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I Wasn't Treating My Husband Fairly, And It Wasn't Fair
SunnySkyz ^ | 12-28-2014 | SunnySkyz

Posted on 01/08/2015 10:13:52 AM PST by wastedyears

My "Aha Moment" happened because of a package of hamburger meat. I asked my husband to stop by the store to pick up a few things for dinner, and when he got home, he plopped the bag on the counter. I started pulling things out of the bag, and realized he'd gotten the 70/30 hamburger meat - which means it's 70% lean and 30% fat. Read more at http://www.sunnyskyz.com/blog/610/I-Wasn-t-Treating-My-Husband-Fairly-And-It-Wasn-t-Fair#EY4FIxGCmr92Qrb1.99

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To: Rodamala

True, and that was one of my points.


181 posted on 01/08/2015 4:13:12 PM PST by Kackikat
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To: wastedyears
What are the posting rules concerning a blog? It’s certainly not mine, I don’t care to have a blog.

Due to copyright agreements, only sites on the FR Excerpt list must be excerpted. The content from all other sites, including blogs, can be posted in full.

Bloggers usually pimp their own sites because they have ads and want to generate revenue by excerpting a portion of the content expecting visitors here to click over to their blog.

182 posted on 01/08/2015 4:15:09 PM PST by Ol' Dan Tucker (People should not be afraid of the government. Government should be afraid of the people)
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To: meadsjn
In the case of this article, the real meat is in the comments at the site. A most excellent discussion from both sides.

Maybe so, but I prefer the excellent discussion available on this site. :)

183 posted on 01/08/2015 4:16:29 PM PST by Ol' Dan Tucker (People should not be afraid of the government. Government should be afraid of the people)
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To: Obadiah

You forgot one thing - if the white male is competent, intelligent and good looking, 90% of the time he is evil.


184 posted on 01/08/2015 4:50:15 PM PST by Crusher138 ("Then conquer we must, for our cause it is just")
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To: wastedyears
The author of this article should have taken the Dale Carnegie course before she set foot in a bridal shop. The first two rules of which are:
  1. Don’t Criticize, Condemn, or Complain.

  2. Give honest, sincere appreciation.
That is work, because criticizing, condemning, and complaining come naturally. Ditto, taking good things for granted.

But that attentiveness to what matters would have made her and her family happy. She would have gotten better results than nagging ever could.

185 posted on 01/08/2015 6:43:57 PM PST by conservatism_IS_compassion ("Liberalism” is a conspiracy against the public by wire-service journalism.)
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To: Ol' Dan Tucker

I don’t have an exciting life, there’s no reason to tell stranger about it.

If I wanted to tell people about my ideas about stuff, I’d make videos on YouTube.


186 posted on 01/08/2015 8:57:00 PM PST by wastedyears (I may be stupid, but at least I'm not Darwin Awards stupid.)
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To: NorthMountain

Correct. But the business cannot make customers pay a penny more than the customers want to pay. The business that cannot make a profit at that price must stop selling certain products or go out of business entirely.


187 posted on 01/08/2015 9:09:38 PM PST by Arthur McGowan
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To: dmz

I’ve been watching a lot of the back and forth and I have to chime in here (sorry for the interruption/intrusion).

Generally chuck makes great hamburger, but if you buy larger cuts like whole prime rib and other fattier cuts of beef; when you butcher them you can save the fat in a vacuum bag for use later.

(Hint: sirloin makes great burger when you think ahead to keep enough fat on hand to make it the ratio you want). I freeze it for reuse up to 2 years later this way, works great. Sometimes butchers will sell excess fat as well.

Of course you want to avoid bubble gum fat, but you get the jist.


188 posted on 01/08/2015 9:42:59 PM PST by jurroppi1 (The only thing you "pass to see what's in it" is a stool sample. h/t MrB)
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To: wastedyears

I’ve come to accept that some of the complainers about the source of a post, provided it doesn’t cause a copywrite issue, are simply trolls trying to sow discontent at this website. Ignore them, they are as annoying as the “troll wife” in the article was to her husband.


189 posted on 01/09/2015 3:37:38 AM PST by Caipirabob (Communists... Socialists... Democrats...Traitors... Who can tell the difference?)
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To: wastedyears

I see that many of the comments have turned to a discussion on the quality of good hamburger meats, of which I am now taking notes. I love FR...


190 posted on 01/09/2015 3:40:15 AM PST by Caipirabob (Communists... Socialists... Democrats...Traitors... Who can tell the difference?)
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To: Little Ray
"No, odds are he actually loves her and wants to do things right for her. Pleasing your wife is a matter of pride for a good husband."

No, he may love her, but he was beyond attempting to please her. Pleasing one's wife is no longer a matter of pride when she continually takes advantage of his efforts to do so. If he sees the boot prints across his back as a source of pride, he has only my pity. Let's just say, I know this woman's personality all too well. Rear-view mirror, darling.

191 posted on 01/09/2015 5:06:30 AM PST by Hatteras
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To: KosmicKitty

sounds like you have a happy marriage! at least i hope so. :)


192 posted on 01/09/2015 7:47:26 AM PST by midnightcat
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To: midnightcat

We really do. We knew by our 3rd date that we would be together forever. Got married the first weekend that was 6 months after we met to be “respectable.”

Twenty-two years the end of this month. :-)


193 posted on 01/09/2015 7:56:37 AM PST by KosmicKitty (Liberals claim to want to hear other views, but then are shocked to discover there are other views)
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To: KosmicKitty

wonderful! I’ve never been married but recently started dating a very nice man from my church (he is divorced several years). I have always made it a habit to read the threads on marriage topics, just to see what others have to say, and to see if i can learn something in event I ever end up married. Not sure it will ever happen to me, but if it does, I want it to be something joyful for both of us, not a warzone. You can learn a lot from reading all these types of threads....


194 posted on 01/09/2015 8:01:42 AM PST by midnightcat
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To: CynicalBear
I hope you are purposefully trying to be obtuse.

By playing the fool, a lot of information about the subject has been put forward by many posters, thus enlightening everybody, especially those who might have similar questions, but don't want to ask.

That being said, if you buy a package of 'hamburger' at the store, and it says 70% lean / 30%fat, how much fat is in it, exactly ?

IF it says 80% lean / 20%fat, then how much ?

Have you ever taken hamburger you purchased and verified these figures for yourself ?

The real difference (I am told) is in how much it shrinks during cooking, and how much grease(fat) it produces(separates) via cooking.

195 posted on 01/09/2015 5:54:23 PM PST by UCANSEE2 (Lost my tagline on Flight MH370. Sorry for the inconvenience.)
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To: UCANSEE2
>>That being said, if you buy a package of 'hamburger' at the store, and it says 70% lean / 30%fat, how much fat is in it, exactly ?<<

When I was working in the butcher shop one of my jobs was cutting hamburger meat. You cut the lean and weight it, then you cut up fat that has been trimmed and weigh it. For a 100# of 80/20 it's 80# of lean and 20# of fat.

>>Have you ever taken hamburger you purchased and verified these figures for yourself ?<<

That's a silly question. You can't do that but if you want to try go for it.

>>The real difference (I am told) is in how much it shrinks during cooking, and how much grease(fat) it produces(separates) via cooking.<<

Sounds like the people who "told" you that were rather naive. It depends on where the fat came from and how you cook it. Some fat will render out completely when the hamburger is cooked to very well done and dry other fat will not. Not all the liquid in the pan came from fat. Some of it is body fluids from the meat. Also, if you buy hamburger already ground and packaged the law allows them to add a certain percentage of water to keep the hamburger from drying out prior to cooking.

I never buy pre ground hamburger. I buy cuts of meat and grind it myself. I prefer some pork fat included.

196 posted on 01/10/2015 5:07:27 AM PST by CynicalBear (For I decided to know nothing among you except Jesus)
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To: CynicalBear
Thank you for your response.

For a 100# of 80/20 it's 80# of lean and 20# of fat.

Going by POUNDS of lean and POUNDS of fat makes sense. In the end, though, it's not 20% fat, it is more. Correct?

197 posted on 01/10/2015 7:37:20 AM PST by UCANSEE2 (Lost my tagline on Flight MH370. Sorry for the inconvenience.)
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To: CynicalBear
That's a silly question. You can't do that but if you want to try go for it.

It would seem that you could weigh the hamburger before you cook it, and then after, and the difference would be the loss in fat and water.

198 posted on 01/10/2015 7:39:32 AM PST by UCANSEE2 (Lost my tagline on Flight MH370. Sorry for the inconvenience.)
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To: UCANSEE2

Go play that childish game with someone else.


199 posted on 01/10/2015 7:46:53 AM PST by CynicalBear (For I decided to know nothing among you except Jesus)
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To: CynicalBear

Why do you call it a childish game?

It would seem logical. Do you know how they measure calories ?


200 posted on 01/10/2015 8:46:35 AM PST by UCANSEE2 (Lost my tagline on Flight MH370. Sorry for the inconvenience.)
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