Posted on 11/29/2005 6:01:20 PM PST by Nomorjer Kinov
No good deed goes unpunished.
Probably trashing the house is just part of their normal lifestyle.
"You are forced to accept charity," he said. "It's demeaning."
Obviously this family was quite demeaned, being forced to accept so much charity. There may be some good however - I'm sure their hosts will be much more reticent to "demean" them, or anyone else in need, in the future.
I understand the frustration of being helpless and in need..
I also understand trash...
Those of us who said not to take in refugees, even those referred by a church, were roundly crticized here a few months ago.
There's always someone who will excuse the behavior of the worst among us. The generosity was the problem. Gimme a break.
That leftist psychologist is an idiot.
Oh puleeze...sounds like all of LA made a living accepting charity for generations. They weren't demeaned by it.
there have been many stories where evacuees who were giving free housing - even in places most people would consider to be paradise - were completely ungrateful about it.
I guess some people can't abide by having it 'good' if it's unfamiliar to them - so they revert back to the lackluster conditions they're comfortable with.
Look for more stories in the same vien. When people never earn their own money this is how property and possesions get treated. I live in New Orleans and I am back full time. When other states began taking in evacuess I told my family that this would happen. All the goodhearted people who tried to help will be devastated.
Leave it to the psycobabble crowd to rush to the defense of these heathens. It would seem the wanna-be-shrink has no more idea of morality than the gutter trash from Louisiana.
Freepers should keep an eye out for this behaviour elsewhere, because these people were flown all over the country.
This idiot shrink is as nutty as these ingrates.
Wow......what can I say? Your "Keywords" are adequate! The psychologist needs a psychologist, and this family needs some condoms.
That this guy provides guidance to others is scary....
I'll bet he knows better than to be charitable.
It is a sad statement to say you were correct. This family traveled to Maryland ... that is long distance ingratitude.
Marge DiMaggio gets hit upside the head with an object lesson in reality.
"Therein might lie the problem, said psychologist Harald Graning of Confidential Counseling of Westminster."
The biggest problem is apologists for unacceptable behavior.
Well, as my grandfather used to say: "You can't shine
sh!t; you can rub it, and rub it, and rub it, but it just won't shine..."
These people may or may not be trash; but the tables could be turned. I used to work for this company and we did a Christmas thing every year. One time this couple and their family came. They dressed as nicely as possible which was really pretty good; but were driving a really nasty looking car. I was so glad we could help them; but some of our people including the manager decided to read into these people and made their stay with us very unpleasant. I was absolutely mortified. These people did nothing to deserve this kind of treatment. They knew they were coming to a company and tried to dress accordingly; but to this manager they were taking advantage of us; which I believe was totally untrue. I believe they were as honest as they could be and I could have rung that manager's neck and the others that were so cruel. You could see the hurt in their faces after being treated so shabby by these ex co-workers.
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