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Vanity- For a gun novice, what pistol for self-defense?
10/12/2006 | Anthony Locascio

Posted on 10/12/2006 12:05:09 PM PDT by domenad

I am positively ripping over here right now. About an hour ago, my wife calls me to tell me that someone behind her in traffic got out of the car, slammed his fist on her window and threatened her for not blowing through a "Yield" sign fast enough. This is the third time something of this nature has happened. Florida is growing at a meteoric rate, especially the Tampa area where I live. As with all growth, some is good and some is bad, and a surge in the number of physically aggressive, downright threatening people on the roads is one of them.

I've always supported the rights of any non-felon to own a weapon, even though for some reason I never chose to own one for myself. This is probably because I'm a large individual who is experienced in martial arts. My wife, on the other hand, is petite and has a bad back, making a physical confrontation unwise as well as unadvisable. In the back of my head, I always secretly figured on some level that my family and I were safe enough that we did not need firearms. Today has proven me wrong, and so I am turning to my fellow Freepers for advice - what weapon would be ideal for a woman in a car to own? What safety precautions, such as trigger locks would you recommend, in light of the fact that the weapon will be largely carried in a car? What laws are applicable? It would be simple enough for me to pick up a book (and believe me I intend to), but some things need to be filtered through human experience to get the most out of them.


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To: Tijeras_Slim; domenad
Small to medium .38 Special revolver, or a .357 Magnum, which will also shoot the .38 Special round. Of course, this somewhat depends on your Wife's hand size and strength.

This is good advice. Revolvers are simple. Point and pull the trigger. I would add three things:

(1) I would recommend a hammerless revolver. The upside is there's nothing to snag pulling it out of your purse. The downside is that if you are ready for a confrontation, you can cock a gun with a hammer and your first shot will probably be more accurate. After that, hammerless and with hammer revolvers are the same. IMHO, it's unusual to have time to cock the hammer and she will probably forget to anyway in the heat of the moment.

(2) Get a weapon with a ported barrel, especially for a woman. A well ported gun hardly jumps at all after you fire a round. So your second and third shots are WAY more accurate. Also, it will be a lot easier for her to get used to.

(3) Unless she's strong, a .357 is probably too much gun.

Also, remind her that an automobile is a mighty weapon. If someone is crazy enough to be threatening and standing behind the car, all she needs is forward or reverse, depending on her judgment of which leads to a safer solution. Getting out of your car because you feel protected because you have a gun is frequently not the optimal response.

81 posted on 10/12/2006 5:58:35 PM PDT by ModelBreaker
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To: Poser; CHICAGOFARMER
HOW GOOD IS YOU WIFES HEARING? DOES SHE NEED HEARING AIDS NOW? YES, I AM SHOUTING.

If she fires a .357 inside a car with the windows rolled up, I guarantee that she will need hearing aids from that moment on. .357's make a lot of noise. Without a doubt! Even with ear protection you can always pick out the .357's.

Post #79 by CHICAGOFARMER is probably the best written post so far on the issues to be concerned with when carrying a concealed firearm.

I don't think that I would feel comfortable shooting someone who was only yelling at me if I was in a vehicle and the engine was running. I can just picture the DA saying to me, "Why didn't you just drive away to eliminate the threat? Did you have to shoot this man in the face/ or neck, throat, head?" (and I use a wheel chair for mobility)

Now if the person had a club and I was blocked by traffic, then the odds that he could or would injure me rise substantially. That raises the odds that I would fire tenfold. I would think that most DA's and grand juries are going to want some physical damage to the drivers side of the car to justify her shooting someone.

Yes, a man yelling is intimidating but without actual damage to the vehicle the case could go either way.

An ideal place to carry a firearm when you are driving in on the seat beside you, covered with a garment or newspaper. Or stuck down between the seats, into a holster, where the grip is quickly accessible.

I recommend a 2 inch, S&W Chiefs Special in .38 caliber.
82 posted on 10/12/2006 5:59:31 PM PDT by B4Ranch (Illegal immigration Control and US Border Security - The jobs George W. Bush refuses to do.)
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To: domenad

There are always debates about what is better, revolver or pistol. The plus for the revolver is it is somewhat simpler to use and check to see if it is loaded. However, the self-loading pistol may well have a higher degree of practical accuracy, by virtue of having a lighter trigger pull (~5 lb versus about 12 lb).

If it is a revolver, buy one that will fit the hand. Be sure to buy one chambered for .357 Magnum. It is also possible to shoot .38 Special loads for practice and familiarization. My advice is to do some practice with .357 loads, also. This is so the increased recoil and noise will not be a complete surprise. Some of my recommendations are the Ruger SP101 and GP100 guns, as well as those by Smith & Wesson. Taurus also makes several good models.

On self-loading pistols, I recommend both the .40 S&W and the 9mm cartridge. If you shoot accurately, both will do the job. I have a preference for the Glock full size models, the Glock 17 in 9mm and the Glock 22 in .40 S&W. The Browning Hi-Power is also available in those calibers, as well as firearms from Beretta, Springfield Armory, and other manufacturers.

Don't base the purchase on just purchase price, buy a firearm that has a really good reputation for reliability. Remember, if the SHTF, you want something that will go bang! every time you squeeze the trigger.


83 posted on 10/12/2006 6:54:19 PM PDT by punster
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To: AdamSelene235

What's the difference between this book and the plain "Effective Defense" (the one with red cover, with three pictures of Gila)?


84 posted on 10/12/2006 8:12:05 PM PDT by rudy45
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To: CHICAGOFARMER
DON'T LET YOUR EMOTIONS GET THE BEST OF YOU. When you are armed, you must realize that you just lost your right to initiate ANY type of confrontation that could possibly escalate into a violent encounter. You must now have a very mellow attitude on life and your fellow mankind. You just lost the right to flip off the motorist who just cut you off in traffic. You have to ignore the scumbag who just "wolf-whistled" at your wife/girlfriend. If someone wants to pick a fight with you, you lost the right to respond in any way other than a kind, friendly manner while walking away. As an armed person you must be more likely and willing to avoid trouble that an unarmed person would be. You have the legal and moral obligation of de-escalating any situation that you are presented with unless you are faced by someone displaying all three of the "attack potential" elements. Carrying a loaded firearm among your fellow citizens is an awesome responsibility that is not to be taken lightly. Remember, once you strap on your weapon, you must carry with it a great measure of discretion and judgment, along with an easy-going attitude.

I cant stress that enough, You have a heavy burdon and must live with a smile

85 posted on 10/12/2006 9:01:12 PM PDT by mylife (The roar of the masses could be farts)
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To: Doogle
browning pic

The Peoples' Democracy of New Jersey doesn't allow you to own full auto does it?

86 posted on 10/13/2006 4:41:14 AM PDT by from occupied ga (Your most dangerous enemy is your own government)
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To: from occupied ga
The Peoples' Democracy of New Jersey doesn't allow you to own full auto does it?

..ahhhh...errrr....ah, nope

Doogle

87 posted on 10/13/2006 4:44:21 AM PDT by Doogle (USAF 69-73...."never store a threat you should have eliminated")
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To: archy

That's not a gun, that's a cannon!


88 posted on 10/13/2006 4:52:06 AM PDT by caver (Yes, I did crawl out of a hole in the ground.)
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To: punster
my choice

It shoots when you pull the trigger and doesn't when you don't. Doesn't rust. Not very heavy. List $707 not cheap either, but nothing is perfect.

89 posted on 10/13/2006 5:10:00 AM PDT by from occupied ga (Your most dangerous enemy is your own government)
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To: B4Ranch
Even with ear protection you can always pick out the .357's.

When I first got mine I was wondering why people next to me at the range moved away !!

90 posted on 10/13/2006 5:29:24 AM PDT by 1066AD
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To: CougarGA7
Whatever you chose, go take classes so you know how to use it properly, and safely.

I don't think you can emphasize this too much, especially for someone who isn't familiar with firearms or Florida Laws. One split second decision can ruin many lives.

I would suggest pepper spray and a cell phone. I would also not pull over if someone appeared to be out of control. Drive to the local police station or call the police and meet them somewhere.

91 posted on 10/13/2006 5:31:18 AM PDT by mbynack (Retired USAF SMSgt)
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To: domenad

My little lady loves the sig 380. Be sure to check it out.


92 posted on 10/13/2006 5:33:55 AM PDT by Loud Mime (Those who can make you believe absurdities can make you commit atrocities. - Voltaire)
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To: proudofthesouth
My favorite carry weapon is a Sig P239 in 40 S&W. It's an adequate round for self defense, doesn't have excessive recoil, and has been 100% reliable.

I've told this story here before on similar threads, but I'll tell it again. We were in the process of moving and my wife was in another city setting up things on that end. She got into a dispute with a man at work and he started stalking her. I went to the gun store and bought her a KelTek P-11 9mm to carry in her car. It's simple, lightweight, and packs enough punch to discourage a bad guy. She fired it once and refused to shoot it again. It didn't fit her hand, it was too loud, and the recoil hurt her hand. She ended up taking my Colt Diamondback in 38 special. It's a medium frame revolver that doesn't have the sharp recoil of a lighter gun.

The lesson is that you'll waste your money if you try to pick out a weapon for your wife. Let her try out several guns and pick the one that suits her.

93 posted on 10/13/2006 5:43:01 AM PDT by mbynack (Retired USAF SMSgt)
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To: mbynack

I agree. I never purchased a gun that didn't "fit" right. Because every person's hand is different, its simply not possible to buy a pistol (or even a rifle or shotgun) for another person.


94 posted on 10/13/2006 5:54:16 AM PDT by proudofthesouth (Mao said that power comes at the point of a rifle; I say FREEDOM does.)
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To: archy

Pahahahah! What the hell kind of gun is that? It looks like something that should be mounted on an imperial Star Destroyer!


95 posted on 10/13/2006 6:15:53 AM PDT by domenad (In all things, in all ways, at all times, let honor guide me.)
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To: domenad
Everybody on this thread has already given more and better advice than I can so I'll just give a plug for one model to consider. My wife is small statured with small hands and wasn't comfortable with firearms at first. After trying a number of different models, she settled on a Sig P232 (380) and absolutely loves it. It is important to be comfortable with and like firing your weapon or you won't keep up the necessary practice.
96 posted on 10/13/2006 7:01:24 AM PDT by Truth29
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To: Truth29

That's another that keeps coming up. Looks like the first ones I'll get her try are the .380, the Makarov, and the .357 snub and go from there.


97 posted on 10/13/2006 7:09:09 AM PDT by domenad (In all things, in all ways, at all times, let honor guide me.)
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To: domenad
As I am sure you know, the 380 designation is the caliber, also known as a 9mm kurz (9mm short). It is a 9mm lighter round with less recoil. In this case, the P232 is the specific model and is highly reliable. She has never had a misfire and has fired thousands or rounds through that pistol.
98 posted on 10/13/2006 7:22:46 AM PDT by Truth29
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To: B4Ranch
HOW GOOD IS YOU WIFES HEARING? DOES SHE NEED HEARING AIDS NOW? YES, I AM SHOUTING. If she fires a .357 inside a car with the windows rolled up, I guarantee that she will need hearing aids from that moment on. .357's make a lot of noise. Without a doubt! Even with ear protection you can always pick out the .357's.

Personally, I wouldn't choose a self defense weapon by how quiet it was. I want a couple of things from a self-defense (handgun) weapon:

1. Effective
2. Goes bang every time I pull the trigger

Number 2 pretty much rules out semi-automatic weapons. I don't want to bet my life on the remote possibility of a stovepipe jam or a bad primer. For women and some men, the possibility of a "limp wrist" jam is also very real. A revolver is on the top of my list for reliability and ease of use.

Number 1 pretty much rules out pistol rounds smaller or weaker than .357. The 38 special +p is a realistic choice, but it's pretty noisy too.

That leaves revolvers of 38 special +p and up on my list. A .45ACP with a half-moon clip is a good alternative. The availability of good self-defense rounds for the .357 make it my choice.

99 posted on 10/13/2006 7:38:01 AM PDT by Poser (Willing to fight for oil)
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To: Poser

Fire a .357 inside a car with the windows rolled up and get back to me.

(You won't hear any surrounding noise whatsoever for at least 30 minutes.)


100 posted on 10/13/2006 7:49:59 AM PDT by B4Ranch (Illegal immigration Control and US Border Security - The jobs George W. Bush refuses to do.)
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