Posted on 11/16/2013 5:37:57 AM PST by ClaytonP
/johnny
>> “So far, I’m the only freeper I know, who stores one of these in his bedroom” <<
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I had mine stored in the kitchen up at the ranch for a few years, does that count?
LOL. Been there. Done that.
Regardless, your 3+1 points were accurate.
Here’s a music video that encompasses the attitude.
Get Lucky
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h5EofwRzit0
LOL!
I'd like to see it. Got any pics? Is it a HAM rig?
And she should be ashamed for stringing you along and using you for what she could get out of you, instead of doing the decent thing and telling you to find someone who would love you in return.
I would say you have yet to meet the true love of your life; when you do, your feelings will be reciprocated.
God bless
Not always. I was 31 when I met the man who would be my husband. Sometimes you just don't meet the right one until later. When we went on our first date, it was like no other date either one of us have ever had. I thank God I didn't get married earlier just for the sake of it.
I would have replied similarly: “If you’re talking about all the good men you rejected in your 20’s, they got grabbed by women who appreciated them”.
I don't think I'd load it up with a transmitter though, unless it was a QRP rig.
/johnny
I was going to post a long screed about how women don’t actually seek out good guys until their looks begin to fade, but that adds nothing positive to the conversation. So, I will say this instead. I think that successful dating/marriage is all about timing. People mature at different rates and finding a good partner in life is more about fortunate timing and good luck. When you find someone like that, it still takes a lot of work to make it work. Every day, you must wake up and not take the other person for granted. If you have found the right person, they will think the same way about you.
What do men value in women?
I believe I mentioned that.
Yes, ideally both marriage partners should be putting each other first. It’s not hard for us, because we are very much in love after 17 years of marriage.
And hey, looks don’t fade in the thirties,or even well beyond, if a woman has taken care of herself. :)
For most women, the texans cheerleaders approach is NOT advised.
Yep, women are attracted to high-status men, with "high-status" being defined as "lots of other women want him too". Meanwhile, if she thinks he can't do any better than her, it makes her think she can do better than him.
The one in control of the relationship is the one most able to walk away from it.
Indeed
“The average woman has little use for “nice guys”. “
Who really wants an average woman? Has anyone considered that the average women and the alpha men have a purpose? They are mutually sucking leeches designed to draw one to the other and, in general, isolate and localize the poison that is...themselves.
Self-deluded pride enables them to feel like winners and write books telling others how to become a bigger child of hell than them.
Of course there are casualties along the way. The leeches have to feed off the decent in order to discover they hate the taste. The decent can learn from this. Or not.
“If you want commitment, and after six months she isn’t talking about the future, then it’s time to move on. If, after a year, you are not both sure enough to be willing to set a date, then it’s time to move on.”
Beyond that, as in so many other bonds in life, “equity rescuing” kicks in and the trap is set.
You make some good points. Our problems are foundational.
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