of relationships with young asian girls and posted about it...only to have those threads yanked by the FR mods.
The asian girlfriend I broke up with and posted about is still around but we don't get along that well anymore. I found another asian girl younger than her but she is no longer in the picture. She decided I was too old. She probably had a point since she was only 26. Please see my previous threads about my physical fitness. I have been working my ass off to look 15 years younger than my age and I think I have pulled it off except for baldness.
Tonight I met a new girl and I am already in love. There is just one problem. She is a 20 year old law student from Estonia. She is short and chubby and wears very thick glasses. She is very old for her age if you know what I mean. I spent the evening dancing with and drinking with her friends.
We've already made arrangements for the future. I know I am a complete idiot. I can't help it. I will be working out extra hard now and suffering more from tendonitis than I ever have in my life.
I actually wish I really was making this up.
Flame away
lol. just the opposite side of the country in California. I suspect they have lots of my type in your area as well. haha.
Just don’t switch and start playing for the other team.
Ewwwwwwwww, you just made me throw up a little in my mouth!
Best wishes and congradulations! Yeah, I know and understand, I’m in the same shoes as you.
I see I touched a nerve.
You’re the one that decided to post about your history and make it out to be no big deal you knew you were in a shallow relationship using another person.
Many people only realize AFTER the relationship is over that it was superficial compared to the one they wind up marrying. You went into it knowing the only reason you were in it was because he was a good looking sugar daddy for you.
I recognize that scene. Loretta Young in “Cause for Alarm”, made in 1951.
actually no. i went into the relationship because he was a hot, dark man and I couldn’t resist. I am sure you are a saint and never superficial and any of your dating choices though. lol. Mother Teresa the man.
I can’t make babies with a woman my own age. They are too old for pregnancy. Obviously since I have never been married and have never had kids, that is something pretty high up on my list...hence my effort to be acceptable to younger women. The two of you sound like a couple of bitter old dried up uteruses that despise fertile women. I don’t have time to respond to every comment since this thread turned quite popular, but you two really take the cake and demanded a response So feel honored.
Are that self ibued with vanity that you feel you can project your sadness and anger about how life has treated you?
You won’t find anyone here telling you how to live your life are spouting off their moral code for how you think they ought to live.
I frequently don’t get along with mamalukesabre but if he wants to date 20 year olds who are we to say why he shouldn’t?
In regards to being “Happily Married” you got me there and a choice a made long ago.
I’m 48, good looking and there are Freepers who know me and agree and I’m pretty dang’d successful.
Girls like me and I like them but we ain’t sharing the same address until someone makes me so happy I can’t bear it and I ask them.
Good for Mameluke and I support his reason. Hell, if I wanted children I would do the same thing.
But, I think I will be happy with whomever, regardless of age so long as we are in the mutual admiration society.
Now, go pound sand, nOOb and let others live as they wish.
Dork. You know I’m a man don’t you and the commment was directed at the nOOb.
I support what you are trying to accomplish and I don’t have some age restriction hangup.
If you and some girl want have babies have at it, more power to you and let the other dried up poster, who is wistfully living in the past and get over no longer having the ability to make copies of herself deal with it.
If you find a girl, she’s hot and has a sister in San Francisco Bay Area, let me know.
Sexy and I like them lips.
What a wonderful story. You are both lucky.
No, he’s not, but he’s REALLY cute. And nice.
I couldn’t do that. My deep love for my children would outweigh the problems.
My grown sons do things that I don’t agree with, but I love them so damn much it hurts. I would never cut them off because of this. I’m sorry for your parents, they’re pitiable.
I never dated a woman who’s looks far outstripped her personality. I have been attracted to certain women physically but never dated them because either they were into someone else or I knew the personality mix was wrong.
Not a saint, I just never did any mutual-use relationships. My dating years were also before friends-with-benefits was considered an accepted possibility.
My mistake. I have never been very good with names in the real world and I guess that failing translates over to print as well. Its very difficult for me to hold grudges against people here on FR because I can’t remember which screen name goes with which grudge.
I’ve never had a “friends with benefits” relationship but I might be open to it if it was exclusive. That actually sounds like a pretty good marriage to me. All the good stuff without any of the misery. If I could find a woman that would do an “exclusive friends with benefits plus a marriage certificate” relationship I would be on that like a secret service agent.
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