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A holiday guide to arguing with your right-wing relatives
Salon.com ^ | Thursday, Nov 22, 2012 08:00 AM EST | Alex Pareene

Posted on 11/22/2012 6:33:44 AM PST by skinkinthegrass

Explaining voter fraud, Benghazi and the fiscal cliff to Fox-watching family members..
“The Holidays” are now officially here, and all Americans will soon have to face their extended families and listen to them talk. For many young Americans — specifically young Americans related to old white Americans — Thanksgiving and our various Winter Holidays are extra stressful, because young Americans are largely a liberal, Obama-voting bunch, and old white Americans are mostly not. Unfortunately, old white Americans spend a lot of their time being lied to by conservatives on TV, the radio and the Internet, and while that is not their fault, it can be hard to talk about politics with people who believe an elaborate series of fictions and distortions.

If you actually want to engage your right-wing relatives — and let me be clear, you really should not do this, you are going to ruin Thanksgiving — it’s best to come prepared. Below, you’ll find a series of talking points designed to address some of the most popular current trending topics in the alternate conservative media world.


(Excerpt) Read more at salon.com ...


TOPICS: Chit/Chat; Conspiracy; Education; Society
KEYWORDS: 2012elections; holiday; leftwing; msnbc; politics; propaganda; rightwing; salon; thanksgiving; theholidays
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To: Dr. Pritchett
We aren't suckers...we are gracious. To a fault. We relinquished our values because it was the polite thing to do.

Politeness will no longer avail us if we are to save what remains. Meet nerve with nerve and passion with passion. And give nothing more away.

61 posted on 11/22/2012 8:44:30 AM PST by jboot (This isn't your father's America. Stay safe and keep your powder dry.)
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To: VanDeKoik

I had a horde of rampaging liberals break into my hoard of chocolate a while back.


62 posted on 11/22/2012 8:45:49 AM PST by piasa (Attitude adjustments offered here free of charge)
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To: rockrr

I’ve thought about what you’ve said a lot since the election lately. How did the baby boomer generation with it’s strong rebellious attitude and live and let live credo become naany stating little fiends who want to control every aspect of your life cept who you sleep with?


63 posted on 11/22/2012 8:48:22 AM PST by Blackirish
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To: skinkinthegrass
old white Americans spend a lot of their time being lied to by conservatives on TV, the radio and the Internet

And young, non-white "Americans" spend a lot of their time being lied to everywhere else ...

64 posted on 11/22/2012 8:57:16 AM PST by IronJack (=)
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Dear Alex,

Thoughtful writing does not include the phrase ‘stingy asshole’.

Sincerely


65 posted on 11/22/2012 9:09:44 AM PST by Half Vast Conspiracy (I made a prank call...pretended I was a mime.)
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To: skinkinthegrass

My conservative facebook friends have all posted nothing but wishes of Thanksgiving. My liberal friends have only posted this Salon article and MSNBC’s version (collaboration much?).

Can definitely see the difference in mindsets.


66 posted on 11/22/2012 9:22:34 AM PST by Domandred (Fdisk, format, and reinstall the entire .gov system.)
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To: Domandred
My liberal friends have only posted this Salon article and MSNBC’s ...

They are not really your friend.

67 posted on 11/22/2012 9:24:37 AM PST by going hot (Happiness is a momma deuce)
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To: SamAdams76
On a side note, this might be my last Thanksgiving in New England. I applied for a job in the Midwest and made the final cut - my final interview is second week in December. I've had it with Massachusetts - I want out!

What excellent news on this Thanksgiving! I look forward to see you posting from 'somewhere else' in 2013. What a blessing to be liberated from New England...

68 posted on 11/22/2012 9:29:36 AM PST by who knows what evil? (G-d saved more animals than people on the ark...www.siameserescue.org.)
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To: Michael.SF.
"ACORN - No longer exists." These people are delusional.

I went through this at Thanksgiving a few years ago with our oldest male relative, when I mentioned Communists in our unions. He sneered at the top of his voice that we defeated communism long ago! Oh. Kaaaay. I quietly stated that we defeated the Soviets, but not communism, and got up and left the room. It just wasn't worth a prolonged argument in front of the rest of the family.

69 posted on 11/22/2012 9:36:23 AM PST by Albion Wilde ("Not only no, but HELL NO we will NOT moderate our stance."-- Jim Robinson)
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To: skinkinthegrass; All
Never Argue With A LIBERAL...

They Will Drag You Down To Their Level, Then Beat You With Experience!)

70 posted on 11/22/2012 9:51:19 AM PST by QT3.14 ( USA: Likely only country in world history to adopt policies and laws that ensure self-destruction)
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To: skinkinthegrass

Luckily my family has more important things to argue about than politics..


71 posted on 11/22/2012 9:55:55 AM PST by montanajoe
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To: Blackirish

Good question.

Here’s my gut reaction: we all know that each successive generation instinctively rebels against their parents. It’s a natural part of establishing their own identities. Do you recall the stories in the ‘80’s about all the former hippies that had renounced the love generation and became “filthy capitalists”? I do.

So sometimes kids do the rebellion thing just to make a statement of independence and not as a well-reasoned, sober life-choice. Essentially they’re saying, “You’re not the boss of me”....before adopting the same yoke that we carried, and our folks carried. The yoke of responsibility, of work, and of achievement.

There has been an acceleration of this trend however, and that troubles me. When we were kids we grew our hair long and wore goofy clothes that we got from Goodwill. Guys who got tattoos were either servicemen (and their tattoos were innocuous) or 1%’rs who were outcasts from society.

Nowadays huge garish tattoos are the norm. Body piercing - often transfiguring - is rampant. It is no longer merely a protest - it is an open declaration that they don’t give a damn about you, about me, and especially about themselves. They are precluding their participation in society. What they do to themselves guarantees that, irrespective of what talents or skills they possess, they will qualify for only the bottom of the barrel of jobs.

And they don’t care.

The creeping malaise of entitlement has ensnared another generation - and to a degree even greater than the one that came before. I believe that it was taught in our Government Indoctrination centers. Kids were drilled with a constant mantra of insipid feel-good slogans like that idiot franken’s “I’m Good Enough, I’m Smart Enough, and Doggone It, People Like Me!”

They were taught that it was more important to feel good about themselves than to seek higher achievement. Boys were taught to be passive and compliant, and girls were taught to be assertive and brash - actions that served only to bring out the worst attributes in both. They were inculcated with passivity and indolence. If you just quietly wait in line you’ll get whatever you need.

They were fed a steady diet of dreck like The Simpsons where one learns such pearls of wisdom as, “If something is to hard to do, then it’s not worth doing.”

More than any previous generation they were handed everything on a silver platter and not even asked to take out the trash. In terms of recipes for disaster I think that we managed to concoct the perfect one. How could it not crash?

Margaret Thatcher once warned, “The trouble with socialism is that eventually you run out of other people’s money.” It was true then and the principle still rings true now. I believe that we are now poised to find out exactly what Maggie was warning us about. And I wonder how (if?!) the current generation will deal with the End Of Life As We Know It?

Pardon the ramble ;-)


72 posted on 11/22/2012 9:59:03 AM PST by rockrr (Everything is different now...)
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To: jboot
When an individual becomes progressive he places himself outside of the bonds of family.

That is so true; and it comes true over time even if people don't recognize it at the start. I think of one of my dear relatives who went off the deep end as a young man and would have emotional tantrums over our eating a turkey at holidays.

He remained vegetarian the rest of his life, which was shortened immensely by complications from the unbalanced, soy-heavy diet he was eating, which interacted fatally with his hereditary thyroid problems.

He died too young and completely alone, so unhappy with life. His mother had been a rabid FDR, JFK and LBJ supporter. Many of us in the family tried to help him out of his misery, but progressivism is misery and hatred and "extremism in defense of narcissim."

73 posted on 11/22/2012 10:08:49 AM PST by Albion Wilde ("Not only no, but HELL NO we will NOT moderate our stance."-- Jim Robinson)
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To: cripplecreek; jboot
Destruction of the family is a stated progressive goal


Here is a brilliant Daniel Greenfield article on that subject:

Obama’s Post-Family America--Fracturing social structures are leading to a fractured nation

74 posted on 11/22/2012 10:13:42 AM PST by Albion Wilde ("Not only no, but HELL NO we will NOT moderate our stance."-- Jim Robinson)
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To: MeneMeneTekelUpharsin; skinkinthegrass; squarebarb
When I saw the two stories of talking points dished out to bash Conservatives at Thanksgiving dinner - I could not help but think of THIS scene.

Life imitates art. What is happening all around us in this ObamaNation - is EXACTLY what this scene depicts.

Hitler Youth: Tomorrow Belongs To Me

75 posted on 11/22/2012 10:14:20 AM PST by INVAR ("Fart for liberty, fart for freedom and fart proudly!" - Benjamin Franklin)
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To: jboot

When an individual becomes progressive he places himself outside of the bonds of family. No one throws him out, he goes of his own free will.


My family is “progressive.” That’s why I left home at 18 and eventually settled over 1000 miles away.


76 posted on 11/22/2012 10:16:17 AM PST by Rides_A_Red_Horse (If there is a war on women, the Kennedys are the Spec Ops troops.)
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To: skinkinthegrass

I wouldn’t argue with my right-wing relatives...I’d go to the range with them instead!


77 posted on 11/22/2012 10:17:10 AM PST by Dubh_Ghlase (Therefore, send not to know For whom the bell tolls, It tolls for thee.)
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To: rockrr
They were taught that it was more important to feel good about themselves than to seek higher achievement.

I'd add that one quick-n-easy for them to feel good about themselves is to earn the praise of other liberals by being "for the underdog." Therefore, all they have to do to feel superior is state sympathy for the poor and downtrodden. Of course, the poor and downtrodden they choose to sympathize with are usually living how they are for reasons having to do with their own choices, but one must use judgment to point that out, and they eschew judgment. They simply identify the losing side of every battle and loudly proclaim their sympathy to that side. It's why they love Palestinians, for example.

78 posted on 11/22/2012 10:17:28 AM PST by A_perfect_lady (Great nations are born stoic and die epicurean. -Will Durant)
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To: muskah

One of two things went wrong (or both). Embassy staff was more determined and better armed than anticipated, and killed some of the attackers. That pissed them off and they killed the ambassador, and the rest were rescued by the Americans, or the attackers double crossed Obama.


Two Navy Seals showed up. If they’d been granted the proper support, things would have ended much differently.


79 posted on 11/22/2012 10:21:03 AM PST by Rides_A_Red_Horse (If there is a war on women, the Kennedys are the Spec Ops troops.)
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To: INVAR

Funny. When I saw the article, the first thing that occurred to me was that the only thing missing was a reporting requirement to turn your relatives in afterwards.


80 posted on 11/22/2012 10:38:46 AM PST by Dr. Pritchett
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