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A Nation of Wimps
psychology today. ^ | 5 Jul 2006 | Hara Estroff Marano

Posted on 07/29/2006 8:43:38 PM PDT by tbird5

Maybe it's the cyclist in the park, trim under his sleek metallic blue helmet, cruising along the dirt path... at three miles an hour. On his tricycle.

Or perhaps it's today's playground, all-rubber-cushioned surface where kids used to skin their knees. And... wait a minute... those aren't little kids playing. Their mommies—and especially their daddies—are in there with them, coplaying or play-by-play coaching. Few take it half-easy on the perimeter benches, as parents used to do, letting the kids figure things out for themselves.

Then there are the sanitizing gels, with which over a third of parents now send their kids to school, according to a recent survey. Presumably, parents now worry that school bathrooms are not good enough for their children.

Consider the teacher new to an upscale suburban town. Shuffling through the sheaf of reports certifying the educational "accommodations" he was required to make for many of his history students, he was struck by the exhaustive, well-written—and obviously costly—one on behalf of a girl who was already proving among the most competent of his ninth-graders. "She's somewhat neurotic," he confides, "but she is bright, organized and conscientious—the type who'd get to school to turn in a paper on time, even if she were dying of stomach flu." He finally found the disability he was to make allowances for: difficulty with Gestalt thinking. The 13-year-old "couldn't see the big picture." That cleverly devised defect (what 13-year-old can construct the big picture?) would allow her to take all her tests untimed, especially the big one at the end of the rainbow, the college-worthy SAT

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TOPICS: Culture/Society
KEYWORDS: childhood; childrearing; children; nannystate; society; sociology
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To: AnAmericanMother

did you see this article? Blasted lawyers.


61 posted on 08/07/2006 7:53:06 PM PDT by groanup (sunshine or thunder)
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To: groanup
Not just lawyers. Lawyers can't do a thing unless somebody wants to be a client.

This overprotective stuff also may stem somewhat from Child Protective Services running out of control. It's a feather in CPS's cap to "get" a middle class family.

62 posted on 08/08/2006 6:50:56 AM PDT by AnAmericanMother ((Ministrix of Ye Chase, TTGC Ladies' Auxiliary (recess appointment)))
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To: tbird5

bttt


63 posted on 09/22/2006 1:07:11 PM PDT by cornelis
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To: tbird5
Parents who use sanitizers are collectively contributing to resistant viruses.

There is a societal cost to these whack-jobs.
64 posted on 09/22/2006 1:08:42 PM PDT by freedumb2003 (Insultification is the polar opposite of Niceosity)
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To: PennsylvaniaMom
(two innings pitched and five KOs)

DAMN!! Keep that kid off the mound, he's going to give someone a concussion.... In 2 innings he knocked out 5 batters? He needs to work on his control!

65 posted on 09/22/2006 1:13:11 PM PDT by HamiltonJay
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To: PennsylvaniaMom
Everyone gets the same trophy at the end of the season

Yuck!

66 posted on 09/22/2006 1:14:37 PM PDT by cornelis
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To: gondramB

When I was living in Cali.... kids walked to school.. no bussing. It was a fairly regular occurrance that a child or another escaped someone trying to lure them into their car.

Of course, it was also a place where illegals sexually harrassed 4th and 5th graders walking home too...

Cess Pool.. so damned glad I'm out of there.


67 posted on 09/22/2006 1:15:39 PM PDT by HamiltonJay
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To: HamiltonJay
a friend of mine worked in a firm where A PARENT accompanied their recently college-graduated kid to the job interview. they laughed them out of there!

Helicopter Parents
68 posted on 09/22/2006 2:09:12 PM PDT by Swordfished
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To: Swordfished

I'd laugh em out too...

IF you haven't cut the cord by the time you've graduated college, I don't want you working for me.


69 posted on 09/22/2006 2:28:37 PM PDT by HamiltonJay
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To: gondramB

geez, you make a lot of assumptions...Do you have kids?


70 posted on 09/22/2006 2:34:24 PM PDT by never4get (I Do Whatever My Rice Krispies Tell Me To......)
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To: tbird5
Excellent article. Thanks for posting.

In some respects we're becoming a Nation of Spoiled Wimps. Nowadays kids want for very little.

71 posted on 09/22/2006 2:42:13 PM PDT by Starboard
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To: HamiltonJay; cornelis
Ks!!! (strikes!!!) No knock outs!!! Damn my proofing skills :((son is really a good pitcher!)

Anyhoo...this is oldie thread given new life.

FRegards, PaMom

72 posted on 09/22/2006 6:04:47 PM PDT by PennsylvaniaMom (Take the high road...the view is always better.)
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To: BnBlFlag
And these wimps will certainly be no match for the Islamic fanatics much less the Criminal elements in our own Society which are being imported by the Administration in massive numbers. May God help us.

You're right. Example: Virginia Tech.

73 posted on 06/04/2007 11:21:35 AM PDT by randog (What the...?!)
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