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Wining and dining best way to woo women
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| Tue Jul 26,10:06 AM ET
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Posted on 07/26/2005 2:54:12 PM PDT by Redcitizen
LONDON (Reuters) - Forget expensive presents or costly jewellery. Wining and dining is the best way for men to woo women, scientists said on Tuesday.
Researchers at Imperial College London developed a mathematical formula and modelled courtship as a sequential game to find the best way to impress the ladies.
Their results show that offering an expensive present signals the man's serious intentions but he must be wary of being exploited by gold-diggers who will dump him after receiving the gift.
"Guys are less likely to offer expensive gifts to females they don't have a long-term interest in. And girls won't be impressed with cheap gifts. By offering expensive but worthless gifts, such as dinner and theatre trips, the male pays no cost if the invitation isn't accepted," said Dr Peter Sozou, of University College London (UCL).
If women are not interested they are unlikely to accept the invitation, according to the research published in the journal Proceedings of the Royal Society of London B.
The researchers said giving gifts was a feature of courtship in humans and other species to impress females. Physical attraction is an important element but offering gifts also helps.
"Our analysis shows there is evolutionary logic in men 'burning money' to impress the girl," said Professor Robert Seymour of UCL's department of mathematics.
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What's that song? :) She got the gold mine and I got the shaft." In this day of equal opportunity, it still does not take much for women to woo men. Most guys will settle for a six pack of beer!!
To: AnOldCowhand; Allegra; BerthaDee; Conspiracy Guy; Clemenza; cyborg; Dashing Dasher; Deaf Smith; ...
Worthy of a FF (Favorite FReepers) ping......
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posted on
07/26/2005 2:56:45 PM PDT
by
The SISU kid
(Rats are like Slinkies. Good for nothing. But you smile when you push them down the stairs)
To: Redcitizen; Petronski
A car radio,an adapter for my computer and a few cups of starbucks coffee and I'm happy :o)
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posted on
07/26/2005 2:56:47 PM PDT
by
cyborg
(That's Mrs.Petronski to you thank you very much.)
To: Redcitizen
It's not the food. Or the wine. It's the conversation and undivided attention.
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posted on
07/26/2005 2:57:20 PM PDT
by
Peach
To: cyborg
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posted on
07/26/2005 2:57:35 PM PDT
by
Petronski
(I love Cyborg!)
To: Redcitizen
Candy is dandy but liquor is quicker.
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posted on
07/26/2005 2:57:57 PM PDT
by
since1868
To: Redcitizen
By offering expensive but worthless gifts, such as dinner and theatre trips, the male pays no cost if the invitation isn't accepted," said Dr Peter Sozou, of University College London (UCL). Does this mean I should let her have her own box of Jujubees at the Dollar Movie Theatre?
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posted on
07/26/2005 2:57:59 PM PDT
by
pikachu
(What if there were no more hypothetical questions?)
To: Petronski
Stakes for my tomato jungle too... I forgot that one.
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posted on
07/26/2005 2:58:52 PM PDT
by
cyborg
(That's Mrs.Petronski to you thank you very much.)
To: Redcitizen
"Wining and dining is the best way for men to woo women..."
It still is. Since the kids are all grown up and gone, I usually bring home a bottle of wine. I'll have a Famous Grouse or two (I wish I could afford single malt more often), get the hot tub fired up and it's another wonderful Friday night.
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posted on
07/26/2005 2:59:02 PM PDT
by
wingman1
(University of Vietnam 1970. Forget? Hell.)
To: since1868
Candy is dandy but liquor is quicker."Liquor?"
I always thought that was "lick'er."
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posted on
07/26/2005 2:59:17 PM PDT
by
Petronski
(I love Cyborg!)
To: Peach
I always thought it was the curly fries....
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posted on
07/26/2005 2:59:42 PM PDT
by
Rakkasan1
(If at first you don't succeed, failure may be your thing.)
To: pikachu
Does this mean I should let her have her own box of Jujubees at the Dollar Movie Theatre? Only if you went Dutch.....
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posted on
07/26/2005 2:59:52 PM PDT
by
The SISU kid
(Rats are like Slinkies. Good for nothing. But you smile when you push them down the stairs)
To: cyborg
AND . . . smoochie smoochie. ;OD
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posted on
07/26/2005 2:59:57 PM PDT
by
Petronski
(I love Cyborg!)
To: Redcitizen
Most guys I know will settle for a 1-pack of beer! Or a smile, whichever comes first!
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posted on
07/26/2005 3:00:04 PM PDT
by
MortMan
(Mostly Harmless)
To: Petronski

Wining and dining best way to woo women
WOO WOO!
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posted on
07/26/2005 3:00:11 PM PDT
by
Dead Dog
To: Petronski
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posted on
07/26/2005 3:00:33 PM PDT
by
cyborg
(That's Mrs.Petronski to you thank you very much.)
To: Petronski
sign seen at local bar:
liquor up front, poker in the rear
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posted on
07/26/2005 3:00:44 PM PDT
by
Rakkasan1
(If at first you don't succeed, failure may be your thing.)
To: Redcitizen
So getting them drunk with wine and feeding them is the way to go?
Interesting view!
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posted on
07/26/2005 3:00:49 PM PDT
by
A CA Guy
(God Bless America, God bless and keep safe our fighting men and women.)
To: Redcitizen
What's that song? :) She got the gold mine and I got the shaft." Yup.
The Alabama Wild man (Jerry Reed) sure had a way with words.
To: Petronski
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posted on
07/26/2005 3:01:04 PM PDT
by
cyborg
(That's Mrs.Petronski to you thank you very much.)
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