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Why Male Pansies Can’t Attract a Good Woman
Girls Just Wanna Have Guns ^ | May 2013 | Regis Giles

Posted on 05/19/2013 7:39:13 AM PDT by Tolerance Sucks Rocks

A while back I received several e-mails from guys requesting my advice on how to attract a female like me. You see, they seem to have a hard time attracting women that are into shooting and the outdoors… and I understand this.

Being that we humans aren’t whitetail deer and you can’t rub your scent on a tree to find yourself a mate, it makes things harder for guys.

I’ve decided to throw these guys a bone, and any others who need help, on how to attract such a lady. Here are essential points to follow in attracting the Katniss Everdeen for your life:

1. Confidence is key:

Now, I know I said we weren’t whitetail, but since you did mention you wanted a woman of the outdoors, I will use an analogy that caters to this community.

Women want the stud buck, bear or lion in their life. They want the alpha male, the one who walks out into the field and you know… he’s the man. However, don’t confuse this with arrogance; that is one thing women can’t stand.

2. Class not swag:

The woman who is into shooting and the outdoors is usually someone who is confident in herself. Knowing that, she will never choose a man who carries himself with “swag” and treats women as objects. A hundred times over …and over, they will choose a man who has “class” and treats them with the respect they deserve.

3. Be a man of virtue:

Living a life of virtue is much harder than living a life of vice. Showing that you are virtuous in your actions will tell a woman that you live to a moral code, you have discipline and you aren’t easily influenced by weak and petty people.

4. Don’t look, or be, desperate:

Never need someone. Always be content with the thought of being alone, that way you won’t fall for the wrong woman. Also, if you do appear desperate, that’s usually when women run for the hills… and I think it’s true for men too. However, when you do find the apple-of-your-eye, don’t ignore her.

5. My final note is, look sharp.

ZZ Top knows this and so should you; every girl goes crazy for a sharp dressed man. Guys, please put an effort into your appearance. We females aren’t shallow because we overlook the guys in sweat pants or who do the tube-sock/flip-flop combo… you look like a slob, that’s why we overlook you. If you want to attract a woman, be attractive.

Now, keep in mind this is strictly my opinion and the games of love are never set in stone. Nevertheless, these generally seem to be traits the majority of these Katniss Everdeen-like women are attracted to.

Also, take note of my use of the term “man”. The type of woman you want to attract isn’t going to be into a 30-year-old mama’s boy, who still lives at home and wets his bed. She is looking for a leader, the stud of the herd; she is looking for a “man”, not a “boy”.

Hope this helped.

Happy hunting,

-Regis Giles


TOPICS: Chit/Chat; Miscellaneous; Reference; Society
KEYWORDS: alphamales; attraction; confidence; genderwars; hunting; katnisseverdeen; men; psychology; regisgiles; singles; values; women
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To: Free Vulcan

But at least you’re not bitter! ;-)


61 posted on 05/19/2013 11:49:06 AM PDT by 9YearLurker
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To: Tolerance Sucks Rocks

“The type of woman you want to attract isn’t going to be into a 30-year-old mama’s boy, who still lives at home and wets his bed.”

Will she be into the 80-year-old guy who lives in the home and is wetting the bed again?


62 posted on 05/19/2013 11:49:47 AM PDT by KrisKrinkle (Blessed be those who know the depth and breadth of their ignorance. Cursed be those who don't.)
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To: Tolerance Sucks Rocks

Only a small percentage of men are alpha-male leaders.

Once those men are taken, what are the rest of womankind to do?

(I already know how this works, but I wonder if the author and other women have thought of it)


63 posted on 05/19/2013 11:49:55 AM PDT by Age of Reason
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To: qam1

Hey, at least the alpha genes are getting perpetuated!


64 posted on 05/19/2013 11:54:16 AM PDT by 9YearLurker
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To: JCBreckenridge
Some of us *are* willing to look past these things, but here’s a clue - most of us who have waited aren’t really happy with the whole situation of being asked to look after someone else’s kids because you think we’ll make a good husband.

It's worse than that: for many (if not all women) this may be an inclination set by generations of natural selection: make babies with the sexy bad boy, then find a "nice guy" to marry and help you spend your resources raising the other guy's kids.

(Or sometimes marry the "nice boy" first, then have sex on the side with the sexy bad boy during the time of the month when pregnacy is the likely result)

I'm not saying women consciouly plan this strategy, only that evolution has imbued them with behavioral responses to situations such that the sum of those behaviors can lead them into playing-out such a strategy for reproduction.

65 posted on 05/19/2013 11:59:45 AM PDT by Age of Reason
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To: Age of Reason
Once those men are taken, what are the rest of womankind to do?

Mate-poaching, polygyny and lesbianism?

66 posted on 05/19/2013 12:02:42 PM PDT by Tolerance Sucks Rocks (Drag Me From Hell!)
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To: qam1

Which also means “safe men” get to carry all the emotional baggage too.


67 posted on 05/19/2013 12:03:12 PM PDT by Cyber Liberty (I am a dissident. Will you join me? My name is John....)
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To: Age of Reason

Couple things here.

If you look at the birthrate prior to the sexual revolution and the birthrate after I have to ask you something.

Is this is more successful strategy than getting married young to a good husband and having a large family?

The problem is that it’s a terrible strategy. What if you don’t find ‘that good man who’s also single’? What then? You’re left a single mom - which is why we have so many of them. What happens to the children - they end up in poverty and that’s not a great outcome.

Whereas - if the woman waits, THEN gets married to a good man - stays married to the same man - what happens to her children after? They are more likely to see themselves better rather than worse off than their parents.

I am not convinced by the sexual revolution’s attempt to claim ‘evolution is in favor’. It makes sense that they would claim it - but I think the consequences are clear. More STDs, poorer relations and fewer children.


68 posted on 05/19/2013 12:04:32 PM PDT by JCBreckenridge (Texas is a state of mind - Steinbeck)
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To: Luke21; A_perfect_lady

You’ll have to ask Doug Giles. He will probably say, “Yes.”


69 posted on 05/19/2013 12:05:25 PM PDT by Tolerance Sucks Rocks (Drag Me From Hell!)
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To: JCBreckenridge
. . . do you cancel on him just before the date comes. Would you put up with the guy cancelling on you? Then don’t do that to the guy if you want a confident one.

If your self-esteem depends on a woman's behavior towards you, then it isn't self-esteem to begin with.

70 posted on 05/19/2013 12:09:07 PM PDT by Age of Reason
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To: Anoreth

I lived in Oklahoma for 7 years and went to the All-Nations PowWow. There’s nothing wrong with long hair, in the right context.


71 posted on 05/19/2013 12:10:59 PM PDT by Tax-chick (Sarah is right.)
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To: Age of Reason

As a gal would you put up with a guy cancelling on you right before a planned date?

Would you give the guy a second chance?

Doubt it. And why? Because it’s all about respect. Someone cares enough to set up plans with you - you show up. If the guy cancels the first thought is this - “I guess he really wasn’t that interested anyways”.

Again - respect is not hard, treat people the way you would want to be treated.


72 posted on 05/19/2013 12:14:21 PM PDT by JCBreckenridge (Texas is a state of mind - Steinbeck)
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To: Free Vulcan

I think her standards are a step up from those of most teenage girls. I agree with her on “dress nicely,” and it goes without saying that if a man wants to be in a relationship with a camping-and-hunting girl, he should like those activities himself.


73 posted on 05/19/2013 12:15:08 PM PDT by Tax-chick (Sarah is right.)
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To: NoGrayZone

Indeed. Who are these women who are into hairless chests and silky-smooth faces, anyway? Male lips that have seen a mud-pack should not be kissing female lips. They should be kissing other male lips, baby!


74 posted on 05/19/2013 12:15:18 PM PDT by Tolerance Sucks Rocks (Drag Me From Hell!)
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To: JCBreckenridge

However you interpreted what I said, do not take it to mean that modern social mores are more in line with our evolved behavior.

The opposite is true. What is considered the traditional behavior of men and women is the healthier behavior for men, women, and society.

And it is healthier because it recognizes and seeks to manage the natural tendency of ungoverned passions to run amuck and destroy a society from within, as ours has been destroyed.


75 posted on 05/19/2013 12:16:10 PM PDT by Age of Reason
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To: Anoreth
I like men with long hair. It’s very 13th century.

Heh! So does my Wife.
76 posted on 05/19/2013 12:16:40 PM PDT by RandallFlagg
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To: Carl LaFong

Nothing shallow about any of that.


77 posted on 05/19/2013 12:19:45 PM PDT by Age of Reason
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To: Age of Reason

I’m arguing something much more deeper and profound. I am arguing that we do better when we are married and stay married. Not just because that’s what the bible teaches - but evolutionary - because that’s how we were made.

The licentiousness - has always been a poor deal. Since Adam it was a poor deal. It is about using what was made for what it was not made. Why does sex feel good - because of the necessity of children. Why does man try to cut himself off from the responsibility to just enjoy the pleasure? Is contraception an evolutionally sound idea? No - not at all. It’s about one of the most negative inventions out there if the idea is to have children and continue on the species.

If your goal is to pass your genes on the strategy is not hard. Get married young. Stay married. Have children. Raise them. It’s been the strategy forever. It’s what works and it’s what we are made for.

The rest of this? Where does it come from?


78 posted on 05/19/2013 12:20:29 PM PDT by JCBreckenridge (Texas is a state of mind - Steinbeck)
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To: A_perfect_lady

“Okay, but remember that Katniss eventually falls for Peeta, the soft-hearted artistic guy who decorates cakes, moons around after her like a lovelorn puppy, and has a tendency toward self-sacrifice”

That’s why it’s FICTION.


79 posted on 05/19/2013 12:23:35 PM PDT by Jim Noble (When strong, avoid them. Attack their weaknesses. Emerge to their surprise.)
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To: hoagy62

I think you have it wrong or perhaps just too optimistic. The feminist movement has had a major impact in our country.

I have two boys in their teens and 2nd year of college. Even the girls in church have a chip on their shoulder and think they are owed something just because they are girls.

Perhaps its different in other parts of the country.


80 posted on 05/19/2013 12:31:27 PM PDT by driftdiver (I could eat it raw, but why do uwhen I have a fire.)
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