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Singles Find the Rules of Dating are Changing
All News Wire ^ | April 01, 2011 | Michelle Smart

Posted on 04/05/2011 7:05:29 PM PDT by TheDingoAteMyBaby

Match.com has released the results of a new study examining the dating habits and behaviors of the 105 million single adults in America. One third of the population of the United States is single, and this means the dating process involves people from all age groups, backgrounds and personal beliefs. The study involved 5,000 singles from around the country to discover the real procedures and rules of dating in this day and age.

The results show that while traditional dating rules are still followed, other changes have occurred. New developments like social networking tools and online dating have made it commonplace to “friend” a potential date as a way to signal interest. Post-date communication is often handled through texting instead of a phone call, and young singles tend to avoid contact if they aren’t ready for a second date. Older singles are entering the online dating game, but they are more cautious of meeting someone they’ve connected with through a website.

Women and men both still feel that men should take the initiative to ask for a date, but 41% of women are comfortable with picking up the check for a first date. A third of both genders agree that you can measure the chemistry and connection between two people within 15 minutes, but only 12% would actually leave at that point in the date. Half of all women surveyed still want men to make the call after a first date, but only 6% of men are doing so within the first 24 hours.

64% of daters feel that post-date communication can be handled through emails and texts, but 80% still think phone conversations are best. Men introduce dates to their friends much sooner than women do, regardless of the age of the singles.


TOPICS: Chit/Chat; Miscellaneous; Society
KEYWORDS: dating; men; romance; singles; women
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1 posted on 04/05/2011 7:05:38 PM PDT by TheDingoAteMyBaby
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2 posted on 04/05/2011 7:10:34 PM PDT by TSgt (Colonel Allen West & Michele Bachman - 2012 POTUS Dream Team Ticket!)
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To: TheDingoAteMyBaby
Singles Find the Rules of Dating are Changing

Hasn't it always?

I mean, it used to be like this (we may be going back to it)

Source: http://slayingevil.wordpress.com/2011/03/07/what-saith-the-most-high-power-ahayah-concerning-edom-the-future-of-the-so-called-white-man/

3 posted on 04/05/2011 7:13:43 PM PDT by UCANSEE2 (Lame and ill-informed post.)
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To: Eaker; humblegunner

re - post #3

Did Humble ever call her after their first date?


4 posted on 04/05/2011 7:15:11 PM PDT by Grizzled Bear ("Does not play well with others.")
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To: UCANSEE2

(sigh) The good old days.


5 posted on 04/05/2011 7:16:12 PM PDT by Rebelbase
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To: UCANSEE2
Troglodyte
6 posted on 04/05/2011 7:21:35 PM PDT by cripplecreek (Remember the River Raisin! (look it up))
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To: TheDingoAteMyBaby

I hear that Craigslist is very popular dating site. ;-)


7 posted on 04/05/2011 7:22:10 PM PDT by Thrownatbirth (.....Iraq Invasion fan since '91.)
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To: TheDingoAteMyBaby

I refuse to internet date. So I guess it’s hopeless for me.


8 posted on 04/05/2011 7:26:03 PM PDT by mamelukesabre (Si Vis Pacem Para Bellum (If you want peace prepare for war))
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To: UCANSEE2

Interesting blog you’re reading there.


9 posted on 04/05/2011 7:27:17 PM PDT by TheDingoAteMyBaby
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To: UCANSEE2

Ahhhh...the glory days of dating. When going out ‘clubbing’ really meant “clubbing”.


10 posted on 04/05/2011 7:33:31 PM PDT by max americana ( NF)
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To: TheDingoAteMyBaby

Internet dating is a no-go for me. It’s the live interaction that gets me interested, the computer is too sterile.

After the last one decided after her tiny lateral promotion that she was a higher social status now and needed a guy with a big bank account, real dating doesn’t even have much interest, much less computer dating.


11 posted on 04/05/2011 7:34:41 PM PDT by Free Vulcan (Vote Republican! You can vote Democrat when you're dead.)
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To: Petruchio; Yorlik803; ryan71; boxerblues; Hammy; DollyCali; DaveLoneRanger; BigSkyFreeper; snugs; ..


Impeccable timing, Diana!
12 posted on 04/05/2011 7:36:39 PM PDT by RandallFlagg (Let this chant follow BHO everywhere he goes: "You lie. You lie. You lie.")
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To: UCANSEE2

Her name was Bertha. Bertha Butt. She was one
of the Butt sisters.


13 posted on 04/05/2011 7:36:56 PM PDT by dfwgator
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To: Thrownatbirth; Eaker; humblegunner; Grizzled Bear

Talk about inflation. The hourly charge is getting ridiculous!


14 posted on 04/05/2011 7:43:44 PM PDT by Larry Lucido
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To: TheDingoAteMyBaby
Some of my observations from the minefield of singletude in a large, metropolitan area:

If you happen to meet a single gal who seems really kind-hearted, down to earth, mellow, and polite, it means that she probably has a trainload of baggage to include destroyed credit, no money, a dead end job, and some a-hole's kids that she wants a sucker (you) to raise. It's usually safe to assume that she has a past that would make Paris Hilton blush.

In other words, if she's being really cool to you, it's probably because she has to be and is trying to rope you in. In our modern crap society's singles scene, true kindness and decency are relatively rare. Choose wisely.

15 posted on 04/05/2011 8:02:15 PM PDT by SIDENET ("If that's your best, your best won't do." -Dee Snider)
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To: Thrownatbirth

I browse the dating section on Craigslist occasionally, it was amazing during the recent protests how many ads read along the lines of “Just in town for the protest, looking for someone to ‘hook up’ with.”


16 posted on 04/05/2011 8:10:14 PM PDT by Ellendra (Profanity is the mark of a conversational cripple.)
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To: SIDENET

bump


17 posted on 04/05/2011 8:10:37 PM PDT by MinorityRepublican
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To: RandallFlagg

Could I get on that ping list please?

Thank you.


18 posted on 04/05/2011 8:18:59 PM PDT by Ellendra (Profanity is the mark of a conversational cripple.)
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To: RandallFlagg

“Impeccable timing, Diana!”

Yeah. Great. Terrific. I enter back into the fray just as the fray is at ebb-tide, LOL!


19 posted on 04/05/2011 8:26:31 PM PDT by Diana in Wisconsin (I don't have 'Hobbies.' I'm developing a robust post-Apocalyptic skill set...)
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To: Ellendra

Hey! You and I aren’t going to be cat-fighting over the same guys here, are we? LOL!

Note to observers: we know one another in The Real World. Both of us are AWESOME women with terrific resumes. Wouldn’t you agree, E? Yep. I thought so! :)


20 posted on 04/05/2011 8:31:52 PM PDT by Diana in Wisconsin (I don't have 'Hobbies.' I'm developing a robust post-Apocalyptic skill set...)
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