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'Mom, go upstairs. We're all liberals.'
The American Thinker ^ | October 24, 2012 | Annie Lake

Posted on 10/25/2012 9:53:17 PM PDT by Altariel

Ouch. Monday night was the first time I heard my daughter apply that label to herself, and the word didn't please me. She and six friends/coworkers were about to watch the final Obama-Romney debate on the large-screen TV in our suburban basement.

These twenty-something kiddies were enjoying our hospitality because it was free. They're a company (founder, partners, contractors, trainee), part of the start-up trend whereby young persons hang out at coffee shops, staring into laptops, trying to start the next Foursquare or Fab and make a billion dollars. Until that happens, they can't afford things like airfare or hotels. So in order to attend a conference in the city near us, they had driven cross-country in a minivan and were staying at our house for four and a half days.

Up to this point, neither my husband nor I had said a word to them about politics or cultural norms in general. When they brought in large quantities of beer and liquor and stayed up late consuming it, we said nothing. We did not inquire about the marital status of the couple cohabiting in the main guest room. On Sunday, we went to church but did not try to recruit them to go with us. We were not merely nonjudgmental, but supportive, stocking up on groceries to meet their various dietary needs and keeping quiet while they occupied the kitchen, "co-working."

Tolerant I am. But being told to leave my own basement did not cut it.

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To: Altariel
Oh my gosh! Seriously, if I told my mom to leave the room (especially in front of guests) she would have jerked me off the couch by my elbow and whacked my rear end with each step as she marched me up the stairs. Then I'd find myself having to call a taxi the next morning as I watched my Dad carefully remove the new spark plugs and oil he put in my truck on my last visit. My parents still spoil me rotten, but they also expect and deserve my respect!
41 posted on 10/26/2012 12:51:16 AM PDT by Casie
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To: Altariel

You let them co-habit in you house?? That’s not “tolerance” that’s acquiescence and entirely stupid. No wonder you have liberal kids.


42 posted on 10/26/2012 1:01:24 AM PDT by Solson (The Voters stole the election! And the establishment wants it back.)
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To: Altariel
It is with a strange feeling that those of us who come from the Soviet Union look upon the West of today. It is as though we were neither neighbours on the same planet, nor contemporaries -and yet we contemplate the West from what will be your future, or look back seventy years, to see our past suddenly repeating itself. And what we see is always the same, always the same as it was then: adults deferring to the opinion of their children; the younger generation carried away by shallow worthless ideas; professors scared of being unfashionable; journalists refusing to take responsibility for the words they squander so profusely; universal sympathy for revolutionary extremists; people with serious objections unable or unwilling to voice them; the majority passively obsessed by a feeling of doom; feeble governments; societies whose defensive reactions have become paralysed; spiritual confusion leading to political upheaval.What will happen as a result of all this lies ahead of us. But the time is near, and from bitter memory we can easily predict what these events will be.

Excerpt from West's Betrayal of Civilisation by Aleksandr Solzhenitsyn


43 posted on 10/26/2012 1:02:33 AM PDT by arasina (Communism is EVIL. So there.)
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To: Altariel

This is ENABLING liberalism.
STAND UP for conservative-ism!
Now they know they can walk all over any conservate any time they damn well please and no body is going do anything about it. Enough is enough.
They can let the rubber hit the road and find out just what reality and life is all about.


44 posted on 10/26/2012 2:01:02 AM PDT by conservativesister
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To: Altariel
“Mom, go upstairs. We're all liberals.”

Me: “Oh, daughter, bless your heart! This is my house and you don’t give orders here. You and your friends are guests in my house.”

“Now, you and this rabble have five minutes to pickup your stuff, throw it in that piece of junk you came in, and leave immediately. Before you ask, I don't care where you go; just leave.”

45 posted on 10/26/2012 2:01:46 AM PDT by MasterGunner01
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To: Altariel

Raise ‘em right.

“Hands off” parenting almost always produces liberals.

My son is in the eighth grade, and is as rabidly conservative as I am, and he knows WHY he is conservative.

Gives his teachers fits when he can explain his views and they can’t!

This week, his history teacher told the class, “If people don’t vote, then they don’t have the right to complain.”

My son responded, “What if your choices are a totalitarian dictator vs. a utopian socialist? You don’t have the right to complain that BOTH choices are bad?”

The teacher just looked at him. She couldn’t answer.


46 posted on 10/26/2012 3:33:18 AM PDT by FLAMING DEATH (Freedom of speech is delicious. It tastes like chicken.)
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To: arasina

Good one!


47 posted on 10/26/2012 4:09:17 AM PDT by spankalib (The downside of liberty is the need to tolerate those who despise it.)
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To: Obama_Is_Sabotaging_America
This is what happens when parents let schools run by unions raise their children.

Post of the day. Thanks to public schools; we have Obama.

48 posted on 10/26/2012 4:15:36 AM PDT by who knows what evil? (G-d saved more animals than people on the ark...www.siameserescue.org.)
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To: Kickass Conservative

I completely understand. My parents paid me a dime per week to take out the trash when I was 3. At age six I worked in a tobacco field for 50 cents per day. Until I was 16 I mowed neighbors yards, had a newspaper route, and did odd jobs around the neighborhood. At 16 I started working in fast food and at a moving and storage company to fund my college education. I ultimately worked my way up the corporate ladder by producing higher sales and profits at the business units I managed. No helping hands or understanding bosses along the way.

While I helped with tuition,, my daughter worked part time during college to cover her expenses. She also took out loans and earned an academic merit based scholarship her last two years. When she decided to go to graduate school I told her she would have to pay for the degree herself but she could live at home rent free. She worked two jobs getting her masters and took a heavier than normal load so she could finish a semester early. In 2009, when most college grads couln’t find work, she pounded on doors to find a full time job in her field and she found a part time job on weekends. Today she is debt free and still works the second job so she can build her savings. While many of her former classmates still can’t find employment, she is demonstrating that hard work and determination can still result in success. She is also very conservative in her social and political views. To date she has been unable to find a young man who meets her standards.

In my life I’ve met very few liberals who worked from a very early age. It seems the collectivist point of view is associated with dependence at home during the formative years. I remember graduating from college in the morning and reporting to work at a corporate job that same afternoon. The concept of going home to sleep in my parent’s home that night and eat at their table was inconceivable. I was already paying my own way and didn’t want or need a hand or handout.


49 posted on 10/26/2012 5:24:58 AM PDT by Soul of the South
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To: Kickass Conservative

I completely understand. My parents paid me a dime per week to take out the trash when I was 3. At age six I worked in a tobacco field for 50 cents per day. Until I was 16 I mowed neighbors yards, had a newspaper route, and did odd jobs around the neighborhood. At 16 I started working in fast food and at a moving and storage company to fund my college education. I ultimately worked my way up the corporate ladder by producing higher sales and profits at the business units I managed. No helping hands or understanding bosses along the way.

While I helped with tuition,, my daughter worked part time during college to cover her expenses. She also took out loans and earned an academic merit based scholarship her last two years. When she decided to go to graduate school I told her she would have to pay for the degree herself but she could live at home rent free. She worked two jobs getting her masters and took a heavier than normal load so she could finish a semester early. In 2009, when most college grads couln’t find work, she pounded on doors to find a full time job in her field and she found a part time job on weekends. Today she is debt free and still works the second job so she can build her savings. While many of her former classmates still can’t find employment, she is demonstrating that hard work and determination can still result in success. She is also very conservative in her social and political views. To date she has been unable to find a young man who meets her standards.

In my life I’ve met very few liberals who worked from a very early age. It seems the collectivist point of view is associated with dependence at home during the formative years. I remember graduating from college in the morning and reporting to work at a corporate job that same afternoon. The concept of going home to sleep in my parent’s home that night and eat at their table was inconceivable. I was already paying my own way and didn’t want or need a hand or handout.


50 posted on 10/26/2012 5:24:58 AM PDT by Soul of the South
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To: JRandomFreeper

Humans aren’t dogs. It’s not quite that easy. “Training”/upbringing does matter, but in the end, your children choose their own path and are responsible for their own decisions.


51 posted on 10/26/2012 5:59:06 AM PDT by Girlene
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To: Terry Mross

The movie was titled “Trading Places”...


52 posted on 10/26/2012 9:54:30 AM PDT by ace2u_in_MD (You missed something...)
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To: ace2u_in_MD

I knew that as assume as I hit “post”.


53 posted on 10/26/2012 11:11:28 AM PDT by Terry Mross (obama killed the people in Libya.)
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To: Altariel

My daughter and those cretins would be out of my house. Oh, and I am serious as a heart attack.


54 posted on 10/26/2012 11:15:09 AM PDT by riri (Plannedopolis-look it up. It's how the elites plan for US to live.)
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To: ace2u_in_MD

I realized that as as soon as I hit “post”. I hope the Amrerican people say that to obama next month.


55 posted on 10/26/2012 11:15:29 AM PDT by Terry Mross (obama killed the people in Libya.)
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56 posted on 10/26/2012 11:45:58 AM PDT by TheOldLady
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To: Solson

Exactly. When I read that she allowed that and couldn’t even bring herself to ask if they were married, it explained everything.


57 posted on 10/27/2012 9:17:39 AM PDT by mrsmel (One Who Can See)
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To: riri

Indeed. That daughter was trying to “other” her own mother in her mother’s own house, using an Alinsky tactic on her own mother, under her mother’s roof, at the hands of her mother’s hospitality.


58 posted on 10/27/2012 9:24:40 AM PDT by mrsmel (One Who Can See)
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To: mrsmel
This article boils my blood.

I read it to my daughter, 15, last night. I told her pretty much what I posted. She then said, "Would you not talk to me if I were a liberal?"

I said, I would still talk to her but our relationship would be very strained because I really could not have any respect for her and honestly I would question her bravery in the face of standing up to what is right against the left or her mental stability. That is honestly how I would feel. My kids have a very solid understanding of who the left is, the history and the misery it brings. I said you don't have to mirror my beliefs but there are many choices other than the destructive cult of the left that can only bring you unhappiness.

59 posted on 10/27/2012 9:51:24 AM PDT by riri (Plannedopolis-look it up. It's how the elites plan for US to live.)
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To: Terry Mross
Then I would have told them my favorite Eddie Murphy line in the movie was “Get the f... out!”

I especially loved it when he added, "And be quiet out there, my neighbors are asleep, they work too!"

60 posted on 10/27/2012 9:56:58 AM PDT by dfwgator (World Series bound and picking up steam, GO GET 'EM,TIGERS!)
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